getting married

Miss_Quirky · Jan 22nd, 2013, 15:04 PM

So I'm getting married in a few weeks and FOB is being really difficult, he still won't even let him see Devlin! I am going to compose an email about it and am not sure how to go about it

any ideas?

xforuiholdonx · Jan 23rd, 2013, 20:06 PM

Won't let you see Devlin? Or your OH?

If it's you he is with holding your child from, contact the courts immediately.

Miss_Quirky · Jan 24th, 2013, 12:05 PM

From OH. Our agreement was for the first six visits he couldn't come with me while we're awaiting trial. Now FOB is saying things like a couple visits haven't,"counted" and he wont let him come with me anyway. I am also getting the feeling that he will not file for a hearing when it is time to next month either. :S

xforuiholdonx · Jan 26th, 2013, 09:15 AM

If he doesn't file, can't you? Does devlin have a law guardian? I hope fob pulls his head out of his ass because seeing as your getting married he can't keep your oh away forever, and you being the mother would ten to one get custody back anyway.

mayb_baby · Jan 28th, 2013, 15:45 PM

Why does he have LO? Can you not file for the hearing yourself?

x__amour · Jan 28th, 2013, 20:25 PM

What a jerk. Hope you get it all settled.

Miss_Quirky · Feb 3rd, 2013, 20:59 PM

We talked about it today and he's agreed to file in March. If we don't both agree I have to go through custody paperwork all over again. Fob is still very stiff about OH seeing him. It's getting to be extremely frustrating.

Elizax · Feb 5th, 2013, 11:30 AM

I'm confused, who's his guardian at the moment? As in who is he living with, You or FOB?

Miss_Quirky · Feb 5th, 2013, 11:49 AM

Fob currently has him

its a really long story but I am getting internet tonight and I'll explain the last few months when I have a computer. We have a temporary agreement until our next hearing, where I get to see himand that hurts enough in itself.

Elizax · Feb 5th, 2013, 11:52 AM

Ah right I see.
I think for now, even though you're getting married, you should just concentrate on seeing LO for yourself, there's plenty of time to introduce OH

Jan 22nd, 2013, 15:04 PM	#1
Miss_Quirky Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: California Posts: 1,216	getting married So I'm getting married in a few weeks and FOB is being really difficult, he still won't even let him see Devlin! I am going to compose an email about it and am not sure how to go about it any ideas?

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Jan 23rd, 2013, 20:06 PM	#2
xforuiholdonx Other BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: East Coast Posts: 2,648	Won't let you see Devlin? Or your OH? If it's you he is with holding your child from, contact the courts immediately.

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Jan 24th, 2013, 12:05 PM	#3
Miss_Quirky Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: California Posts: 1,216	From OH. Our agreement was for the first six visits he couldn't come with me while we're awaiting trial. Now FOB is saying things like a couple visits haven't,"counted" and he wont let him come with me anyway. I am also getting the feeling that he will not file for a hearing when it is time to next month either. :S

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Jan 26th, 2013, 09:15 AM	#4
xforuiholdonx Other BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: East Coast Posts: 2,648	If he doesn't file, can't you? Does devlin have a law guardian? I hope fob pulls his head out of his ass because seeing as your getting married he can't keep your oh away forever, and you being the mother would ten to one get custody back anyway.

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Jan 28th, 2013, 15:45 PM	#5
mayb_baby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 6,782	Why does he have LO? Can you not file for the hearing yourself?

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Jan 28th, 2013, 20:25 PM	#6
x__amour Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Colorado Posts: 16,587	What a jerk. Hope you get it all settled.

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Feb 3rd, 2013, 20:59 PM	#7
Miss_Quirky Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: California Posts: 1,216	We talked about it today and he's agreed to file in March. If we don't both agree I have to go through custody paperwork all over again. Fob is still very stiff about OH seeing him. It's getting to be extremely frustrating.

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Feb 5th, 2013, 11:30 AM	#8
Elizax Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: UK, Cleveland Posts: 1,706	I'm confused, who's his guardian at the moment? As in who is he living with, You or FOB?

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Feb 5th, 2013, 11:49 AM	#9
Miss_Quirky Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: California Posts: 1,216	Fob currently has him its a really long story but I am getting internet tonight and I'll explain the last few months when I have a computer. We have a temporary agreement until our next hearing, where I get to see himand that hurts enough in itself.

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Feb 5th, 2013, 11:52 AM	#10
Elizax Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: UK, Cleveland Posts: 1,706	Ah right I see. I think for now, even though you're getting married, you should just concentrate on seeing LO for yourself, there's plenty of time to introduce OH

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