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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 22:03 PM   1
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14 and pregnant with twins! Terrified...


Hi I am Belle I'm 14, and am pregnant with (maybe, the docs arent 100 percent sure yet) twins. I havent told my dad yet, but my mom has been taking me to the doctor. Since he lives across the country, I'm gonna have him over close to my due date and tell him then. I'm terrified of labor, and telling my friends. What was labor like for you? How did your friends react?



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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 22:14 PM   2
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I was 18 when i got pregnant, and to be honest i lost alot of my friends...but to be honest the way i look at it is, if they choose not to be friends then they really werent friends in the first place...(hopefully yours take it differently!! good luck telling them!!)

and labor isnt as bad as they make it sound cause after a few months you forget the pain, Im pregnant with my 2nd and im jst as terrified of labor this time as i was the first lol but good luck! and congrats on ur pregnancy!!! are you excited?!



 
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Old Feb 13th, 2011, 22:18 PM   3
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scaredd mostly but kinda pumped...it feels just plain odd u know? thank god for my mom



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Old Feb 14th, 2011, 02:47 AM   4
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First of all congratulations!

I think that you should tell your dad now. Well it's alright to be terrified and as far as I know and I have read it that its completely normal. Just try to relax.



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Old Feb 14th, 2011, 03:40 AM   5
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Congratulations! Twins! How exciting!
I was 18 when i fell pregnant and most of my friends took it quite well!
Labour, for me, wasnt as bad as i was led to think!
Good luck!



 
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Old Feb 14th, 2011, 07:53 AM   6
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Congratulations hun and welcome to bnb

My name is Amy, I'm 20 years old and I have an 8 month old named Kenneth.

I didn't have many friends to begin with but the friends I did have definitely distanced themselves away from me when they found out I was pregnant and haven't been around since. Except for the ones that have children themselves. But I don't mind! Labor was ok, I had a c-section (emergency) so it wasn't the BEST laboring experience but he's here now, safe & sound so I can't complain. Good luck with your pregnancy hun.



 
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Old Feb 14th, 2011, 09:55 AM   7
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congrats!
i was 14 when i fell pregnant too
twins! how exciting! i've always wanted twins!
does the father of the baby(ies) know?



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Old Feb 15th, 2011, 09:18 AM   8
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Oh wow,twins!Lucky you.I want twins.
Congratulations and good luck with telling your dad.
I had Aliyah when i was 22 but everyone took very well to it,friends & family and im sure your's will too x



 
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Old Feb 15th, 2011, 09:32 AM   9
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I had my first at 16 and my second is due in sept, (I'm 22 now). My friends and family took it well. It's a big challenge, and you'd have to work a lot harder than a 30 year old mum, but it's def worth it! Good luck to you



 
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Old Feb 15th, 2011, 12:40 PM   10
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Hello
I had my little girl Lily when i was 14 and i wouldn't change a thing for the world. I lost most of my friends, I was really popular before but then i had two proper friends that were there for me the whole time !! But i really wouldn't of cared if i had no friends at all because i had Lily !!
Now i am 16 and 13 days ago i gave birth to our second little girl Maddison labour isn't as bad as it looks and sounds, when you see your baby the pain goes !
If i can do it, anyone can do it !!



 
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