feeling worried and sad

ms sunshine · Apr 3rd, 2012, 04:51 AM

every month something happens last two or three months my dh is not always finishing he is just not able to. no idea why he does not know when I an due to ov I don't talk baby stuff and keeping it relaxed he says he is not stressed. so don't know he must be worried and just not saying. I'm trying pre conceive and wondering if that has anything to do with it. as seems to have started when I started to use that. on top of this I'm on month 8 . I am worried it's not going to happen then it's time for the doctors. then it's the worry that there is something wrong with me. I know worrying is bad but can't help it. I used to be excited by ov but now dh has problems I'm worried that it's going to carry on all week. I guess in short I'm fed up of trying and just want it to work! anyway dh takes vits and so do I but is there anything else anyone tries that might help. been thinking of vitex but I don't know if anyone can take it or if it is for people with specific problems. any help at this point much appreciated as just need a bit of hope x

LisaTelsa01 · Apr 3rd, 2012, 04:55 AM

I probably won't be much help but just wanted to say that I feel exactly the same. I have been trying for roughly 4 months now and feel so scared that it will never happen. I feel like everyone around me is getting pregnant just thinking about it!
I really hope that it works out for you and I am sure it will be fine. Everyone keeps telling me to stop being so stressed so I am going to try to calm down as I know that can effect things as well. Good luck x

laurabe · Apr 3rd, 2012, 05:35 AM

sometimes my OH cant finish. he puts it down to being tired from work (he has a physical job) When I need him i.e. today and tomorrow, I sometimes dress up for him in the bedroom., something a little different from the norm usually helps and it doest have to be too extreme..

LadyGriz11 · Apr 3rd, 2012, 05:37 AM

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Originally Posted by laurabe

sometimes my OH cant finish. he puts it down to being tired from work (he has a physical job) When I need him i.e. today and tomorrow, I sometimes dress up for him in the bedroom., something a little different from the norm usually helps and it doest have to be too extreme..

I agree! It definitely doesn't hurt to spice things up a bit, makes things more spontaneous and fun and we all know that's necessary to keep BD'ing from becoming a job.

Apr 3rd, 2012, 04:51 AM	#1
ms sunshine Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: manchester, uk Posts: 660	feeling worried and sad every month something happens last two or three months my dh is not always finishing he is just not able to. no idea why he does not know when I an due to ov I don't talk baby stuff and keeping it relaxed he says he is not stressed. so don't know he must be worried and just not saying. I'm trying pre conceive and wondering if that has anything to do with it. as seems to have started when I started to use that. on top of this I'm on month 8 . I am worried it's not going to happen then it's time for the doctors. then it's the worry that there is something wrong with me. I know worrying is bad but can't help it. I used to be excited by ov but now dh has problems I'm worried that it's going to carry on all week. I guess in short I'm fed up of trying and just want it to work! anyway dh takes vits and so do I but is there anything else anyone tries that might help. been thinking of vitex but I don't know if anyone can take it or if it is for people with specific problems. any help at this point much appreciated as just need a bit of hope x

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Apr 3rd, 2012, 04:55 AM	#2
LisaTelsa01 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 15	I probably won't be much help but just wanted to say that I feel exactly the same. I have been trying for roughly 4 months now and feel so scared that it will never happen. I feel like everyone around me is getting pregnant just thinking about it! I really hope that it works out for you and I am sure it will be fine. Everyone keeps telling me to stop being so stressed so I am going to try to calm down as I know that can effect things as well. Good luck x

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Apr 3rd, 2012, 05:35 AM	#3
laurabe Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Glasgow Posts: 850	sometimes my OH cant finish. he puts it down to being tired from work (he has a physical job) When I need him i.e. today and tomorrow, I sometimes dress up for him in the bedroom., something a little different from the norm usually helps and it doest have to be too extreme..

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