Teen dad - Page 2

IrishDaddy. · Apr 8th, 2012, 14:46 PM

Im always going to be with her at scans and dr appointments

TBH im always with her and im always annoyed when im not with her.
And i agree my da isnt perfect but he always did his best for me and my older brother which i love him for if i can be as much as a good dad to my child as my da was to me id be really happy

Thanks.

brandonsgirl · Apr 8th, 2012, 15:02 PM

There you go then. Follow your dads example

good luck to you and your gfs pregnancy !!

IrishDaddy. · Apr 8th, 2012, 15:07 PM

Suppose i will

and thank you so much

brandonsgirl · Apr 8th, 2012, 15:14 PM

No problem. That's what this site is for. People on here are so lovely and usually comment back pretty fast with helpful advice.

It's normal to be nervous when your pregnant. (or OH pregnant) I swear it didn't even hit me that I was having a baby until they popped him on my chest. Even now I look at him and find it hard to believe he is my son and I'm his mummy. I'm so proud of him. And can't quite believe I'm responsible for him. It's a wonderful feeling.

IrishDaddy. · Apr 8th, 2012, 15:23 PM

Yeah alot of people are nice on this.

And my OH is so excited same as me and we still cant believe were going to be parents but im really happy that we are and i was like excited when my lil nephew was born 3 days before my birthday ha he is four this june but like i fel like it was yesterday that he was born the time flies and im like always nearly cryin when im lookin at all the baby clothes but will be starting to buy clothes and stuff tomoro week

brandonsgirl · Apr 8th, 2012, 15:27 PM

How far along are you both ?

Aww your nephew is 4? My son is two and a complete handful lol. He is a proper boy. That's for sure. I'm glad you are both happy about the pregnancy. You will read many stories on here about poor girls who's OH don't wanna have anything to do with the babies etc.

IrishDaddy. · Apr 8th, 2012, 15:35 PM

She wil be 11 weeks tomoro

And how was it ?? like him growing up and all ??...
And i sen a few pages thats not right i hate that i love my girlfriend more than anything and my lil jellybean is brought us together

i am so excited

...

brandonsgirl · Apr 8th, 2012, 15:44 PM

I'm not going to lie, it's been difficult. There is the ups an downs a you would expect. But the easiest part was when he was new bOrn. As he has gotten older, there have been harder challenges, but as a family you work through them. It becomes natural, a routine if you like. But for me. The good alway outweighs the bad.

Our situation is a little different though. My husband ( my sons dad) I American and lives in America. My son and I are now back in England waiting for visas to get sorted for OH to come over here to live. So LO is finding it extremely hard to adjust to only seeing daddy on the webcam. You take everything in your stride when you have a baby.

IrishDaddy. · Apr 8th, 2012, 15:53 PM

Yah id say its hard alri and i hope everything works out with your babies daddy and hopefully comes over

and that like it would be hard on him but it will be all better when he comes over to you

Like me and my OH live like 10 mins in a car away from each other but see each other everyday which is cool i hate being away from her and i am just afraid of not being able to like cope with money and that but im being told by my family and my OH that we wil be okay and we will always have money not alot but enough so survive on weekly if you know wha i mean...

brandonsgirl · Apr 8th, 2012, 15:56 PM

Thanks.

Yeah I know what you mean. I'm not too sure if it's the same in Ireland. But here you get a couple of grants when you reach certain weeks in your pregnancy and other financial help also.

Apr 8th, 2012, 14:46 PM	#11
IrishDaddy. Father to be Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: ireland Posts: 22	Im always going to be with her at scans and dr appointments TBH im always with her and im always annoyed when im not with her. And i agree my da isnt perfect but he always did his best for me and my older brother which i love him for if i can be as much as a good dad to my child as my da was to me id be really happy Thanks.

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Apr 8th, 2012, 15:02 PM	#12
brandonsgirl Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Lincolnshire Posts: 4,015	There you go then. Follow your dads example good luck to you and your gfs pregnancy !!

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Apr 8th, 2012, 15:07 PM	#13
IrishDaddy. Father to be Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: ireland Posts: 22	Suppose i will and thank you so much

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Apr 8th, 2012, 15:14 PM	#14
brandonsgirl Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Lincolnshire Posts: 4,015	No problem. That's what this site is for. People on here are so lovely and usually comment back pretty fast with helpful advice. It's normal to be nervous when your pregnant. (or OH pregnant) I swear it didn't even hit me that I was having a baby until they popped him on my chest. Even now I look at him and find it hard to believe he is my son and I'm his mummy. I'm so proud of him. And can't quite believe I'm responsible for him. It's a wonderful feeling.

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Apr 8th, 2012, 15:23 PM	#15
IrishDaddy. Father to be Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: ireland Posts: 22	Yeah alot of people are nice on this. And my OH is so excited same as me and we still cant believe were going to be parents but im really happy that we are and i was like excited when my lil nephew was born 3 days before my birthday ha he is four this june but like i fel like it was yesterday that he was born the time flies and im like always nearly cryin when im lookin at all the baby clothes but will be starting to buy clothes and stuff tomoro week

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Apr 8th, 2012, 15:27 PM	#16
brandonsgirl Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Lincolnshire Posts: 4,015	How far along are you both ? Aww your nephew is 4? My son is two and a complete handful lol. He is a proper boy. That's for sure. I'm glad you are both happy about the pregnancy. You will read many stories on here about poor girls who's OH don't wanna have anything to do with the babies etc.

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Apr 8th, 2012, 15:35 PM	#17
IrishDaddy. Father to be Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: ireland Posts: 22	She wil be 11 weeks tomoro And how was it ?? like him growing up and all ??... And i sen a few pages thats not right i hate that i love my girlfriend more than anything and my lil jellybean is brought us together i am so excited ...

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Apr 8th, 2012, 15:44 PM	#18
brandonsgirl Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Lincolnshire Posts: 4,015	I'm not going to lie, it's been difficult. There is the ups an downs a you would expect. But the easiest part was when he was new bOrn. As he has gotten older, there have been harder challenges, but as a family you work through them. It becomes natural, a routine if you like. But for me. The good alway outweighs the bad. Our situation is a little different though. My husband ( my sons dad) I American and lives in America. My son and I are now back in England waiting for visas to get sorted for OH to come over here to live. So LO is finding it extremely hard to adjust to only seeing daddy on the webcam. You take everything in your stride when you have a baby.

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Apr 8th, 2012, 15:53 PM	#19
IrishDaddy. Father to be Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: ireland Posts: 22	Yah id say its hard alri and i hope everything works out with your babies daddy and hopefully comes over and that like it would be hard on him but it will be all better when he comes over to you Like me and my OH live like 10 mins in a car away from each other but see each other everyday which is cool i hate being away from her and i am just afraid of not being able to like cope with money and that but im being told by my family and my OH that we wil be okay and we will always have money not alot but enough so survive on weekly if you know wha i mean...

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Apr 8th, 2012, 15:56 PM	#20
brandonsgirl Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Lincolnshire Posts: 4,015	Thanks. Yeah I know what you mean. I'm not too sure if it's the same in Ireland. But here you get a couple of grants when you reach certain weeks in your pregnancy and other financial help also.

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