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Old Jan 22nd, 2013, 15:04 PM   1
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getting married


So I'm getting married in a few weeks and FOB is being really difficult, he still won't even let him see Devlin! I am going to compose an email about it and am not sure how to go about it any ideas?



 
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Old Jan 23rd, 2013, 20:06 PM   2
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Won't let you see Devlin? Or your OH?


If it's you he is with holding your child from, contact the courts immediately.



 
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Old Jan 24th, 2013, 12:05 PM   3
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From OH. Our agreement was for the first six visits he couldn't come with me while we're awaiting trial. Now FOB is saying things like a couple visits haven't,"counted" and he wont let him come with me anyway. I am also getting the feeling that he will not file for a hearing when it is time to next month either. :S



 
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Old Jan 26th, 2013, 09:15 AM   4
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If he doesn't file, can't you? Does devlin have a law guardian? I hope fob pulls his head out of his ass because seeing as your getting married he can't keep your oh away forever, and you being the mother would ten to one get custody back anyway.



 
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Old Jan 28th, 2013, 15:45 PM   5
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Why does he have LO? Can you not file for the hearing yourself?



 
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Old Jan 28th, 2013, 20:25 PM   6
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What a jerk. Hope you get it all settled.



 
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Old Feb 3rd, 2013, 20:59 PM   7
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We talked about it today and he's agreed to file in March. If we don't both agree I have to go through custody paperwork all over again. Fob is still very stiff about OH seeing him. It's getting to be extremely frustrating.



 
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Old Feb 5th, 2013, 11:30 AM   8
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I'm confused, who's his guardian at the moment? As in who is he living with, You or FOB?



 
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Old Feb 5th, 2013, 11:49 AM   9
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Fob currently has him its a really long story but I am getting internet tonight and I'll explain the last few months when I have a computer. We have a temporary agreement until our next hearing, where I get to see himand that hurts enough in itself.



 
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Old Feb 5th, 2013, 11:52 AM   10
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Ah right I see.
I think for now, even though you're getting married, you should just concentrate on seeing LO for yourself, there's plenty of time to introduce OH



 
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