not sure what to think

cammy · Apr 11th, 2012, 17:42 PM

So my sister told OH last night that he should look at other women, in magazines, porn or in person. As if I dont have enough self esteem issues.

Me and OH are finally issue free and now I'm afraid its going to go backwards, One of our biggest issues was him flirting with other girls and wanting to cheat and now that my sister has gone and said that I'm afraid its going to be like that again.

Yeah I am not the best to look at, I put on a lot of weight when I was pregnant and I haven't gotten rid of it all yet.

She has never been in a serious relationship, so I don't think she understands what she may have just caused in mine.

tasha41 · Apr 11th, 2012, 17:53 PM

Hopefully your OH keeps your feelings about that stuff in mind, regardless of how your sister feels about it... it's you he is dating so her opinion on things doesn't really matter

x__amour · Apr 11th, 2012, 22:56 PM

I don't have much advice... Just wanted to give hugs.

Apr 11th, 2012, 17:42 PM	#1
cammy Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: NSW, Australia Posts: 3,003	not sure what to think So my sister told OH last night that he should look at other women, in magazines, porn or in person. As if I dont have enough self esteem issues. Me and OH are finally issue free and now I'm afraid its going to go backwards, One of our biggest issues was him flirting with other girls and wanting to cheat and now that my sister has gone and said that I'm afraid its going to be like that again. Yeah I am not the best to look at, I put on a lot of weight when I was pregnant and I haven't gotten rid of it all yet. She has never been in a serious relationship, so I don't think she understands what she may have just caused in mine.

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tasha41 Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: The True North Strong & Free Posts: 25,636	Hopefully your OH keeps your feelings about that stuff in mind, regardless of how your sister feels about it... it's you he is dating so her opinion on things doesn't really matter

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x__amour Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Colorado Posts: 16,597	I don't have much advice... Just wanted to give hugs.

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