Mar 17th, 2012, 01:33 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: australia Posts: 19 | :/ need some advice
hey my names torii im 18 and i have a 15months old son and am 35weeks pregnant i went into preterm labour 1 week ago thankfully they stopped it but since ive been out of hospital since monday and my fiance has been acting really weird since i got out his acting really selfish and ignorent and im just not sure what to do  |
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Mar 17th, 2012, 01:39 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 1,117 |
didnt want to read and run but maybe talk to him, something might be bothering him n he might not be sure how to deal with it   good luck
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Mar 17th, 2012, 03:36 AM
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| Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2009 Posts: 11,632 |
Hi hun  I'm guesssing it's all becoming real for him that he will have another baby soon. Dads react very differently to us.When I went into pre-term labour FOB was getting annoyed that I was in and out of hospital. xxx |
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Mar 17th, 2012, 03:38 AM
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| Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Essex, UK Posts: 7,159 | I'd talk to him. Maybe he's a bit stressed out, about finances etc. Unless you talk to him and try and get him to open up, you're not going to find out what's bothering him. Good luck And welcome  |
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Mar 17th, 2012, 08:04 AM
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| Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 11,060 | sounds like he just getting scared about everything .
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Mar 17th, 2012, 08:37 AM
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| Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Posts: 1,328 | I'm sure he's just as scared and worried about becoming a parent. He's also probably worried about you and the baby and your health after going into early labor.
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Mar 17th, 2012, 09:16 AM
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| Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: WestMidlands/Shropshire. Posts: 4,828 |
I agree with the other ladies. Sit down and have a chat, |
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Mar 17th, 2012, 17:51 PM
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| Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Edinburgh Posts: 1,105 |
Welcome! Its sounds like you need a goot chat with him, he may be scared about preterm labour but showing it differently Good luck with everything and hope baby 2 stays cooking for a bit longer |
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Mar 17th, 2012, 21:21 PM
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| Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Colorado Posts: 16,570 |
I agree with everyone else. Give him time, he's probably scared! |
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Mar 18th, 2012, 05:03 AM
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| Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: UK Posts: 2,864 |
May he be nervous? I agree with the others, sit down, have a chat with him and ask him outright whats bothering him. Is first LO his? Not that it matters but he could be nervous about becoming a father. Hope you sort it out |
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