How is it being a young mom? and is the father involved at all? - Page 4

danni94 · Mar 29th, 2012, 02:38 AM

Love motherhood. FOB left when I was 6 months pregnant and continues to hound me everyday, and at first (because I lived with my mum) parenting was hard as she took over alot. But now I'm in my own place, engaged to be married in May next year, bambino #2 on the way, I could not be happier. Some girls are just born to have families, doesn't matter how old they are.

MrsEngland · Mar 29th, 2012, 02:57 AM

Its hard work but I think being a mum is hard work regardless of your age.

I think situation has a lot to do with it and what support you have. My daughters father is my husband so he's been there the whole way through and completely adores his little girl, I've also had a lot of support from my mum too and I'm in a situation where money isn't a worry either so I've had pretty good circumstances to bring up a baby in.

No matter how hard it can be its always worth it! Being a mummy is the best thing ever for me.

MrsEngland · Mar 29th, 2012, 03:23 AM

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Originally Posted by danni94

Love motherhood. FOB left when I was 6 months pregnant and continues to hound me everyday, and at first (because I lived with my mum) parenting was hard as she took over alot. But now I'm in my own place, engaged to be married in May next year, bambino #2 on the way, I could not be happier. Some girls are just born to have families, doesn't matter how old they are.

I'm 6 weeks pregnant today too :thumbsup:

Elizax · Mar 29th, 2012, 03:35 AM

Put it this way, I couldn't imagine not being a mum.
It's like he's always been here, even though it's hard and tiring I would do it all over again 100x to have him here.

OH stays 3 nights a week to do his fatherly duty and spend time bonding so I'm quite fortunate I have his help and Lucas has a father who is devoted .

Also if I hadn't had Lucas I wouldn't be starting a midwifery course in September.
Lucas has changed my life completely and for the absolute better, he's also made me feel a new kind of love for him and for life, he's made me into a much more loving and caring person.

How can people say teen/young mums have wasted their life by having a child young, when it's the birth of our children that push us to do our absolute best and make a good life for them

danni94 · Mar 29th, 2012, 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted by danni94

Love motherhood. FOB left when I was 6 months pregnant and continues to hound me everyday, and at first (because I lived with my mum) parenting was hard as she took over alot. But now I'm in my own place, engaged to be married in May next year, bambino #2 on the way, I could not be happier. Some girls are just born to have families, doesn't matter how old they are.

I'm 6 weeks pregnant today too :thumbsup:

Think I just found myself a bump buddy! Mwaha.

Amber4 · Mar 29th, 2012, 06:28 AM

Well I'm only 9 days in and I love it already. I wouldn't have it any other way. I think I've found my purpose in life - to be a Mummy

It's hard work already but she's so worth all the sleepless nights and feeling like I don't get a minute to myself. I'm engaged to FOB and we did TTC our LO. He's been here all the way through my pregnancy and he's been fab since she's been born.

haydenmummy · Mar 29th, 2012, 07:20 AM

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Originally Posted by danni94

Love motherhood. FOB left when I was 6 months pregnant and continues to hound me everyday, and at first (because I lived with my mum) parenting was hard as she took over alot. But now I'm in my own place, engaged to be married in May next year, bambino #2 on the way, I could not be happier. Some girls are just born to have families, doesn't matter how old they are.

I'm 6 weeks pregnant today too :thumbsup:

Think I just found myself a bump buddy! Mwaha.

I'm 6 weeks today too xx due 22nd november

MyVeryFirst · Mar 29th, 2012, 11:39 AM

I got pregnant at 17, my husband and I were engaged 3 months prior to getting pregnant! We have been together sense 2008! We have had a couple rough patches in our relationship, but we got through them all! We were High School sweet hearts

He has been an amazing dad! And he has a great job and is able to easily support us! I am 19 now and he just turned 20

We couldn't be happier.

He also took the news very well! We were both extremely excited!

zerolivia · Mar 29th, 2012, 17:34 PM

I love being a Mommy! I think I was born to be a mother. I've always loved kids and couldn't wait to have my own. Of course when I got pregnant at 17 I wasn't the happiest person in the world but me and my love embraced it and we loooove being parents. FOB has two jobs and we live in a 3 bed 2 bath apartment with our own 2 cars and we just take care of everything ourselves! We love having our life together. It's amazing.

TaraxSophia · Mar 29th, 2012, 19:38 PM

It has been amazing! I can't imagine not being a mother now as Sophia is my world. You know that cheesy thing they say about how having a child is like having a bit of your heart walk around outside you, well it really is! I'm not going to lie its been tough as a teenage parent, seeing as I had no proper income or future plans, but that little baby made me into the person I am today, and for that I am eternally grateful. I don't think I could have coped without the love and support from my family, friends and of course soph's dad! He is very much a part of her life, literally daddy's little princess! And now I'm 18, onto baby number two! He was planned unlike sophia, and I am the happiest I've ever been! I was put on this planet to be a mother

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danni94 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Outskirts of Norwich Posts: 216	Love motherhood. FOB left when I was 6 months pregnant and continues to hound me everyday, and at first (because I lived with my mum) parenting was hard as she took over alot. But now I'm in my own place, engaged to be married in May next year, bambino #2 on the way, I could not be happier. Some girls are just born to have families, doesn't matter how old they are.

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MrsEngland Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: UK Posts: 8,055	Its hard work but I think being a mum is hard work regardless of your age. I think situation has a lot to do with it and what support you have. My daughters father is my husband so he's been there the whole way through and completely adores his little girl, I've also had a lot of support from my mum too and I'm in a situation where money isn't a worry either so I've had pretty good circumstances to bring up a baby in. No matter how hard it can be its always worth it! Being a mummy is the best thing ever for me.

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Mar 29th, 2012, 03:35 AM	#34
Elizax Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: UK, Cleveland Posts: 1,706	Put it this way, I couldn't imagine not being a mum. It's like he's always been here, even though it's hard and tiring I would do it all over again 100x to have him here. OH stays 3 nights a week to do his fatherly duty and spend time bonding so I'm quite fortunate I have his help and Lucas has a father who is devoted . Also if I hadn't had Lucas I wouldn't be starting a midwifery course in September. Lucas has changed my life completely and for the absolute better, he's also made me feel a new kind of love for him and for life, he's made me into a much more loving and caring person. How can people say teen/young mums have wasted their life by having a child young, when it's the birth of our children that push us to do our absolute best and make a good life for them

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Mar 29th, 2012, 06:28 AM	#36
Amber4 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: UK Posts: 5,725	Well I'm only 9 days in and I love it already. I wouldn't have it any other way. I think I've found my purpose in life - to be a Mummy It's hard work already but she's so worth all the sleepless nights and feeling like I don't get a minute to myself. I'm engaged to FOB and we did TTC our LO. He's been here all the way through my pregnancy and he's been fab since she's been born.

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Mar 29th, 2012, 11:39 AM	#38
MyVeryFirst Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Unity, Maine Posts: 151	I got pregnant at 17, my husband and I were engaged 3 months prior to getting pregnant! We have been together sense 2008! We have had a couple rough patches in our relationship, but we got through them all! We were High School sweet hearts He has been an amazing dad! And he has a great job and is able to easily support us! I am 19 now and he just turned 20 We couldn't be happier. He also took the news very well! We were both extremely excited!

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Mar 29th, 2012, 17:34 PM	#39
zerolivia Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2011 Location: Arizona Posts: 368	I love being a Mommy! I think I was born to be a mother. I've always loved kids and couldn't wait to have my own. Of course when I got pregnant at 17 I wasn't the happiest person in the world but me and my love embraced it and we loooove being parents. FOB has two jobs and we live in a 3 bed 2 bath apartment with our own 2 cars and we just take care of everything ourselves! We love having our life together. It's amazing.

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Mar 29th, 2012, 19:38 PM	#40
TaraxSophia Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: UK Posts: 360	It has been amazing! I can't imagine not being a mother now as Sophia is my world. You know that cheesy thing they say about how having a child is like having a bit of your heart walk around outside you, well it really is! I'm not going to lie its been tough as a teenage parent, seeing as I had no proper income or future plans, but that little baby made me into the person I am today, and for that I am eternally grateful. I don't think I could have coped without the love and support from my family, friends and of course soph's dad! He is very much a part of her life, literally daddy's little princess! And now I'm 18, onto baby number two! He was planned unlike sophia, and I am the happiest I've ever been! I was put on this planet to be a mother

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