dont know if im being paranoid or not..if i am someone just tell me lol..
the last few weeks i been hearing strange noices (like a text message noice/low battery) not sure which 1 it is in my room..its been buggin me but i know its only me in the room and its not my phone..sometimes my OH has been in the room and its not hes phone either..
anyway lastnight i was laying awake half the night not being able to sleep and for the 1st time i herd that same phone tone,heard it again and then after about an hour it made the noice that phones do when they run outa battery..like duh duh duh if u know what i mean so i knoww for sure its a phone!! it could only be my OH's..when he says he only has 1 phone..
we have always had spare phones laying round the house and 2 b honest iv lost track of how many hes even got so im not sure if hes just switching it on n playing about when its got no sim card in or something or actually using it as a 2nd phone that i dont know about and texting/calling other people?!
if he is then id say its girls..i just dont understand why the phone wouldnt be put on silent if he had something to hide coz surely he knows im hearing it??
hes gone to work today but i wanted to text him asking him about the phone..i dont really know how to say it without accusing him but i know hes got 1 silver phone from ages ago that was just laying about with a dead bat and no sim card now im looking around i cant find it nowhere so i dunno
what would you girls think?x
Hmmm... its a hard one! Some phones still bleep when their on silent and losing battery cos my phone keeps bleeping on silent still! Would be weird that his hid it thou.. U shoulda tried following the noise and find it whilst he was asleep! I wouldnt txt him asking about it.. u should do it face to face cos then u see his reaction, and as u've been with him 6 years, u must be able to tell when his lieing! I dont know y he'd be using it to talk to girls thou.. does he go out on his own etc? where would he of got other girls numbers from... Has he been acting any different? xx
yeh maybe your rite its on silent but was bleepin low battery..i was trying so hard to follow it and it sounded like it was coming from the wardrobe but yday he decided to come upstairs and do weights and when i come up the door was locked and he did take about a min to unlock it..doesnt seem long but he was like rite behind the door so thinkin about that,that was a bit strange..mayb he was on it then im not sure..
he doesnt really go out alone..has started a new job tho so could of met a girl there?even tho i know everyone he works with mayb 1 of the regular customers or something..he hasnt been acting that much different but i smell a rat i think..i know if i do it to hes face hes just gunna go off on 1 and deny it and itl turn into a nasty argument thats the only reason i dont wanna do it face 2 face..x
Thats really strange that he locked the door!! Y would he do that if he was only doing weights.. has he ever locked the door b4? Ok I'd definately be paranoid by now too..
What does he work as? Hmm yeh he could of met someone if his dealing with people.. But really.. u've been with him 6 years.. in ur heart do u think he'd do this to u whilst ur carrying his baby?
Ok to avoid an arguement and stress I'd leave it for now.. See if u can hear the phone again and keep an eye on him.. like if he goes upstairs to do weights u could go sit on the bed whilst his doing it? or sneak upstairs and listen outside the door.
Main thing is dont get urself worked up over it cos it could all be innocent so try not to worry xx
hes locked it one or 2 times in the 6 yrs and thats it..mayb he just didnt have enough time to turn the phone off coz i come up unexpectidly..he works in the hospital in one of the shops..my old job so i know everyone hes working with but alot of the nurses and girls that work their like him coz i had 1 girl go over to my sister asking if she knows who that boy is coz hes hot and shes guna get his number ad my sister was like er no thats my sisters bf they r hvin a baby and she goes oh well he was polite to me,watch me get it!loads of girls after him in there so its like all hes gta do is giv in :/
im not gunna worry too much but id like to know so im not being taken for a mug if he is up to something..proposing to me like 5 days ago a month from having hes baby..hmm x
Hmm does sound very odd! & ok so he could easily have got a number of girls then..
Well, ur just gonna see how it goes for now and keep a very close eye on him and watch his behaviour etc.. and if ur still not happy, ur gonna have to confront him and see how he reacts! I forgot u just got engaged.. surely he wouldnt of bothered getting a ring and proposing to u if he was playing away! Just see how it goes hun.. I hope its all innocent and we're just being paranoid lol. xxx
If I were you I'd text him and say something like "I think I'm going mad...I swear I can hear a phone going off lol" and then see how he replies, I think that'll probably give away whether it's his or not x
the thing is iv looked everywhere and the phone has gone so i think that hes taken it to work with him so i cant say i can hear it anymore so if i say that he wil know im lying..
why do boys have to play games for!arghh x
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