Single moms?

Mii · Jul 18th, 2011, 16:51 PM

So I have been single since I was around 3 months pregnant... and Ive just been thinking how on earth will I ever have another relationship

Honestly Im not in a big hurry to get into a relationship but I kind of feel that I wont have another realtionship for years just because Im a young mom

Is anyone else kind going through the same thing? Or something similar?

xSarahM · Jul 18th, 2011, 16:55 PM

Erm, idk if me and FOB are gunna last as he keeps being really immature, and instead of just dealing with things, he storms out, so... Things arent looking too peachy!

Tbh it has crossed my mind, that if me and FOB dont stay together, i might not get another boyfriend for ages. But it doesnt bother me as much as i thought it would. I'll have two gorgeous little cherubs who i'll love more than i could ever love any man. I mean, obviously i'll miss the small things. Someone to cuddle, watch tv with, talk to. But it'll all be okay. Their loss!

Lucy22 · Jul 18th, 2011, 17:00 PM

I'm going through the same thing but different circumstances.

My OH and I started going out at 14, had our first Elena at 18 and married at 20. I thought we were rock solid, but he left me last week. I suspect he's having an affair.

I definitely don't think I'll ever be in a relationship again..Whose gonna want a 22yr old divorceé with 2 kids?

Don't worry, we'll be great mommies..Men are just sperm donors

xSarahM · Jul 18th, 2011, 17:04 PM

Lucy, i'd marry you!

Mii · Jul 18th, 2011, 17:05 PM

Sara - I keep saying the only man I need in my life is my son and right now its the truth

but I know one day I will miss having that kind of affaction.

Lucy - Thats funny everyone I know calls my sons biological father 'sperm donor' (I even do, I dont think he deserves the title of father or dad)

Lucy22 · Jul 18th, 2011, 17:07 PM

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Originally Posted by xSarahM

Lucy, i'd marry you!

That sounds like a plan Sarah

YoungMommy93 · Jul 18th, 2011, 17:21 PM

I am semi going through something similar.. i just turned 18 and find out for sure tomorrow if im pregnant (according to 4 positive hpt's I am) and the father is my ex, we hooked up 2 nights when I went to visit and now I am possibly preggo, He denied me and the 'baby' for his gf and told me to go die.. It hurts.. I don't know if I ever want anyone else in my life but my baby. Maybe one day I will but right now if I am pregnant my baby has my whole heart..
-If your in there, Mommy Loves You-

AROluvsJMP · Jul 18th, 2011, 18:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucy22

I'm going through the same thing but different circumstances.

My OH and I started going out at 14, had our first Elena at 18 and married at 20. I thought we were rock solid, but he left me last week. I suspect he's having an affair.

I definitely don't think I'll ever be in a relationship again..Whose gonna want a 22yr old divorceé with 2 kids? rofl:

Don't worry, we'll be great mommies..Men are just sperm donors

Awh Lucy! you made me want to cry! youll find someone!

Leah_xx · Jul 18th, 2011, 19:09 PM

Hey Hun
Im leah and Im 18.
I have been a actual single mommy for 3 months now.
FOB went away to college in August and didnt end up coming home until November but was home on weekends. It was hard just getting help those days.
But relationship wise I'm not worried about it.
Yes I want someone to cuddle with and kiss and go out with.
but once you have your little one you will be too busy to worry about a relationship.
But i was talking to a guy and I told him straight forward "i have a daughter and she is my main priority"
he told me that he understands and wishes me the best of luck with life.
well the thing is there is a guy out there for each and everyone of us and they will love you and your LO no matter what.

Leah_xx · Jul 18th, 2011, 19:12 PM

Lucy- What you posted about whats going on with you and ur husband or ex made me cry. Im sooo sorry that happened to you

Jul 18th, 2011, 16:51 PM	#1
Mii Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 1,149	Single moms? So I have been single since I was around 3 months pregnant... and Ive just been thinking how on earth will I ever have another relationship Honestly Im not in a big hurry to get into a relationship but I kind of feel that I wont have another realtionship for years just because Im a young mom Is anyone else kind going through the same thing? Or something similar?

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Jul 18th, 2011, 16:55 PM	#2
xSarahM Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: England Posts: 3,159	Erm, idk if me and FOB are gunna last as he keeps being really immature, and instead of just dealing with things, he storms out, so... Things arent looking too peachy! Tbh it has crossed my mind, that if me and FOB dont stay together, i might not get another boyfriend for ages. But it doesnt bother me as much as i thought it would. I'll have two gorgeous little cherubs who i'll love more than i could ever love any man. I mean, obviously i'll miss the small things. Someone to cuddle, watch tv with, talk to. But it'll all be okay. Their loss!

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Jul 18th, 2011, 17:00 PM	#3
Lucy22 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2011 Posts: 2,933	I'm going through the same thing but different circumstances. My OH and I started going out at 14, had our first Elena at 18 and married at 20. I thought we were rock solid, but he left me last week. I suspect he's having an affair. I definitely don't think I'll ever be in a relationship again..Whose gonna want a 22yr old divorceé with 2 kids? Don't worry, we'll be great mommies..Men are just sperm donors

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xSarahM Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: England Posts: 3,159	Lucy, i'd marry you!

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Mii Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 1,149	Sara - I keep saying the only man I need in my life is my son and right now its the truth but I know one day I will miss having that kind of affaction. Lucy - Thats funny everyone I know calls my sons biological father 'sperm donor' (I even do, I dont think he deserves the title of father or dad)

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Jul 18th, 2011, 17:21 PM	#7
YoungMommy93 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 49	I am semi going through something similar.. i just turned 18 and find out for sure tomorrow if im pregnant (according to 4 positive hpt's I am) and the father is my ex, we hooked up 2 nights when I went to visit and now I am possibly preggo, He denied me and the 'baby' for his gf and told me to go die.. It hurts.. I don't know if I ever want anyone else in my life but my baby. Maybe one day I will but right now if I am pregnant my baby has my whole heart.. -If your in there, Mommy Loves You-

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Jul 18th, 2011, 19:09 PM	#9
Leah_xx Other Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: Ohio Posts: 3,708	Hey Hun Im leah and Im 18. I have been a actual single mommy for 3 months now. FOB went away to college in August and didnt end up coming home until November but was home on weekends. It was hard just getting help those days. But relationship wise I'm not worried about it. Yes I want someone to cuddle with and kiss and go out with. but once you have your little one you will be too busy to worry about a relationship. But i was talking to a guy and I told him straight forward "i have a daughter and she is my main priority" he told me that he understands and wishes me the best of luck with life. well the thing is there is a guy out there for each and everyone of us and they will love you and your LO no matter what.

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Jul 18th, 2011, 19:12 PM	#10
Leah_xx Other Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: Ohio Posts: 3,708	Lucy- What you posted about whats going on with you and ur husband or ex made me cry. Im sooo sorry that happened to you

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