So annoyed!

KateyCakes · Sep 27th, 2010, 10:34 AM

Pointless thread like all mine usually are but I was so mad at the doctor in the hospital the other day!!

I'd had a few spells of spotting + cramping on Saturday morning so OH rushed me to A+E.
When I got called in to see the doctor + she told me to do a urine sample to check the pregancy + all that.
We were waiting ages + she came into the room and her face dropped, she closed the curtain around me + said to me (in a disappointed tone I should add!) That the pregnancy test has come back positive + asked me what I wanted to do about!

WHAT??
I felt like knocking her out seriously!

She'd frightened me to death, I thought she was going to tell me something was wrong!!
And to make matters worse, it was like she was frowning on the fact I wanted to be a teenage mum!!
I told her bluntly that if I want to keep this baby then it's my choice not hers.

I'd happily run her over the amount of shame she was trying to place on me!!!!

rjb · Sep 27th, 2010, 10:39 AM

maybe she just didn't expect you to be excited?

some people do't know how to respond i think.

KateyCakes · Sep 27th, 2010, 10:43 AM

This was my first thought too, but I remember telling her that we'd planned the pregnancy when I walked into the room!
I already knew I was pregnant, I was there because I wanted to check my little cake was okay..
If that makes any sense in the slightest?

kaz87 · Sep 27th, 2010, 11:01 AM

I popped over from 1st tri. Im 22, nearly 23 and I rung my docs for results and she said ring me tomorrow when your not at work and tell us what you want to do about it, yer tar!!!! x

rjb · Sep 27th, 2010, 11:01 AM

it definitely does.
idk, maybe she forgot or something?
my doctor was really excited about my LO, even though i was only 14 and she wasn't planned.. at the time it kinda threw me off.
i think our doctors must be confused

KateyCakes · Sep 27th, 2010, 11:23 AM

She looked like the kind of person who desn't agree with sex outside marriage, Very old fashioned.
Luckily I don't have to see her again, unless I end up in A+E again
My actual GP was just as excited as me

She rang me up the other day, just to check how I was! She's great

libbymarks198 · Sep 27th, 2010, 14:11 PM

that would piss me off i would of slapped her lol but i am pretty phycho atm with my hormones

Sep 27th, 2010, 10:34 AM	#1
KateyCakes Other BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 2,541	So annoyed! Pointless thread like all mine usually are but I was so mad at the doctor in the hospital the other day!! I'd had a few spells of spotting + cramping on Saturday morning so OH rushed me to A+E. When I got called in to see the doctor + she told me to do a urine sample to check the pregancy + all that. We were waiting ages + she came into the room and her face dropped, she closed the curtain around me + said to me (in a disappointed tone I should add!) That the pregnancy test has come back positive + asked me what I wanted to do about! WHAT?? I felt like knocking her out seriously! She'd frightened me to death, I thought she was going to tell me something was wrong!! And to make matters worse, it was like she was frowning on the fact I wanted to be a teenage mum!! I told her bluntly that if I want to keep this baby then it's my choice not hers. I'd happily run her over the amount of shame she was trying to place on me!!!!

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Sep 27th, 2010, 10:39 AM	#2
rjb Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 2,027	maybe she just didn't expect you to be excited? some people do't know how to respond i think.

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Sep 27th, 2010, 10:43 AM	#3
KateyCakes Other BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 2,541	This was my first thought too, but I remember telling her that we'd planned the pregnancy when I walked into the room! I already knew I was pregnant, I was there because I wanted to check my little cake was okay.. If that makes any sense in the slightest?

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Sep 27th, 2010, 11:01 AM	#4
kaz87 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Devon Posts: 998	I popped over from 1st tri. Im 22, nearly 23 and I rung my docs for results and she said ring me tomorrow when your not at work and tell us what you want to do about it, yer tar!!!! x

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Sep 27th, 2010, 11:01 AM	#5
rjb Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 2,027	it definitely does. idk, maybe she forgot or something? my doctor was really excited about my LO, even though i was only 14 and she wasn't planned.. at the time it kinda threw me off. i think our doctors must be confused

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Sep 27th, 2010, 11:23 AM	#6
KateyCakes Other BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 2,541	She looked like the kind of person who desn't agree with sex outside marriage, Very old fashioned. Luckily I don't have to see her again, unless I end up in A+E again My actual GP was just as excited as me She rang me up the other day, just to check how I was! She's great

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libbymarks198 Waiting To Try (WTT) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: New Zealand Posts: 2,195	that would piss me off i would of slapped her lol but i am pretty phycho atm with my hormones

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