so my dads girlfriend is doing my absolute head in!, they both know im pregnant and have done for a few weeks now. me and her have never really got along and i've just genuinely never really liked her, my dads ex (not my mum) i loved to bits, but this one, shes so childish, immature, everything is like a competition and her attitude stinks. so heres my rant; she works 3 days a week but only works for 3 hours of those days cause of 'medical reasons', she does absolutely NOTHING on her days off apart from sit on her backside, im 13 weeks pregnant, i work 5 days a week full time, standing on my feet ALL DAY, so i come home from work really wanting to just chill and have a nice hot shower, shes been in doors from like 12 and she chooses to have a bath at the time i come home from work which i know she does on purpose she always have, then i tell her what my dad said there is for dinner and she turns round and goes 'oh im not hungry', so not only do i have to wait about an hour for the water to heat up ive gotta go and stand in my work uniform and cook aswell!, i know im independant and all that but shes so selfish AHHHHH!
rant over-

If you lived here I'd ask you what her name is, sounds like my uncle's exwife! What a bitch, some people are just lazy like that though. :/ Deal with it best you can unfortunately, you are your dad's daughter and you are permanent...she is not. If she ever gets on you about being "lazy" or anything, which I am sure you are not, she'd be the one getting the boot imo. All you can really do is deal with her immature antics and passive aggressive behaviour for now.

the annoying thing is she does little things to spite me, like since she came along which has been like 7 years now, i get little holes in my clothes, and she'll eat all the food in the house :L, and then when i tell my dad, he dosnt beleive me!!. no one likes her, even my mum liked his other ex but she hates this one, shes just pathetic, does my swede in!! xx

Oh wow that's ridiculous -.- Sorry you have to deal with that Yeah, sounds like my ex-aunt Lisa Petty, lazy, and would lock us (me and her son who were only 3 and 4years) out of the house in the orchard so we didn't bug her while she watched her soap operas all day.

Is there any way you can possibly move in with your mum instead?

heres another thing, i just put a pizza in the oven before i had a shower, and i asked her to keep an eye on it while i was showering, she didnt bother so i got out and it was still in the oven burnt and rock hard, so i binned it, now ive got nothing for dinner.

and my mum lives up near hastings :/ x