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Old Mar 31st, 2012, 14:24 PM   #481
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So I had a really bad night. Woke up at 2:30 am with extremely bad cramping. The pain was so bad that it physically made me sick. The pain came on really quick and woke me up from a deep sleep, but went away as quick as it came. This happened a few months ago too, but never had anything like this until we started TTC.

Now today haven't had any cramps, but I am spotting like a tanish color. I'm so worried that this is going to be a chemical pregnancy I am still feeling very tired, but my breasts dont feel the way they did before. I feel so bad for my DH b/c he finally let his guard down to be excited about being a daddy and now we are in such limbo right now. Took another FRER test this morning and the line I got this morning was even more faint than the faint like I got on Thursday.

I know there isn't anything I can do at this point. This waiting game is killing me. I don't know what to do. Any of you ever experience this? I know many women spot is the beginning of their pregnancy, but I didn't have any spotting until now. I'm currently 17 DPO and I would think my test would be darker? What do you guys think? Kinda freaking out!


 
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Old Mar 31st, 2012, 15:18 PM   #482
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Praying that everything is okay, Lillyrose20wd!!! If you continue to feel these painful cramps and spot, definitely get yourself to a doctor.


 
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Old Mar 31st, 2012, 17:31 PM   #483
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Lillyrose so sorry you are going through this stress. I have never experianced this myself but a close frind said she had very bad pains in the early week that would make her bend over. In her early weeks she was sure AF was coming. Her baby bow now 4 weeks old. I know other ladies who has bleeding in the early weeks also and went onto have their babies.
I would suggest to rest up and try your best not to stress, I know easier said than done. I agree with Signoral go and see your Dr.


 
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Old Mar 31st, 2012, 18:45 PM   #484
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Thanks ladies! Its reassuring to hear that other people have gone thru similar symptoms and they had healthy babies. I think the hardest part of all of this is that nobody even knows we are TTC so I don't have anybody,but my DH to confide in and all of this is just freaking him out. He was as scared as I was last night when I was doubled over in pain. It was so weird that it came on so quickly and left so quickly. Good news is that I haven't had anymore cramping. Still spotting though. I'm gonna call my doctor on Monday to see what they have to say. I'm trying to just keep myself busy and distracted so I dont think about it.

How are you ladies doing?


 
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Old Apr 1st, 2012, 08:30 AM   #485
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So AF showed up full force this morning, so I guess this was a chemical pregnancy Now what?


 
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Old Apr 1st, 2012, 08:34 AM   #486
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I'm so sorry, Lillyrose20wd! I'm praying for you and your DH. I would go to the doctor ASAP.


 
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Old Apr 1st, 2012, 08:38 AM   #487
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Lillyrose- Go see your doctor first thing tomorrow morning. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you and praying everything is okay.


 
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Old Apr 1st, 2012, 08:45 AM   #488
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Thanks ladies. I appreciate all your support. I kinda had a feeling over the past couple days that things weren't as they should be. I'm gonna call my doctor tomorrow morning, but I'm don't quite sure they will do anything. My DH is devestated, which is the worst past. Have any of you guys ever had this happen?


 
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Old Apr 1st, 2012, 15:21 PM   #489
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Thanks ladies. I appreciate all your support. I kinda had a feeling over the past couple days that things weren't as they should be. I'm gonna call my doctor tomorrow morning, but I'm don't quite sure they will do anything. My DH is devestated, which is the worst past. Have any of you guys ever had this happen?
I'm so sorry for you and your DH. I can't say it's ever happened to me, but I'm sure there are a lot of BnB ladies who have experienced this too and may be able to provide some insight for you right now.


 
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Old Apr 2nd, 2012, 00:32 AM   #490
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So sorry to know that, Lillyrose. Chin up, it's always the next time.

I've some good news to share. I had my Level II scan on Saturday, and was so surprised to see such an active baby. She was moving both her hands and legs. Even doctor exclaimed, "Look how she's waving!" Her nasal bones are formed and I also got to hear her heartbeat. I remember accompanying my sis-in-law for her Level II scan. Her baby was also moving, but not so much. Mine was literally dancing!


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