OT: Now and Then ..?

Mii · Mar 7th, 2012, 12:02 PM

I am just a curiouse , I'm not exactly sure how to word this lol but I was wondering how many people in teen parenting are engaged, married, planning to get engaged, wanting it, hoping for etc.

Ive never been one to see the point in rushing to get married but lately I just feel like its one thing I do want now for everything to fall into place.
(go to school, get a job, get engaged, move in together, get married, have another baby.)

What are you guys looking forward to in your futurs?

Leopard · Mar 7th, 2012, 12:07 PM

I'm getting married the 24th of this month. It was planned before LO was planned

xx~Lor~xx · Mar 7th, 2012, 12:11 PM

Me and OH aren't even engaged! We have two kids together, we've been living together for almost 4 years, and we've been together 4 1/2 years!

We've spoken about marriage but it's not on the top of our 'to do' list. I'd love to just get engaged, but OH doesn't feel ready for that, so I'm contented where we are

We'll probably look to get married mid to late 20s now.

I'd love to have one more child, but that's up to financials. And hopefully we'll be earning enough to not just 'get by' but enjoy ourselves as a family. That's the want

leoniebabey · Mar 7th, 2012, 12:13 PM

i've always said i never wanted to get married LOL!

AirForceWife7 · Mar 7th, 2012, 12:14 PM

We've been married since September 20, 2010. We got married before Jon was sent off to basic training in November x

Bexxx · Mar 7th, 2012, 12:16 PM

I'm just looking forward to getting my degree, then a secure job and then my own home. Engagement and marriage just isn't important to me! It's not something I've ever really wanted.

Mii · Mar 7th, 2012, 12:20 PM

Ive never been one to want to get married either (not that the top of my list) but it feels like it is the last peice to the puzzle in my life lol

MommyGrim · Mar 7th, 2012, 12:29 PM

I've been wanting to for awhile, like the past few months or so. Me and OH have really been talking about it and we've decided that as individuals we are both ready for engagement, then to marriage, but as a couple we still have some issues to get over together. So we decided that we would wait to actually get engaged but we could start kind of planning our wedding and all that as well as saving.

It really helps me because I was really really wanting it, and now since I can openly discuss it with him, I feel I'm a bit happier, also without the stress of actually being engaged and having all that responsibility on top of everything else I have.

That probably makes no sense at all!

17thy · Mar 7th, 2012, 12:31 PM

I've been married since April 24, 2010. Coming up on 2 years really soon.

My future plans are moving into a bigger house before our second is born in September.

EllaAndLyla · Mar 7th, 2012, 12:38 PM

Were engaged but don't want to be married lol. Well we do but not anytime soon, we got engaged august 2011.

My true want is to just feel happy and stable for the future, to get off benefits and provide for myself and my daughter but I'm finding it very hard to find a job that will beable to cover rent, bills, childcare etc. We will get there one day though

Mar 7th, 2012, 12:02 PM	#1
Mii Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 1,117	OT: Now and Then ..? I am just a curiouse , I'm not exactly sure how to word this lol but I was wondering how many people in teen parenting are engaged, married, planning to get engaged, wanting it, hoping for etc. Ive never been one to see the point in rushing to get married but lately I just feel like its one thing I do want now for everything to fall into place. (go to school, get a job, get engaged, move in together, get married, have another baby.) What are you guys looking forward to in your futurs?

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Mar 7th, 2012, 12:07 PM	#2
Leopard Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Australia Posts: 4,866	I'm getting married the 24th of this month. It was planned before LO was planned

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Mar 7th, 2012, 12:11 PM	#3
xx~Lor~xx Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Essex, UK Posts: 7,159	Me and OH aren't even engaged! We have two kids together, we've been living together for almost 4 years, and we've been together 4 1/2 years! We've spoken about marriage but it's not on the top of our 'to do' list. I'd love to just get engaged, but OH doesn't feel ready for that, so I'm contented where we are We'll probably look to get married mid to late 20s now. I'd love to have one more child, but that's up to financials. And hopefully we'll be earning enough to not just 'get by' but enjoy ourselves as a family. That's the want

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Mar 7th, 2012, 12:13 PM	#4
leoniebabey Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: UK Newcastle Posts: 8,957	i've always said i never wanted to get married LOL!

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AirForceWife7 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: The Middle Of Nowhere, New Mexico Posts: 2,508	We've been married since September 20, 2010. We got married before Jon was sent off to basic training in November x

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Bexxx Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Highlands and Islands Posts: 2,479	I'm just looking forward to getting my degree, then a secure job and then my own home. Engagement and marriage just isn't important to me! It's not something I've ever really wanted.

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Mar 7th, 2012, 12:20 PM	#7
Mii Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 1,117	Ive never been one to want to get married either (not that the top of my list) but it feels like it is the last peice to the puzzle in my life lol

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Mar 7th, 2012, 12:29 PM	#8
MommyGrim Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Near Wichita, KS Posts: 1,040	I've been wanting to for awhile, like the past few months or so. Me and OH have really been talking about it and we've decided that as individuals we are both ready for engagement, then to marriage, but as a couple we still have some issues to get over together. So we decided that we would wait to actually get engaged but we could start kind of planning our wedding and all that as well as saving. It really helps me because I was really really wanting it, and now since I can openly discuss it with him, I feel I'm a bit happier, also without the stress of actually being engaged and having all that responsibility on top of everything else I have. That probably makes no sense at all!

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Mar 7th, 2012, 12:31 PM	#9
17thy Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Jacksonville, FL Posts: 2,978	I've been married since April 24, 2010. Coming up on 2 years really soon. My future plans are moving into a bigger house before our second is born in September.

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Mar 7th, 2012, 12:38 PM	#10
EllaAndLyla Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: London Posts: 4,250	Were engaged but don't want to be married lol. Well we do but not anytime soon, we got engaged august 2011. My true want is to just feel happy and stable for the future, to get off benefits and provide for myself and my daughter but I'm finding it very hard to find a job that will beable to cover rent, bills, childcare etc. We will get there one day though

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