Hm..

lauram_92 · Sep 21st, 2011, 15:03 PM

So this girl I know lost a baby at 20 weeks, the baby was found to have spina bifida & fluid to the brain. Tbh I am not sure if she chose to stop the pregnancy or not - because I know it was an option for her & I don't really speak to her anymore. Anyway, I was looking through Facebook the other day and had put up pictures of her daughter. I cried so much seeing them

& I just don't think Facebook is really appropriate for that - I mean I wasn't expecting to see it and it was so upsetting.

Her Facebook status today was

"them moments your on your own and can't roll a joint, thanks to fake nails"

x__amour · Sep 21st, 2011, 15:09 PM

Oh my goodness...

RIP LO.

mayb_baby · Sep 21st, 2011, 15:10 PM

That's awful

abbSTAR · Sep 21st, 2011, 15:16 PM

stupid girl! (status)

Fly high little one

candicex · Sep 21st, 2011, 15:17 PM

Aww

vinteenage · Sep 21st, 2011, 15:25 PM

Rhio92 · Sep 21st, 2011, 15:28 PM

RIP Baby xxx

As for Facebook, that's really her choice. I've seen some of the ladies in the loss sections talking about putting their baby's pictures on Facebook, and some of them like to put pics up, just as they do with their children who aren't angels

Desi's_lost · Sep 21st, 2011, 16:03 PM

I can't really blame her for wanting a release after losing a baby at 20 weeks...

~RedLily~ · Sep 21st, 2011, 16:23 PM

I don't see the problem. She can put what she likes on her profile, she might find comfort in sharing the pictures with friends.
The status, not my kind of thing but it might just be a distraction for her or a way of coping.

JLFKJS · Sep 21st, 2011, 16:32 PM

Honestly seeing pictures of dead babies makes me sick to my stomach. I feel for her loss but I don't want to see it. I remember a friend of mine posted photos of her loss while I was pregnant and it literally made me sick for days, on top of that I worried myself that I was going to lose her the rest of the pregnancy.

RIP LO

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lauram_92 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 3,770	Hm.. So this girl I know lost a baby at 20 weeks, the baby was found to have spina bifida & fluid to the brain. Tbh I am not sure if she chose to stop the pregnancy or not - because I know it was an option for her & I don't really speak to her anymore. Anyway, I was looking through Facebook the other day and had put up pictures of her daughter. I cried so much seeing them & I just don't think Facebook is really appropriate for that - I mean I wasn't expecting to see it and it was so upsetting. Her Facebook status today was "them moments your on your own and can't roll a joint, thanks to fake nails"

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x__amour Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Colorado Posts: 16,588	Oh my goodness... RIP LO.

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Rhio92 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Nottingham, UK Posts: 5,178	RIP Baby xxx As for Facebook, that's really her choice. I've seen some of the ladies in the loss sections talking about putting their baby's pictures on Facebook, and some of them like to put pics up, just as they do with their children who aren't angels

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Desi's_lost Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: USA Posts: 4,334	I can't really blame her for wanting a release after losing a baby at 20 weeks...

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~RedLily~ Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 11,672	I don't see the problem. She can put what she likes on her profile, she might find comfort in sharing the pictures with friends. The status, not my kind of thing but it might just be a distraction for her or a way of coping.

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JLFKJS Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Summerville, SC Posts: 1,157	Honestly seeing pictures of dead babies makes me sick to my stomach. I feel for her loss but I don't want to see it. I remember a friend of mine posted photos of her loss while I was pregnant and it literally made me sick for days, on top of that I worried myself that I was going to lose her the rest of the pregnancy. RIP LO

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