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Old Jul 5th, 2016, 20:20 PM   21
WishnandHopn
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Oh ugh like she wrote that publicly on your wall? That's brutal. Why do people have to be so insensitive?

When I hear of women who keep their BFP secret from their dh for a few days, I'm like no way. When I get mine I'm sure I will scream or cry or puke...no chance of keeping it a secret from him!



 
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Old Jul 5th, 2016, 20:27 PM   22
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Ya, she wrote it publicly on my wall and tagged DH in it as well. It made me feel completely horrible.

And I'm right with you, NO WAY could I keep it a secret from DH! lol. I'm not sure what I would do if I got a BFP, probably just cry unconsollably lol.

Welcome MK! I'm not sure how you manage to NTNP, I'm way too type A for that! Will they really start fertility testing after 6 months of ntnp?



 
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Old Jul 5th, 2016, 20:44 PM   23
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I also don't think I could Ntnp...even with no temping or OPKs this cycle I'm so hyper aware of fertile signs and where I am in my cycle.

Good luck with your appt MK! I hope it turns out to be an easy fix for you! I feel like an ob/gyn is more likely to exhaust all medications and less invasive options first...whereas a fertility specialist might get into the invasive stuff sooner since that's the money maker for them. Wow...how cynical am I!



 
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Old Jul 5th, 2016, 21:02 PM   24
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There are long wait times to see a fertility specialist where I live. 6 months seems to be the standard wait from when you are first referred, but if you are in your 20s it can take up to a year from referral to first appt. I guess they figure you have more time.

I found that very disheartening.

I feel incredibly anxious that this won't happen for me. I keep trying positive affirmations "You will get pregnant, you are fertile," etc. etc.

But in all honesty I am freaking out. Completely.



 
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Old Jul 6th, 2016, 02:05 AM   25
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I have the way people feel it's OK for them to comment on your private life and expect you not to react. DH and I get questioned all the time about when we're going to start having kids and some people get the hint when we try to change the subject, but others just keep pressing it until I'm about ready to poke them in the eye!

If I ever get a bfp I like to think I'll come up with a really cute way to tell our family and friends (DH will know straight away) but I'm pretty sure I'll just cry and blurt it out in a very un-cute way!



 
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Old Jul 6th, 2016, 08:48 AM   26
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Well, I had a bit of a temp shift, so I think I may have O'd yesterday (or possibly will today as I expect my temp will jump again tomorrow).

I'm not sure what to mark as my CD 1 as AF started in the evening. So I could be either CD 11 or 12 today, which puts O at either 10 or 11. I worry that is too early for an egg to be fully matured and for a lining to develop thick enough.

I'm still having fertile signs (ewcm and SHOW) so we'll keep BD-ing until those signs are gone.

I had a conception dream last night and knew I was pregnant immediately. I've had positive HPT dreams in the past which obviously amounted to nothing, but never a conception dream. I'm going to hope it is a positive sign, but acknowledge that it is likely just wish fulfillment



 
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Old Jul 6th, 2016, 11:08 AM   27
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It can only be a good sign if your subconscious sleeping mind is hopeful and optimistic! Those positive affirmations might having something to do with it.

I have no idea if it's bad to O early...I did last month and was wondering the same thing. I suppose you could go get a 7 dpo progesterone test done?



 
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Old Jul 6th, 2016, 11:21 AM   28
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That's a good way to put it Wishn! My unconscious mind obviously hopes there is a chance! I'll bet it's those positive affirmations like you're saying. They're honestly one of the only things that improve my mood, that and jogging lol.

I was reading that early O can mean low ovarian reserve and high FSH. I had blood tests on CD 2 which came out normal, so I'm not sure if I should worry or not. I've always had cycles on the shorter side, so maybe that's just normal for me?



 
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Old Jul 6th, 2016, 11:53 AM   29
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Keeping my fingers crossed that the dream is a good sign for you Belle!

Not sure what's going on with my cycle right now! I'm pretty sure I started using the opks too early, but with having totally irregular cycles I just didn't want to miss anything. I'm hoping that my body is going to give me some signs of O and I'm not just relying on opks. I normally get what I assume to be O pains and changes in cm, but I'm interested to see if the opks reflect it too.

Just in case, we're getting in some bd whenever we can too!



 
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Old Jul 6th, 2016, 11:59 AM   30
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Do you know what CD you're at Mrs Bean?

Im wondering if the EPO I've been taking caused early O? It gave me great ewcm, but I don't want to O any earlier than I already do lol



 
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