New user.. Hellp?!

luciixxx · Jul 4th, 2011, 07:01 AM

hi guys, im 15 years old and today i just found out im pregnant... ive always said to myself if i get pregnant in my teens i would keep the baby, however now im in the real situation im stuck and i dont know what to do?! i want to still keep the baby but im scared il struggle with money and with my education etc... any advise please girls?!? xxx

charlotte88 · Jul 4th, 2011, 07:03 AM

have you told your parents of babies dad yet?
You need to seriously consider your options and weigh up pros and cons before making any brash decisions.

if you want to discuss options your more then welcome to pm me

xx

luciixxx · Jul 4th, 2011, 07:12 AM

i think ive added you as a friend, im not sure how to pm people, but i would be greatful to speak to you... sorry im new to this and dont know how to use it... x

Lexilove · Jul 4th, 2011, 07:15 AM

Hi love, congrats on your pregnancy

I'm Lexi, 18 and 32 weeks pregnant with a little girl. Feel free to message me if you need to talk.

luciixxx · Jul 4th, 2011, 07:21 AM

ive only told my mum and the babys dad... please somone tell me how to pm people coz i would love to speak to someone? thanksgirls xx

charlotte88 · Jul 4th, 2011, 07:22 AM

it seems you cant pm till youve posted a certain amount of posts i think.

I will try and pm you but its not giving me the option atm.

How did your mum and babys dad react? xx

luciixxx · Jul 4th, 2011, 07:28 AM

awww okay thats fine, erm, mum was really calm and supportive, and she is happy to go through with whatever i decide, and babys dad just got really angry and he was shocked, i dont really know coz it was over text but im seeing him this afternoon (as my mum did my pregnancy test at work coz shes a nurse and then picked me up from school so i havent really had a chance to speak to him but he will probably want me to get rid of it... :/ ) xx

charlotte88 · Jul 4th, 2011, 07:30 AM

whatever happens dont let anyone sway your decisions, i let people sway the way i was thinking and even though now i see it was the right thing that i did, at the time i felt like i was the worlds worst person.

No one on here will judge you for the decisions you make but make sure they are your decisions.

x

luciixxx · Jul 4th, 2011, 07:32 AM

okay thankyou so much! xx

Lexilove · Jul 4th, 2011, 07:45 AM

I'll try to pm you now

are you in the U.S or the U.K? glad your mom is being so supportive.

Jul 4th, 2011, 07:01 AM	#1
luciixxx Other New BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 6	New user.. Hellp?! hi guys, im 15 years old and today i just found out im pregnant... ive always said to myself if i get pregnant in my teens i would keep the baby, however now im in the real situation im stuck and i dont know what to do?! i want to still keep the baby but im scared il struggle with money and with my education etc... any advise please girls?!? xxx

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Jul 4th, 2011, 07:03 AM	#2
charlotte88 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,897	have you told your parents of babies dad yet? You need to seriously consider your options and weigh up pros and cons before making any brash decisions. if you want to discuss options your more then welcome to pm me xx

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Jul 4th, 2011, 07:12 AM	#3
luciixxx Other New BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 6	i think ive added you as a friend, im not sure how to pm people, but i would be greatful to speak to you... sorry im new to this and dont know how to use it... x

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Jul 4th, 2011, 07:15 AM	#4
Lexilove Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: USA Posts: 1,191	Hi love, congrats on your pregnancy I'm Lexi, 18 and 32 weeks pregnant with a little girl. Feel free to message me if you need to talk.

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Jul 4th, 2011, 07:21 AM	#5
luciixxx Other New BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 6	ive only told my mum and the babys dad... please somone tell me how to pm people coz i would love to speak to someone? thanksgirls xx

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Jul 4th, 2011, 07:22 AM	#6
charlotte88 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,897	it seems you cant pm till youve posted a certain amount of posts i think. I will try and pm you but its not giving me the option atm. How did your mum and babys dad react? xx

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Jul 4th, 2011, 07:28 AM	#7
luciixxx Other New BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 6	awww okay thats fine, erm, mum was really calm and supportive, and she is happy to go through with whatever i decide, and babys dad just got really angry and he was shocked, i dont really know coz it was over text but im seeing him this afternoon (as my mum did my pregnancy test at work coz shes a nurse and then picked me up from school so i havent really had a chance to speak to him but he will probably want me to get rid of it... :/ ) xx

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Jul 4th, 2011, 07:30 AM	#8
charlotte88 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 1,897	whatever happens dont let anyone sway your decisions, i let people sway the way i was thinking and even though now i see it was the right thing that i did, at the time i felt like i was the worlds worst person. No one on here will judge you for the decisions you make but make sure they are your decisions. x

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Jul 4th, 2011, 07:32 AM	#9
luciixxx Other New BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Posts: 6	okay thankyou so much! xx

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Jul 4th, 2011, 07:45 AM	#10
Lexilove Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: USA Posts: 1,191	I'll try to pm you now are you in the U.S or the U.K? glad your mom is being so supportive.

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