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ashleylu88 · Apr 7th, 2012, 16:42 PM

Well ladies I got off this morning and BD'd with Preseed around 9am.

Breakdown. BD'd Thursday at 5am. +OPK on Friday at 4:35pm, BD'd Saturday at 9:15am with preseed.

FX'd for my BFP this month.

I am like all you ladies, all my friends either have babies, are pregnant, or are pregnant with their 2nd baby! I'm like really? I just want 1!!

ES89 · Apr 7th, 2012, 16:53 PM

in the last 3 days I have found out about 3 new pregnancies, 1 who is very young, another who is young and immature n the other who is single n on her third is single n she is only my age!! hufffffff. probably wouldnt bother me if it wasnt taking soooooo long for me. just seems so unfair x

ashleylu88 · Apr 7th, 2012, 17:06 PM

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Originally Posted by ES89

in the last 3 days I have found out about 3 new pregnancies, 1 who is very young, another who is young and immature n the other who is single n on her third is single n she is only my age!! hufffffff. probably wouldnt bother me if it wasnt taking soooooo long for me. just seems so unfair x

I completely agree!! My cousin is pregnant, she is only 18, has no job, dating tons of different guys, and always posting on her fb about how she is getting her hair and nails done! I am like really? I am 23, my DH is 26 and we are very stable, we have our house, good jobs and we have been saving like crazy for a baby and even paid all of our credit cards off to better prepare to start a family. It's like the responsible women that are SO ready for a baby take forever to get pregnant. I always knew I wanted to be a young mom (I am very mature for my age) but I also wanted to make sure my husband and I were ready and financially stable before we even thought about bringing a newborn into this world. How old are you and DH?

My husband tells me all the time, that we should get get wasted and have hot , steamy sex and then we will get pregnant. Like all the careless teenagers. HAHA

tsyhanochka · Apr 7th, 2012, 19:28 PM

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Originally Posted by ES89

My husband tells me all the time, that we should get get wasted and have hot , steamy sex and then we will get pregnant. Like all the careless teenagers. HAHA

That's essentially what my OH said.... I may be drinking wine as I type right now

. Totally not a fertile day but AF is ending so I know I'm not risking anything.

A good friend from university had tried for almost a year and one night got loaded at a party and boom. She said it was what she needed LOL

We'll get there.

ES89 · Apr 8th, 2012, 10:44 AM

I am the same age as you ashleylu and very much in the same situation, both working, our own home etc (excpet my oh is 31 :P ) fx it will happen for us all very soon

my friend was lovely yesterday she said its taking time for you because you're gonna be a great mum and the timing needs to be right x

ashleylu88 · Apr 8th, 2012, 16:43 PM

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Originally Posted by ES89

I am the same age as you ashleylu and very much in the same situation, both working, our own home etc (excpet my oh is 31 :P ) fx it will happen for us all very soon

my friend was lovely yesterday she said its taking time for you because you're gonna be a great mum and the timing needs to be right x

Awesome! We do have a lot in common. My best friend is 23 and she is married to a 31 year old. She has a son from a previous marriage and she found out in Feb that she is pregnant, about 10 weeks now. They got pregnant in Jan of 2010 with twins and lost both of them.

So I am thinking that we should become TTC buddies

We can stick by each others side throughout our whole ttc journey. I am currently on CD17 and I got my +OPK on CD15, so now I am in my 2ww.

ES89 · Apr 9th, 2012, 02:45 AM

sounds good to me, I have accepted your friend request

AF is due today or tomorrow going by my last 3 cycles. I usually spot before I start but not even had that yet.... I am nervous!!
I hate the tww

when is AF due for you?
My future sister in law/ best friend is expecting in June, she also took a while to conceive her little bean and had a m/c March 2011. Gives me hope. She said she literally accepted her life as it was, she was lucky to already have her little boy (from previous relationship) and she fell pregnant. She didn't even have a pregnancy test in the house haha x

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ashleylu88 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Georgia Posts: 449	Well ladies I got off this morning and BD'd with Preseed around 9am. Breakdown. BD'd Thursday at 5am. +OPK on Friday at 4:35pm, BD'd Saturday at 9:15am with preseed. FX'd for my BFP this month. I am like all you ladies, all my friends either have babies, are pregnant, or are pregnant with their 2nd baby! I'm like really? I just want 1!!

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Apr 7th, 2012, 16:53 PM	#12
ES89 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: North Wales, UK Posts: 958	in the last 3 days I have found out about 3 new pregnancies, 1 who is very young, another who is young and immature n the other who is single n on her third is single n she is only my age!! hufffffff. probably wouldnt bother me if it wasnt taking soooooo long for me. just seems so unfair x

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Apr 8th, 2012, 10:44 AM	#15
ES89 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: North Wales, UK Posts: 958	I am the same age as you ashleylu and very much in the same situation, both working, our own home etc (excpet my oh is 31 :P ) fx it will happen for us all very soon my friend was lovely yesterday she said its taking time for you because you're gonna be a great mum and the timing needs to be right x

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Apr 9th, 2012, 02:45 AM	#17
ES89 Other Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: North Wales, UK Posts: 958	sounds good to me, I have accepted your friend request AF is due today or tomorrow going by my last 3 cycles. I usually spot before I start but not even had that yet.... I am nervous!! I hate the tww when is AF due for you? My future sister in law/ best friend is expecting in June, she also took a while to conceive her little bean and had a m/c March 2011. Gives me hope. She said she literally accepted her life as it was, she was lucky to already have her little boy (from previous relationship) and she fell pregnant. She didn't even have a pregnancy test in the house haha x

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