How to keep DH's hands off himself!?

westfall · Apr 6th, 2012, 06:09 AM

Kinda embarrassing to talk about

(although im sure he would be way more embarassed if he knew i was posting this

)

But we have started BDing for the month and DH cant stop pleasuring himself!! not in some sort of obsessive, needs psychological help sort of way LOL but he cant seem to save him self!

Yesterday after we DTD he told me that he had just done it before I came home! I was like seriously

you couldnt wait a few hours?!

anyone else have this little problem or any advice as to how to deal with it ?

AS116 · Apr 6th, 2012, 07:47 AM

Try explaining the science behind it - that it takes a while for men to regenerate healthy, strong sperm which will increase the chances of getting pregnant

floatingbaby · Apr 6th, 2012, 10:48 AM

Maybe you could get your DH to give some of his horny-ness to mine, and mine will give some of his non-horny-ness to yours and then they will both have happy and satisfied wives.

NewMoonLove · Apr 6th, 2012, 11:15 AM

Its perfectly natural to want to "pleasure" yourself don't be to hard on him, maybe try having sex in the morning? Then he wont be so worked up the rest of the day? Thats probably what I would try first.

Good luck

LvMyHsbnd · Apr 6th, 2012, 11:18 AM

Agreed with doing it in the morning or middle of the night! My DH also has his fun sometimes at the wrong times....but just be thankful that he is honest about it! I'm sure some men hide that kind of stuff!

XO

LilMrs224 · Apr 6th, 2012, 11:26 AM

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Originally Posted by floatingbaby

Maybe you could get your DH to give some of his horny-ness to mine, and mine will give some of his non-horny-ness to yours and then they will both have happy and satisfied wives.

amen to that!!! How I married a guy in his 20s who would rather cuddle most nights is beyond

me lol

markswife10 · Apr 6th, 2012, 11:35 AM

I would agree with the morning sex thing. My DH seems to be at his best in the mornings, and at night he's tired and would rather cuddle

maybe your DH would be less apt to pleasure himself if you had sex in the morning so he won't build up all morning/afternoon. Good luck!

floatingbaby · Apr 6th, 2012, 11:44 AM

Yeah cuddling, psh, who needs that?

hahaha

markswife10 · Apr 6th, 2012, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by floatingbaby

Yeah cuddling, psh, who needs that?

hahaha

Haha, cuddling is nice and lovey but it won't get you a baby!

LoveCakes · Apr 6th, 2012, 11:50 AM

Maybe he's doing it so he can last longer? If he's too built up he may finish too soon.

You do need to have a word though, you need the fresh swimmers lol

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markswife10 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: NC Posts: 1,035	I would agree with the morning sex thing. My DH seems to be at his best in the mornings, and at night he's tired and would rather cuddle maybe your DH would be less apt to pleasure himself if you had sex in the morning so he won't build up all morning/afternoon. Good luck!

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