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Old Sep 19th, 2012, 05:47 AM   1
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Old Oct 3rd, 2012, 04:47 AM   2
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Old Oct 3rd, 2012, 15:55 PM   3
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I swear baby&bump has been like an online therapy for me!!
So, right now feeling drained and pretty low with it all....first cycles all over the place when I came off the pill, then referred by my gp for bloods to test for ov as a couple years back they found cysts (by accident) so just to check all is okay. Results come in tomorrow and feeling so nervous....then yesterday started getting lower back pain so was convinced Af on her way...but nothing...then a wave of nausea...convince myself I'm pg!...then can't sleep for thinking about it...still no Af, no more symptoms, and feeling exhausted by the whole thing this cycle.
Can't tell dh as he was gutted last month by bfn and don't want to get his hopes up so here is the only place I can moan...!
So...test results tomorrow...please please be positive for ovulation...then if I get over that hurdle if no Af by Monday or Tuesday Ill be testing....
So so tired...if these ov tests negative ill have to do this for the next three months to monitor it...please don't let it be negative. Part of me thinks I should have left it a year before going to to the doc but didn't want to waste time if it turned out the cysts were affecting fertility and a year had gone by without knowing...but I'm stressing out now...



 
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Old Oct 4th, 2012, 18:22 PM   4
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I've been TTC for 10+ months. No period in 2.5 months. Always BFN....without a shimmer of a line. Was given Provera to start my period but just kept thinking what if what if and haven't taken it yet. Lot's of dr. appts next week for me and my DH. So very tired of trying, of peeing on sticks, worrying, family keeps asking me what's wrong. All of this but still trying to stay happy and stress-free for future baby. Some days are great, some days are terrible. I never was good at waiting for what I wanted. But, here I am, waiting and praying. Thinking I might have PCOS, but I guess I'll let the dr. decide that in the near future. Why does this fertility thing have to be so tricky! I avoid every "I got pregnant on the first try" story like the plague. Well, this is my vent. In real life, I'm actually a really happy funny pleasant person to be around, but this forum is really helpful for when the angry POAS addict needs a release.
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Old Oct 4th, 2012, 21:29 PM   5
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I've been TTC for 10+ months. No period in 2.5 months. Always BFN....without a shimmer of a line. Was given Provera to start my period but just kept thinking what if what if and haven't taken it yet. Lot's of dr. appts next week for me and my DH. So very tired of trying, of peeing on sticks, worrying, family keeps asking me what's wrong. All of this but still trying to stay happy and stress-free for future baby. Some days are great, some days are terrible. I never was good at waiting for what I wanted. But, here I am, waiting and praying. Thinking I might have PCOS, but I guess I'll let the dr. decide that in the near future. Why does this fertility thing have to be so tricky! I avoid every "I got pregnant on the first try" story like the plague. Well, this is my vent. In real life, I'm actually a really happy funny pleasant person to be around, but this forum is really helpful for when the angry POAS addict needs a release.
Baby dust to all!


I completely understand what you're going though. We're here for you! At least you're seeing a doctor. It's nice to have answers.

I'm waiting on the results of my ultrasound to see if there's something wrong with me. Only been 8 months ttc, but 4 years off bc not always being too careful about it. You start to lose hope after seeing negatives every month, but you have to keep moving forward with life, right? I agree most days are good, but some days it hits you. Lots of babydust to you.



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I swear baby&bump has been like an online therapy for me!!
So, right now feeling drained and pretty low with it all....first cycles all over the place when I came off the pill, then referred by my gp for bloods to test for ov as a couple years back they found cysts (by accident) so just to check all is okay. Results come in tomorrow and feeling so nervous....then yesterday started getting lower back pain so was convinced Af on her way...but nothing...then a wave of nausea...convince myself I'm pg!...then can't sleep for thinking about it...still no Af, no more symptoms, and feeling exhausted by the whole thing this cycle.
Can't tell dh as he was gutted last month by bfn and don't want to get his hopes up so here is the only place I can moan...!
So...test results tomorrow...please please be positive for ovulation...then if I get over that hurdle if no Af by Monday or Tuesday Ill be testing....
So so tired...if these ov tests negative ill have to do this for the next three months to monitor it...please don't let it be negative. Part of me thinks I should have left it a year before going to to the doc but didn't want to waste time if it turned out the cysts were affecting fertility and a year had gone by without knowing...but I'm stressing out now...

At least the doctor will hopefully have answers!



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Old Oct 5th, 2012, 00:00 AM   7
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I've been TTC for 10+ months. No period in 2.5 months. Always BFN....without a shimmer of a line. Was given Provera to start my period but just kept thinking what if what if and haven't taken it yet. Lot's of dr. appts next week for me and my DH. So very tired of trying, of peeing on sticks, worrying, family keeps asking me what's wrong. All of this but still trying to stay happy and stress-free for future baby. Some days are great, some days are terrible. I never was good at waiting for what I wanted. But, here I am, waiting and praying. Thinking I might have PCOS, but I guess I'll let the dr. decide that in the near future. Why does this fertility thing have to be so tricky! I avoid every "I got pregnant on the first try" story like the plague. Well, this is my vent. In real life, I'm actually a really happy funny pleasant person to be around, but this forum is really helpful for when the angry POAS addict needs a release.
Baby dust to all!


I completely understand what you're going though. We're here for you! At least you're seeing a doctor. It's nice to have answers.

I'm waiting on the results of my ultrasound to see if there's something wrong with me. Only been 8 months ttc, but 4 years off bc not always being too careful about it. You start to lose hope after seeing negatives every month, but you have to keep moving forward with life, right? I agree most days are good, but some days it hits you. Lots of babydust to you.
Good luck with your ultrasound. I hope all is well! At this point, just having some answers would be a real relief I'm sure. I read somewhere that almost 90% of people who take *longer* to get pregnant will eventually get pregnant with medicine, dr. intervention, etc. which made me smile.
Here's some baby dust for you.



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Old Oct 5th, 2012, 12:54 PM   8
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3dpo... Sore bbs... Let this be the one. Tired of waiting now!



 
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Old Oct 5th, 2012, 15:01 PM   9
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offically been ttc#1 for a year!!!!!!!!!! is this ever going to happen?

& to all the people i keep hearing say 'i conceived in the first month, go die. i'm sick of hearing it!



 
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Old Oct 5th, 2012, 16:45 PM   10
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