14 dpo bfp then bfn? Please help!

nicole844 · Apr 8th, 2012, 21:50 PM

Hey ladies! Advice/experiences needed!
I had a very faint bfp at 11 dpo on $ store tests (pic attached) and bfns since. I am now 14 dpo & AF was due this morning and didn't show!! I tested bfn this morning. However my smptoms are good:
My temp is higher than ever along with hot flashes
Nipples are larger and darker with blue veins & occasional shooting pain
bbs so very sore and heavy and have been since I O'ed
Very exhausted since O
Checked my cervix and it is high and had dark brown blood- i would think it would be low with af so close?
Any opinions on what this could mean?! Anyone test negative at 14 and have a bfp after? Thanks so much, my FXed.

brieri1 · Apr 8th, 2012, 22:58 PM

I don't have a lot of experience, and I've never been pregnant before, but I'll try to help. What are your normal symptoms before af is due? That'll be most helpful in deciding whether or not your symptoms now are pregnancy. The test could have been a false positive, an evap line, or accurate. Your cervix can move around in all sorts of positions before you start af. This last visit I had, I checked my cervix 3 hours before I started and it was high, no blood, then bam. Period. I would give it another few days before testing again. Your agitation could be stressing your body into being late. TTC women are notorious for being a few days late. I hope this helps. Post again and let us know how its going. Hope you get your BFP!

yellow11 · Apr 9th, 2012, 03:16 AM

Could it be possible that you had a chemical pregnancy hun?

It's when the egg is fertilized and your body starts producing pregnancy hormones and you test positive but then the egg doesn't implant into the womb, causing what is known as a chemical pregnancy. It's a very common thing to happen. Apparently 50-70% of pregnancies end in chemical but only are spotted if you are testing before af arrives, most people never know they have them. Thus is a good sign though hun, it means that everything's doing as it should you just need to wait on your sticky one. Fingers crossed for you. Xxxx

nicole844 · Apr 9th, 2012, 09:43 AM

Thanks ladies!! I was thinking chemical too, I just don't know where AF is and the blood def looks like implantation. This is all so confusing

I also haven't seen a temp drop for af, just higher and higher. I guess I will just wait a few more days FXed. Thanks ladies

nicole844 · Apr 9th, 2012, 16:37 PM

Update:
Now 2 days late and no af signs still! I am never late. My cervix is even higher than yesterday and has turned upwards so i cant even reach to see if it is open/closed. The tiny bit of dark brown blood from yesterday was barely there today and I had more cm.
very vivid dreams still, temps still high & night sweats, painfu bbs and veins, etc.. same things as the whole cycle!! very tired.
Thanks again ladies! this is such torture!!

brieri1 · Apr 9th, 2012, 17:20 PM

Try to relax. Only time will tell. What sort of pregnancy tests are you using? Sorry if you already said.

nicole844 · Apr 9th, 2012, 17:48 PM

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Originally Posted by brieri1

Try to relax. Only time will tell. What sort of pregnancy tests are you using? Sorry if you already said.

No problem!! I used $ store brand, which I heard is pretty accurate. I used a FRER but it was a few days ago and I know I would've implanted late if the blood was from that.

brieri1 · Apr 9th, 2012, 17:54 PM

Dollar store brand is like any other brand, it works well for some people and others it doesn't. Maybe try a different brand? Equate is usually good and cheap, that's the Wal-mart brand. And some people can never test on a pee stick, just something to keep in mind. It sounds like it could be, but it is possible to have brownish blood a couple days before you start. If it is just implantation blood, than its probably gonna be a good week before you test positive. Either way, hoping you get your BFP! Good luck and plenty of baby dust!

Veganlily · Apr 9th, 2012, 18:44 PM

I agree-I'd try FRER tomorrow am with FMU. Good luck!!

nicole844 · Apr 9th, 2012, 20:49 PM

Of course the store sold out of FRER!! I got clear blue digital to avoid a blue dye test- I know theyre not as sensitive but hopefully since I'm late it will pick it up if i am! Fxed

Apr 8th, 2012, 22:58 PM	#2
brieri1 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 891	I don't have a lot of experience, and I've never been pregnant before, but I'll try to help. What are your normal symptoms before af is due? That'll be most helpful in deciding whether or not your symptoms now are pregnancy. The test could have been a false positive, an evap line, or accurate. Your cervix can move around in all sorts of positions before you start af. This last visit I had, I checked my cervix 3 hours before I started and it was high, no blood, then bam. Period. I would give it another few days before testing again. Your agitation could be stressing your body into being late. TTC women are notorious for being a few days late. I hope this helps. Post again and let us know how its going. Hope you get your BFP!

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Apr 9th, 2012, 03:16 AM	#3
yellow11 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2011 Posts: 3,517	Could it be possible that you had a chemical pregnancy hun? It's when the egg is fertilized and your body starts producing pregnancy hormones and you test positive but then the egg doesn't implant into the womb, causing what is known as a chemical pregnancy. It's a very common thing to happen. Apparently 50-70% of pregnancies end in chemical but only are spotted if you are testing before af arrives, most people never know they have them. Thus is a good sign though hun, it means that everything's doing as it should you just need to wait on your sticky one. Fingers crossed for you. Xxxx

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Apr 9th, 2012, 09:43 AM	#4
nicole844 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 240	Thanks ladies!! I was thinking chemical too, I just don't know where AF is and the blood def looks like implantation. This is all so confusing I also haven't seen a temp drop for af, just higher and higher. I guess I will just wait a few more days FXed. Thanks ladies

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Apr 9th, 2012, 16:37 PM	#5
nicole844 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 240	Update: Now 2 days late and no af signs still! I am never late. My cervix is even higher than yesterday and has turned upwards so i cant even reach to see if it is open/closed. The tiny bit of dark brown blood from yesterday was barely there today and I had more cm. very vivid dreams still, temps still high & night sweats, painfu bbs and veins, etc.. same things as the whole cycle!! very tired. Thanks again ladies! this is such torture!!

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Apr 9th, 2012, 17:20 PM	#6
brieri1 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 891	Try to relax. Only time will tell. What sort of pregnancy tests are you using? Sorry if you already said.

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Apr 9th, 2012, 17:54 PM	#8
brieri1 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 891	Dollar store brand is like any other brand, it works well for some people and others it doesn't. Maybe try a different brand? Equate is usually good and cheap, that's the Wal-mart brand. And some people can never test on a pee stick, just something to keep in mind. It sounds like it could be, but it is possible to have brownish blood a couple days before you start. If it is just implantation blood, than its probably gonna be a good week before you test positive. Either way, hoping you get your BFP! Good luck and plenty of baby dust!

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Apr 9th, 2012, 18:44 PM	#9
Veganlily Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 712	I agree-I'd try FRER tomorrow am with FMU. Good luck!!

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Apr 9th, 2012, 20:49 PM	#10
nicole844 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 240	Of course the store sold out of FRER!! I got clear blue digital to avoid a blue dye test- I know theyre not as sensitive but hopefully since I'm late it will pick it up if i am! Fxed

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