Hi all im 21 and my OH is 25
well been trying for 8months (this is my 9th cycle)
i had regular cycles, every 29days before i started TTC now they are all over the place and i have no idea why. it cant be because i started TTC could it?
getting worried about it now, i know people say wait till a year but its killing me to see all my friends getting pregnant (some not planning).
Need girls to talk too
my friends dont seem to understand
xoxo

Keep trying your time will come x

Thanks, its hard to see that AF every month.
wondering if i should try something more than just folic acid..
xx

Kind of in the same boat, I'm 25 and DH is 28, we've been TTC for 9 months and were told to wait for the standard 1 year mark before we get 'help' but it's definitely frustrating in the meantime! Especially like you said when people around you are pg. I'm just trying to stay as positive as I can, reading fertility books to be informed and talking to the ladies on here! We went on vacation a month ago which was awesome to get my mind off all the stresses but that may not be possible right now for you. I've heard about taking soy to induce OV but I don't have any experience with it. Hope this helps?

yeah i know its nearly the year mark but its definatly getting harder and harder. I'm going away in may so i hope that helps.
Is it soy tablets? like the folic acid ones?
I've been told about a lubericant, "concieve plus" there has been alot of great reviews online. A lot of the people who have reviewed it say they fell pregnant the month after using it!
xx

My cycles were regular till we started TTC. Stress was a huge factor for my screwy cycles. We had a lot going on at the time aside from ttc. However the first cycle we officially switched from NTNP to ttc my cycle went MIA.

We started NTNP (sorta, I knew my cycles so we still bd in the time frame) in Dec/Jan and went to TTC in Oct/Nov it took us 11 months but I think it was something like 10 or 9 cycles.

I had the "just don't stress about it, your time will come, you get pregnant without thinking about" comments all the time. The cycle I got my BFP I finally let go. I did change a few things in my diet to help with fertility and I also used OPK's as we were going home for Christmas and I was worried my cycles would go crazy. I really thought I was out.

It was rough. It was so hard seeing people just end up pregnant without trying and us were trying weren't having any luck. My friends were really understanding though and it helped. One of my friends had similar issues getting pregnant so it was nice to have her to bounce off of.

I hope you get your BFP soon!!!!

They say it's like a natural clomid but I'm not sure if it's a tablet or what. Sorry. No experience with the lube but worth a shot!

Hey, I'm in a similar situation to you...I'm 25, OH is 23...currently in month 11 but cycle 8. I'm trying Preseed this month, which is apparently the same as conceive plus...don't yet know if it works but it certainly makes me feel like I am doing more to help things along!

*hugs*!!

Mrs. B - i tried pre-seed for about a month around the 6months time and enjoyed using it but i wanted to try the concieve plus to see if i catch on *hugs*

countrygirl86 - will have to have a look online, thanks for the advice

armywife11 - thank youu you have made me feel loads better ill just have to keep trying have a wonderful pregnancy xx

My DH and I have been TTC for almost 3 years. I've ALWAYS had a regular cycle... never missed a period, never been late, never been early. We have tried everything but IVF and that's coming in August (insurance to pay 100%).

Princesslou, I know EXACTLY how you feel. I want more than anything in this world to be a Mom, and it's just not happening. My sister is pregnant with her second child in less than 2 years and they were using protection. It's heartbreaking! Hang in there and give it to the Lord, he know your struggles (I have to remind myself of that daily)!