Well, didn't go as planned... he put the blame on me. he is talking to me like i am some b*tch on the street. he is denying how i think he has mood/anger problems.. he is being completely selfish. and talking crap about the baby.
just perfect... why i didn't want to tell him
sorry things are going that way for you, hopefully he'll come around maybe he is just scared
it's not just fear he's being quite devilish.
i understand his fear as i have the same but... when you say "i'll talk to you however i want" "if you got a problem call me" "whats with you running your fucking mouth" shit like that.. that's very low and disrespectful of him.
Oh what a prick, reacting that way He may be just shocked and scared, but he shouldn't talk to you like that. :/
I'd let him deal with it however he needs to for a bit, I'm sorry.
Yeah all he kept saying was he hopes it dies wish it was dead... it made me so sick i swear i could throw up
he should have suspected it and expected it.
i just don't want to have to go to court for child support and live like hateful parents. i am still going to live my life as planned. he needs to be a man not a boy..
Wow..sounds like a winner :/ I'm sorry.
Your LO needs a dad, just cause he's the FOB doesn't mean he can be a dad....and realistically, all LO really needs is you to love and support him/her
I just want him to own up too just like i did and have too. but i know he's going to put everything on me with his dad. cause he lives with his dad and older brother.. i can just see him saying "oh she is the one who didn't want to wear condoms" blah blah. truth is after the 1st time of unprotected sex we both wanted it and both wanted the risk. i told him sex is something i don't care for or need i don't even like sex much.. i told him we shouldn't be having sex... he had the free will to not cum and to not have sex he did it anyways.. half the time i gave in cause it caused fights when i didn't want too. :/ he made jokes about us having a baby warmed up to the idea.. now i am the bad one? BS
He's probably just in shock. My guy has a tendency to fly off the handle and go MIA for a few days whenever he gets bad news/I do something stupid that affects him... so I generally just grit my teeth and tell myself he needs time/space and doesn't mean the things he says. He always comes back around. I'm counting on that this time, as I haven't told him about bean yet.
Hopefully the same goes for you guys and he gets excited again. How was your relationship beforehand?
my OH's mother did this and now that im close to having her she wants to be in on her life and be the wonderful grandma needless to say OH and i are not letting her near our lil girl after that but he may come around in time
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