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Old Jun 15th, 2017, 09:41 AM   3451
AmandaGAC
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We're on Cycle #2 and this has been an extra frustrating month. 7 days of "high" on the OPKs and no rise in temps. I'm not sure if I hit the big O or not (FF predicted yesterday). I had some EWCM yesterday evening, but woke up to that stupid flashing smiley face again. I'm only testing through tomorrow and then calling it quits for this month.



 
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Old Jun 21st, 2017, 01:37 AM   3452
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TTC and 7dpo


Hey everyone,

I'm new to this forum, and to all forums for that matter so I apologize if I do it wrong. My husband and I are TTC and I am currently 7dpo. I think I may be having symptoms but I also think I am just hyper focused on my body right now. I am wondering what the earliest someone has taken a pregnancy test and gotten a positive result is. I'm hoping for that BFP so much but its causing me so much anxiety waiting.



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Old Jun 24th, 2017, 15:50 PM   3453
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I'm on 4dpo , been feeling pins, some pulling by my ovaries hope it'll be a sticky bean



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Old Nov 27th, 2017, 08:11 AM   3454
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This is my first time joining a forum, so I'm not really sure how this works. Normally I just Google things and read posts from other people.

I've been on Birth control pills for about 4 years and came off them at the beginning of the year. DH and I then moved to China, and 9 months ago decided to start trying. I'd stopped my pill about 2 months before that. Anyways my cycles just seemed to get longer until I didn't get it for almost 3 months. Then went to see a Dr and they said I had PCOS and to see a specialist if we are TTC. She put me on birth control pills again for 2 months and in on Metformin.

Last month she said we could try ovarian stimulation (letrozole and injections) and timed intercourse, which we did. Spent a lot of time and money and was super excited. But, only got BFN.

Today is CD3, will go in on Wednesday (also my birthday) for ultrasound and bloods to see if we can try this cycle, which we can only do if there are no large follicles.

This is so emotionally draining. And it really consumes everything. Mentally, emotionally, physically. The worst feeling is that I feel like I'm being punished for a decision I made 4 years ago.

I was just really hoping that the previous cycle would have worked, would have been the best birthday gift and 1st anniversary gift (that's next week Tuesday).

I just hope things work out, I'm losing hope and just feel like I'm going crazy.

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Old Nov 27th, 2017, 16:49 PM   3455
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I feel the exact way, I just don't say it out loud. I think everyone is pregnant or has had a child but me and I am so running out of time.



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Old Dec 19th, 2017, 11:18 AM   3456
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EVERYONE IS PREGNANT!!! I feel like everywhere I look someone else is pregnant. Fiance's best friend and his significant other have 4 kids, and she's pregnant again. They weren't even trying!!!
So frustrating!!!! We have been "not trying, not preventing" for several years and nothing... This cycle I decided to seriously temp and try to pinpoint ovulation, chart looks promising but I refuse to get my hopes up.
I literally bawled when he told me his friends were expecting again, then I felt horrible because I am happy for everyone I just want it for myself too.



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Old Jan 2nd, 2018, 11:22 AM   3457
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HI Everyone!!

This is my first time joining a forum and have been TTC my first going into 11 months I am really starting to get discouraged. I am 12 dpo today and just started getting AF symptoms. I was so positive this month. Sending baby dust to all of you



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Old Jan 5th, 2018, 18:11 PM   3458
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Sooo sick of MIL and my grandmother bugging me about having kids. We've only been married since May after all, but it's just rude IMO to ask when someone is having kids. I don't want to tell anyone we're trying because of my PCOS and their expectations would be different than reality.

It also seems everyone I've talked to lately has become pregnant/given birth in the last few months. Of course I wouldn't be so lucky but with the changes I'm making to my lifestyle I'm hopeful



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Old Jan 8th, 2018, 16:24 PM   3459
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CD 30 had all the symptoms and spotting, on the 1st and 2nd. But got a BFN on a FR. No sign of AF yet so guess I'm not out yet. Just gotta wait and see



 
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Old Jan 19th, 2018, 02:24 AM   3460
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Time to vent ladies! I actually found this forum because of this vent thread, read like first 150 pages and it really helped me a lot!

So my rant:

- Nobody is pregnant around me BUT almost all the girls I know who have kids totally ignore their children, call them annoying and spoiled (even tho they are not) and it irks me sooooo much! There are people who would love to have little bundle jumping around the house, and yet here you are, calling your kid a brat even tho the kid is super nice and shy and you never spend any time with them! If they want to spend the little time you spend at home with you, it doesn't mean they are annoying, they just miss their mom and dad.

- small rant about forum: don't ask are you pregnant in TTC #1, how the hell should we know. Some did have BFP before, some didn't, ask in preggers section, they might know. And if somebody asks question about their condition, don't use their thread just to list your symptoms that have nothing in common with OP and then ask - am I pregnant?! Be supportive of each other, we are all hoping every hiccup is BFP but spamming somebody's thread doesn't help.

- rant about my bff - when I told you we were planing to TCC for the first time, you didn't have to start talking about how you are probably going to start to TCC #2 some day and then spend the rest of the time talking about yourself. I see you so rarely because we don't live in the same town, you already have one kid that I adore, we always talk about your kid, so you could have given me 10 minutes to share my excitement and fears. And yeah, you don't know I'm TCC for real now because you "stayed pregnant on 1st try after getting off birth control the 1st time" and I just don't need more of that atm.

- we never shared with family that we are TCC because I don't want constant nagging of "did it happen yet" and fear mongering that if it didn't happen on 1st try that something is wrong. Dad I know you'd love to have grandkid, you've been talking about it for the last 3 years, and I'd love to give you one soon but telling me last time I saw you that "my train has passed" really hurt me. If I had normal family life, I might have started sooner but I wanted stuff to be almost perfect because I don't want kid to grow up poor as I did, with no hot water in the house and nothing for Christmas & birthdays. No, I don't plan to buy my 7 year old new iPhone but some toys would be nice. So don't tell me it's too late because I'm 33. I have enough worries as it is.

And now the thanks, because even tho this is vent thread, I can vent some love too

Hubby, you are best thing that ever happened to me. You are my best friend and biggest support. I'm so happy I can share this TCC with you, that you are not grossed out by all the things I share with you (and you ladies know all the gross facts we learn during the TCC xD ) and I know you'll be the best dad ever to our kids. I hope our kids are as nice and kind and silly as you are and I can't wait for us to go on a new adventures with our little bundle of joy.

Vent over



 
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