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Old Aug 11th, 2018, 07:54 AM   1
pinkmother
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When do you plan to quit being naked around your son and daughter?


I have toddlers and was wondering when other moms stop nudity.



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Old Aug 11th, 2018, 08:50 AM   2
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I'm going to take my que from my DS if he gets uncomfortable I'll stop



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Old Aug 11th, 2018, 12:59 PM   3
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To be honest, thats not something I plan on.

I mean, im not naked around them (or actually any time) just for the sake of it, its when I shower or change or something. And Im just assuming my daughter is going to stop being around me so much during those times eventually. So eventually shell stop seeing me naked as often as she does now at 1 1/2 obviously. Ill never make it a point to not be naked around her though, if it makes sense.

As an example, i think I saw my dad naked sometimes well into my teens when hed go from the bathroom to my parents bed room to get dressed. He never paraded around the house but he also never hid away from us (i have two sisters). Being naked in front of my parents was never a weird thing for me either, obviously I got more privat with it but I never had that mindset that I wouldnt want my parents to see me naked at all costs.

For me being naked is normal, natural and nothing to be ashamed of - although it is obviously a rather privat thing. Im trusting that we can pass that mindset on to our daughter and any other children we may have (regardless of their sex) so im pretty sure eventually they wont see me naked anymore. But not because I make it a point to hide but because they start to realize Mama likes privacy during showers or baths or whatever
And sorry this was so long 🙈



 
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Old Aug 12th, 2018, 10:10 AM   4
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If they start being uncomfortable with it, I'll stop. No reason they should have to look at my naked body if they don't want to. So far, they don't seem to care, so I don't either.



 
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Old Aug 14th, 2018, 11:18 AM   5
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To be honest, thats not something I plan on.

I mean, im not naked around them (or actually any time) just for the sake of it, its when I shower or change or something. And Im just assuming my daughter is going to stop being around me so much during those times eventually. So eventually shell stop seeing me naked as often as she does now at 1 1/2 obviously. Ill never make it a point to not be naked around her though, if it makes sense.

As an example, i think I saw my dad naked sometimes well into my teens when hed go from the bathroom to my parents bed room to get dressed. He never paraded around the house but he also never hid away from us (i have two sisters). Being naked in front of my parents was never a weird thing for me either, obviously I got more privat with it but I never had that mindset that I wouldnt want my parents to see me naked at all costs.

For me being naked is normal, natural and nothing to be ashamed of - although it is obviously a rather privat thing. Im trusting that we can pass that mindset on to our daughter and any other children we may have (regardless of their sex) so im pretty sure eventually they wont see me naked anymore. But not because I make it a point to hide but because they start to realize Mama likes privacy during showers or baths or whatever
And sorry this was so long 🙈
I have the same mindset as you. My parents were always super casual about nudity. It was natural and sometimes its just how things are. Yes, as we all grew older privacy became a thing, but if someone saw someone it wasn't a big deal.

I've had that mindset with my daughter since she was born. She'll be 4 in October and she still occasionally follows me into the bedroom and bathroom and will see me. I don't get naked around her just to do so, because that would be weird, but if I'm changing or showering it is easier to just let her see rather than deal with a screeching child outside of a locked door. I hope it also helps her have body confidence as well so she knows what a body looks like and that its okay to feel natural around herself and others.



 
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Old Aug 14th, 2018, 15:37 PM   6
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My son is 4 and still sees me naked he walks in all the time when I am getting changed doesn't seem to phase him



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