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Old Sep 23rd, 2010, 06:52 AM   41
sunlover72
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**Holds hand up to the OP**

We are in cycle 14 and have tried naturally, with one BFP to show for it (chemical)

Next cycle though if we have no luck we are going to try clomid..

Oh, im 38, my partner is 43.



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Old Sep 23rd, 2010, 07:21 AM   42
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Hello ladies!

Do you mind if I join this thread? I am not quite 40...(38) but my DH turned 41 yesterday.

I was pregnant for the first time recently and had a mmc 2 weeks ago. I am still healing physically (from the D&C) and emotionally from that as it left us both devastated and me, very vulnerable.

I am still bleeding from the D&C but my Dr. has given me the go ahead to try again the same cycle as soon as I get AF.

It's wonderful to hear your stories and has made me feel so much better xoxo



 
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Old Sep 23rd, 2010, 08:44 AM   43
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Hello Animalcracker,

I'm so sorry to read your devastating news, I hope your able to keep positive, through such a difficult time.. I think what you've just experienced is very hard, and I'm glad your on here, sharing with other caring posters.. good or bad days, we'll be here..

I'm a homemaker, so I'm always popping on and off line..

be well, and good luck

Bonny



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Old Sep 23rd, 2010, 10:06 AM   44
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Hello Animalcracker,

I'm so sorry to read your devastating news, I hope your able to keep positive, through such a difficult time.. I think what you've just experienced is very hard, and I'm glad your on here, sharing with other caring posters.. good or bad days, we'll be here..

I'm a homemaker, so I'm always popping on and off line..

be well, and good luck

Bonny
Thank you Bonny. I am trying to be positive, although it is hard for me as I was also diagnosed with uterine fibroids at the same time I found out about my mmc. I have read about lots of women who have fibroids and go on to have healthy pregnancies so I have all of my fingers and toes crossed I am that fortunate as well.

I really appreciate your kind words and maybe we can share our ups and downs together as we make this journey. I can't wait to be a mother. xoxo



 
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Old Sep 23rd, 2010, 15:14 PM   45
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Hello ladies!

Do you mind if I join this thread? I am not quite 40...(38) but my DH turned 41 yesterday.

I was pregnant for the first time recently and had a mmc 2 weeks ago. I am still healing physically (from the D&C) and emotionally from that as it left us both devastated and me, very vulnerable.

I am still bleeding from the D&C but my Dr. has given me the go ahead to try again the same cycle as soon as I get AF.

It's wonderful to hear your stories and has made me feel so much better xoxo
Sorry you had to go through that Animalcracker, they arnt particularly nice are they! Take heart though, many women fall pregnant again quite quickly after a D&C, this pregnancy was straight after my 4th mc, which was a mmc ending in a D&C, I didnt even see a period, just a positive pregnancy test!

MissyMooMoo love your avatar, your pup is too cute!!



 
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Old Sep 28th, 2010, 06:38 AM   46
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still waiting on AF, but definately not pregnant this month... aaaarrrrggghhh !?!



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Old Sep 28th, 2010, 14:23 PM   47
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Hi ladies, I hope to be joining you soon!

We conceived our first very easily when we were both 39 (one weekend of trying!), and I hope that our second will be as much fun and as quick!

At the moment we're WTT as I have a consultant's appointment tomorrow, we need to see if there's any way to minimise the chance of our next baby coming along as early as Andrew did. With any luck he'll give us the okay to TTC



 
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Old Sep 28th, 2010, 17:20 PM   48
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Hi Ladies. I'm new to all of this - the forum, and talking about TTC.
Animalcrackers: I'm so sorry for you and your hubby. be good to yourself, and don't let negative thoughts take over. Many of my girlfriends, who are now moms, have had the same experience, and I am sure you will be pregnant soon.
I'm 42, my birthday was yesterday, and we have been trying for about a year. I've wanted to do this as natural as possible, but I have my doubts that it will happen wihtout some kind of chemical intervention. Our next step is a fertility clinic.

I have to ask, if it isn't too personal: how many times a week or a month do you have sex with your husbands? My husband works different hours from me, and often he is getting home after I have gone to bed.

Looking forward to your thoughts!



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Old Sep 28th, 2010, 17:57 PM   49
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hi there,am doing it the natural way have had one successful preg at 35 and nothing for 9 years not even a hint until this year when i sadly mc at 9 weeks.i got preg after having completely given up hope .

ivf is out of the question due to cost involved so natural is the only way forward for me and to answer your question about every second night .you will have to get him to wake you up or set alarm for morning fun



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Old Sep 29th, 2010, 08:18 AM   50
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Now, the questions asked by Sally_girl, is one I'm interested in myself..

having had a conversation with a 'specialist' recently, who said I don't qualify for help in anyway ie, IVF ?!? and sent us home, to do it the natural way.. hummf..

anyway, he asked how often we were DTD, and I stupidly answered, when the CBFM tells us, I'm high or ovulating yes he laughed, and said, ok your doing it wrong..

have sex twice a week, no pressure, no stress, just casual loving sex.. forget the schedule, the sperm lives alot longer than we imagine, so we're increase our chances of TTC, by having more regular sex.

so we left, mortified, and feeling very sheepish..

so we're trying to do that.. BUT IT HASN'T HAPPENED YET.

Bonny

p.s. any additional advise would be gratefully appreciated.. lol lol lol



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