well im not pregnant, :( sad story

neha · Mar 11th, 2012, 23:52 PM

Update* I've been instructed by my doc not to have sex till she permits. Haven't

for 3 weeks and may have to abstain for a couple of weeks more. DH tearing his hair out!

onebumpplease · Mar 12th, 2012, 12:15 PM

Oh no Neha, why is that? I didn't realise you should abstain..argh!!

Smh..Ahh · Mar 12th, 2012, 22:46 PM

i had a mc almost 2 years ago.. well, last month was the last time i was trying and the first time on clomid,
i had sex feb 29th and march 1st because i got a positive opk.
i told god if i didnt get pregnant i was done trying, ive been trying for along time and im tired of disappointment, my boobs have been really sore and nipples look different then usual, i was having cravings, hungry all the time, extremely bloated like im on my period for past 2 days i guess it was the clomid still in my system, i took a opk last night around 1am cause i was bored it was almost positive, and i heard if ur pg it will show on a opk. well i took a opk right now 10:30pm it was negative so idk what the deal is. i took a hpt test same time it was negative so guess im not. not suprised guess i wasnt meant to be a mother. hope all you get a child like yall want since i cant.

SignoraL · Mar 12th, 2012, 22:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Smh..Ahh

i had a mc almost 2 years ago.. well, last month was the last time i was trying and the first time on clomid,
i had sex feb 29th and march 1st because i got a positive opk.
i told god if i didnt get pregnant i was done trying, ive been trying for along time and im tired of disappointment, my boobs have been really sore and nipples look different then usual, i was having cravings, hungry all the time, extremely bloated like im on my period for past 2 days i guess it was the clomid still in my system, i took a opk last night around 1am cause i was bored it was almost positive, and i heard if ur pg it will show on a opk. well i took a opk right now 10:30pm it was negative so idk what the deal is. i took a hpt test same time it was negative so guess im not. not suprised guess i wasnt meant to be a mother. hope all you get a child like yall want since i cant.

Hi Smh..Ahh, I'm sorry to hear of your MC and I'm sorry you're feeling sad. But don't give up hope. I know that this is frustrating going month after month with no BFP, but it will happen for you.

neha · Mar 13th, 2012, 00:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Smh..Ahh

i had a mc almost 2 years ago.. well, last month was the last time i was trying and the first time on clomid,
i had sex feb 29th and march 1st because i got a positive opk.
i told god if i didnt get pregnant i was done trying, ive been trying for along time and im tired of disappointment, my boobs have been really sore and nipples look different then usual, i was having cravings, hungry all the time, extremely bloated like im on my period for past 2 days i guess it was the clomid still in my system, i took a opk last night around 1am cause i was bored it was almost positive, and i heard if ur pg it will show on a opk. well i took a opk right now 10:30pm it was negative so idk what the deal is. i took a hpt test same time it was negative so guess im not. not suprised guess i wasnt meant to be a mother. hope all you get a child like yall want since i cant.

Hi Smh..Ahh! Don't lose hope. Have you taken any tests? Go to a good doctor. She'll see where the problem is. I had PCOs and could hardly ovulate on my own. I would keep asking my doctor, "Will I ever conceive?" and she would say, "None of my patients is without a baby."

I got an IUI done in December, which failed. The witch caught me in January. Then I got endometrial biopsy and HSG tests done. HSG results were fine. EB showed I've some hormonal problem. My doctor asked me to take a break for a cycle and start Clomid from Day 1 of next cycle.

Luckily, my next cycle never came. Now I'm almost 10 weeks pregnant and my baby is also doing well. I would just say don't lose hope. You'll definitely be a mother. Sending you best wishes and lots of

Smh..Ahh · Mar 13th, 2012, 00:18 AM

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Originally Posted by neha

Hi Smh..Ahh! Don't lose hope. Have you taken any tests? Go to a good doctor. She'll see where the problem is. I had PCOs and could hardly ovulate on my own. I would keep asking my doctor, "Will I ever conceive?" and she would say, "None of my patients is without a baby."

I got an IUI done in December, which failed. The witch caught me in January. Then I got endometrial biopsy and HSG tests done. HSG results were fine. EB showed I've some hormonal problem. My doctor asked me to take a break for a cycle and start Clomid from Day 1 of next cycle.

Luckily, my next cycle never came. Now I'm almost 10 weeks pregnant and my baby is also doing well. I would just say don't lose hope. You'll definitely be a mother. Sending you best wishes and lots of

thank you but im just tired and drained from trying. yes ive taken a test it was today.. it was at 10:30 pm it was negative but i made myself pee. i also took a opk it was negative of course cause im not ovulating. i feel so bloated and fat i swore i was on my period these past 2 days but im not. but this morning i took a opk it was positive so idk what the deal is. but still no period and idk when im supposed to start my period so im not pregnant im just tired. but thanks for support. ive been monitoring my temps by night time they get to 99. something idk y

neha · Mar 13th, 2012, 03:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Smh..Ahh

Quote:

Originally Posted by neha

Hi Smh..Ahh! Don't lose hope. Have you taken any tests? Go to a good doctor. She'll see where the problem is. I had PCOs and could hardly ovulate on my own. I would keep asking my doctor, "Will I ever conceive?" and she would say, "None of my patients is without a baby."

I got an IUI done in December, which failed. The witch caught me in January. Then I got endometrial biopsy and HSG tests done. HSG results were fine. EB showed I've some hormonal problem. My doctor asked me to take a break for a cycle and start Clomid from Day 1 of next cycle.

Luckily, my next cycle never came. Now I'm almost 10 weeks pregnant and my baby is also doing well. I would just say don't lose hope. You'll definitely be a mother. Sending you best wishes and lots of

thank you but im just tired and drained from trying. yes ive taken a test it was today.. it was at 10:30 pm it was negative but i made myself pee. i also took a opk it was negative of course cause im not ovulating. i feel so bloated and fat i swore i was on my period these past 2 days but im not. but this morning i took a opk it was positive so idk what the deal is. but still no period and idk when im supposed to start my period so im not pregnant im just tired. but thanks for support. ive been monitoring my temps by night time they get to 99. something idk y

I actually meant the fertility tests. Have you taken any? Sometimes these tests work. My doctor said though HSG is just a test, and not a fertility treatment, it does increase your chances of getting pregnant slightly. It seemed to have worked for me. Get your husband also tested. Best wishes!

Lotus Womb · Mar 13th, 2012, 09:10 AM

Hey Ladies,

Hi Smh..Ahh sorry your going through a tough time. I hope you work out whats going on and who knows you maybe pg

Well last of the spotting today for me and my fertile week should be next week or week after if I O late. I think I stressed myself out last cycle my O was delayed. But this month we arer ready for fertile week and DB is all better.

I have been reading taking charge of your fertility and it is great so far.

How everyone doing??

SignoraL · Mar 13th, 2012, 12:04 PM

Hi everyone!

Lotus Womb, yay for O-week coming up! neha, yay for no MS - please don't worry, it's not good for you! babyfeva, hope you got a lot of BD-ing this week!
Smh..Ahh, don't lose hope - we went for fertility testing and it really gave us peace of mind and knowing we have some things to fix gives us a plan.

I'm doing well, on CD 12, so I'm probably O-ing right around now (I gave up on temping and OPKs, so I don't know for sure, but I have an idea). I think all the supplements I'm taking have been giving me a lot of little twinges around my ovaries. Nothing painful, just different. So obviously, we've been BD-ing this week and probably will tonight and Thursday night.

How is everyone else?

Lillyrose20wd · Mar 13th, 2012, 17:13 PM

Hi everybody!

Lotus womb: I read taking charge of your fertility and absolutely loved the book. Temping has become a regular part of my daily routine. I'm not sure if I asked you this before,but do you temp or use OPK?

SMH: I'm sorry you have been feeling so down recently. Maybe taking a "break" from TTC for a short period of time will allow you to relax a little. You never know that may be the tiome you end up pregnant! It sounds as though you are very passionate about becoming a mother so I don't think you should give up all together.

Signora: fingers crossed the twinges are your ovaries going into overdrive !

AFM: I am CD 10 and could be Oing any day now. Could be as early as day 12 or as late as day 17. Who knows anymore??? I have been using my "little smiley sticks" as my DH has called them. Haha!

Mar 11th, 2012, 23:52 PM	#411
neha Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Delhi, India Posts: 64	Update* I've been instructed by my doc not to have sex till she permits. Haven't for 3 weeks and may have to abstain for a couple of weeks more. DH tearing his hair out!

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Mar 12th, 2012, 12:15 PM	#412
onebumpplease Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Scotland Posts: 5,001	Oh no Neha, why is that? I didn't realise you should abstain..argh!!

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Mar 12th, 2012, 22:46 PM	#413
Smh..Ahh Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 52	well im not pregnant, :( sad story i had a mc almost 2 years ago.. well, last month was the last time i was trying and the first time on clomid, i had sex feb 29th and march 1st because i got a positive opk. i told god if i didnt get pregnant i was done trying, ive been trying for along time and im tired of disappointment, my boobs have been really sore and nipples look different then usual, i was having cravings, hungry all the time, extremely bloated like im on my period for past 2 days i guess it was the clomid still in my system, i took a opk last night around 1am cause i was bored it was almost positive, and i heard if ur pg it will show on a opk. well i took a opk right now 10:30pm it was negative so idk what the deal is. i took a hpt test same time it was negative so guess im not. not suprised guess i wasnt meant to be a mother. hope all you get a child like yall want since i cant.

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Lotus Womb Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: London. U.K Posts: 653	Hey Ladies, Hi Smh..Ahh sorry your going through a tough time. I hope you work out whats going on and who knows you maybe pg Well last of the spotting today for me and my fertile week should be next week or week after if I O late. I think I stressed myself out last cycle my O was delayed. But this month we arer ready for fertile week and DB is all better. I have been reading taking charge of your fertility and it is great so far. How everyone doing??

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Mar 13th, 2012, 12:04 PM	#419
SignoraL Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: USA Posts: 1,097	Hi everyone! Lotus Womb, yay for O-week coming up! neha, yay for no MS - please don't worry, it's not good for you! babyfeva, hope you got a lot of BD-ing this week! Smh..Ahh, don't lose hope - we went for fertility testing and it really gave us peace of mind and knowing we have some things to fix gives us a plan. I'm doing well, on CD 12, so I'm probably O-ing right around now (I gave up on temping and OPKs, so I don't know for sure, but I have an idea). I think all the supplements I'm taking have been giving me a lot of little twinges around my ovaries. Nothing painful, just different. So obviously, we've been BD-ing this week and probably will tonight and Thursday night. How is everyone else?

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Mar 13th, 2012, 17:13 PM	#420
Lillyrose20wd Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: New Jersey Posts: 235	Hi everybody! Lotus womb: I read taking charge of your fertility and absolutely loved the book. Temping has become a regular part of my daily routine. I'm not sure if I asked you this before,but do you temp or use OPK? SMH: I'm sorry you have been feeling so down recently. Maybe taking a "break" from TTC for a short period of time will allow you to relax a little. You never know that may be the tiome you end up pregnant! It sounds as though you are very passionate about becoming a mother so I don't think you should give up all together. Signora: fingers crossed the twinges are your ovaries going into overdrive ! AFM: I am CD 10 and could be Oing any day now. Could be as early as day 12 or as late as day 17. Who knows anymore??? I have been using my "little smiley sticks" as my DH has called them. Haha!

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