Buddy wanted over 35 ttc! - Page 10

septbride · Apr 13th, 2012, 09:21 AM

Thank you, goddess!

Sakura and greta, I'm sorry to hear that AF showed up. That's great that your guy is doing his SA, greta. Sending good wishes that his test goes well.

Still no AF for me, but lots of cramping -- feeling sharper pains on my right side yesterday and today. Emotionally, feeling like Britney Spears circa 2007 meltdown. They weren't kidding about Clomid/HSG bringing on intense periods!

Happy Friday to you all!

waiting2012 · Apr 13th, 2012, 12:16 PM

I hope I remembered everything...

Greta--sorry that AF found you sweetie, I was hoping she wouldn't...

I'm crossing my fingers and toes that this will be her last visit for a while!

Sakura--Good luck with BD'ing!!! FX'ed for you to hun!!

Kiska--Cysts--oh goodness..I hope they don't give you to much trouble...I know that the doctor wants you to wait, but what would happen if you did get pregnant without even trying--nothing would happen would it? FX'ed sweetie for a good outcome!!

Sept--I had some aweful AF type cramps too before getting my bfp--that's normal...You know that old saying, "I swore AF was knocking but got my bfp"....That may just happen for you hun!! FX'ed all turns out, and if AF does show--then she's not to much of a B'!

goddess25 · Apr 13th, 2012, 23:31 PM

Sakura and greta, I'm sorry to hear that AF showed up

Sept - your not out yet.

I got a happy surprise today on my OPK which was a bit positive... i so never thought I was ovulating. TOday is CD15 so not bad timing. I dont have any EWCM which has changed since my last pregnancy so I will need to use pre seed or something.

Gooberzilla · Apr 14th, 2012, 02:41 AM

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Originally Posted by gretarose

Hi, I'm looking for a buddy, ideally someone over 35 trying to conceive...it would be lovely to share thoughts and advice. Most of my friends already have children or don't want them...so been feeling a bit lonely! x

Hi! I'd like to be buddies too.

I turned 35 a few months ago, about a month about officially hitting 12 months TTC#2. I feel lonely too. I always feel uncomfortable aroud other moms because the subject of having another baby and I never know what to say without getting into the huge long story.

Anyway, my background is that I tried for 4 years to get DD. I am trying for baby #2 now, but I don't have a lot of hope. DH won't do anything medical-either we get pregnant or we don't. Its frustrating but it is what it is. Luckily, my FSH levels are great, I am ovulating every month, and as long as we keep trying, at least I have a shot, right?

goddess25 · Apr 14th, 2012, 11:54 AM

Gooberzilla hope it happens for you soon. Fingers crossed.

With your daughter did you take anything to help your fertility..4 years is a long time. How long have you been trying for #2. Its hard when your husband does not want to do anything. My husband is the same he disagrees with fertility treatment in any form which is utterly ridiculous and thinks that it its meant to be you will get pregnant.

If you are ovulating then yes you have a shot.

septbride · Apr 15th, 2012, 07:52 AM

Hi Gooberzilla,

Glad you've found us...I've found this group to be really helpful and hope you do too. Do you know if your partner's sperm count is good? If it's low, will he take a multivitamin or a fertility blend like FertilAid?

Good luck!!

xx

Mas1118 · Apr 15th, 2012, 18:46 PM

Hi Ladies

I have been TTC for a very long time. I am 36 now and figured I would have a LO or two running around to join our 8 (almost 9) yr old but sadly that has not been been the case. I am on CD2 atm and feeling pretty low. I have been on quite a few threads but I always seem to be the one left behind without a BFP

We have done the fertility meds etc... but I did not have a great reaction to them - they made me very sad for the 1st 2 weeks of every cycle and it was steadily getting worse so we stopped. i am now doing a ton of supplements and having some success as i now get ewcm and positive opk.'s (which I never had either before). Anyway this is my 1st cycle after my Lap/hysterscopy and I am hoping to finally get a BFP. I would really love some buddies and this thread seemed like just the place.

to you all!

goddess25 · Apr 16th, 2012, 15:57 PM

welcome mas118 ... fingers crossed that you now have EWCM and you are ovulating plus not to mention post Lap.. you finally get to see a BFP. Wishing you all the luck in the world, it sounds well deserved.

Everyone seems really nice here.

gretarose · Apr 17th, 2012, 04:54 AM

Hello ladies
just wanted to welcome the newbies gooberzilla and mas...hello! I am very proud to say I started this thread and it just has grown and grown! It always comforts me when I check in, and there are lots of different situations going on for everyone...everyone special and brave in their own way.
Thanks for all the sweet messages, they are all noted just sometimes I don't get time to reply individually...x
Well, I am creeping close to my precious time of OV so going to try and bd as much as possible this month!! Spring is in the air afterall!!
love and

to everyone
xxxxxxx

septbride · Apr 17th, 2012, 09:55 AM

Thanks for the sweet message, gretarose, and thank you for starting this thread. I agree with goddess that everyone is so nice here. It's a great help.

AF arrived yesterday, so it's on to cycle 2 with Clomid. I might go down to 50 mg to make the side effects easier to handle.

Hope you are all feeling good. Onward and upward!

Apr 13th, 2012, 09:21 AM	#91
septbride Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Boston Posts: 1,254	Thank you, goddess! Sakura and greta, I'm sorry to hear that AF showed up. That's great that your guy is doing his SA, greta. Sending good wishes that his test goes well. Still no AF for me, but lots of cramping -- feeling sharper pains on my right side yesterday and today. Emotionally, feeling like Britney Spears circa 2007 meltdown. They weren't kidding about Clomid/HSG bringing on intense periods! Happy Friday to you all!

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Apr 13th, 2012, 12:16 PM	#92
waiting2012 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Bowie, Texas Posts: 3,978	I hope I remembered everything... Greta--sorry that AF found you sweetie, I was hoping she wouldn't... I'm crossing my fingers and toes that this will be her last visit for a while! Sakura--Good luck with BD'ing!!! FX'ed for you to hun!! Kiska--Cysts--oh goodness..I hope they don't give you to much trouble...I know that the doctor wants you to wait, but what would happen if you did get pregnant without even trying--nothing would happen would it? FX'ed sweetie for a good outcome!! Sept--I had some aweful AF type cramps too before getting my bfp--that's normal...You know that old saying, "I swore AF was knocking but got my bfp"....That may just happen for you hun!! FX'ed all turns out, and if AF does show--then she's not to much of a B'!

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Apr 13th, 2012, 23:31 PM	#93
goddess25 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: vancouver Posts: 9,341	Sakura and greta, I'm sorry to hear that AF showed up Sept - your not out yet. I got a happy surprise today on my OPK which was a bit positive... i so never thought I was ovulating. TOday is CD15 so not bad timing. I dont have any EWCM which has changed since my last pregnancy so I will need to use pre seed or something.

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Apr 14th, 2012, 11:54 AM	#95
goddess25 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: vancouver Posts: 9,341	Gooberzilla hope it happens for you soon. Fingers crossed. With your daughter did you take anything to help your fertility..4 years is a long time. How long have you been trying for #2. Its hard when your husband does not want to do anything. My husband is the same he disagrees with fertility treatment in any form which is utterly ridiculous and thinks that it its meant to be you will get pregnant. If you are ovulating then yes you have a shot.

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Apr 15th, 2012, 07:52 AM	#96
septbride Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Boston Posts: 1,254	Hi Gooberzilla, Glad you've found us...I've found this group to be really helpful and hope you do too. Do you know if your partner's sperm count is good? If it's low, will he take a multivitamin or a fertility blend like FertilAid? Good luck!! xx

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Apr 15th, 2012, 18:46 PM	#97
Mas1118 Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Ontario, Canada - North of Toronto Posts: 1,013	Hi Ladies I have been TTC for a very long time. I am 36 now and figured I would have a LO or two running around to join our 8 (almost 9) yr old but sadly that has not been been the case. I am on CD2 atm and feeling pretty low. I have been on quite a few threads but I always seem to be the one left behind without a BFP We have done the fertility meds etc... but I did not have a great reaction to them - they made me very sad for the 1st 2 weeks of every cycle and it was steadily getting worse so we stopped. i am now doing a ton of supplements and having some success as i now get ewcm and positive opk.'s (which I never had either before). Anyway this is my 1st cycle after my Lap/hysterscopy and I am hoping to finally get a BFP. I would really love some buddies and this thread seemed like just the place. to you all!

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Apr 16th, 2012, 15:57 PM	#98
goddess25 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: vancouver Posts: 9,341	welcome mas118 ... fingers crossed that you now have EWCM and you are ovulating plus not to mention post Lap.. you finally get to see a BFP. Wishing you all the luck in the world, it sounds well deserved. Everyone seems really nice here.

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Apr 17th, 2012, 04:54 AM	#99
gretarose Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: UK Posts: 43	Hello ladies just wanted to welcome the newbies gooberzilla and mas...hello! I am very proud to say I started this thread and it just has grown and grown! It always comforts me when I check in, and there are lots of different situations going on for everyone...everyone special and brave in their own way. Thanks for all the sweet messages, they are all noted just sometimes I don't get time to reply individually...x Well, I am creeping close to my precious time of OV so going to try and bd as much as possible this month!! Spring is in the air afterall!! love and to everyone xxxxxxx

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Apr 17th, 2012, 09:55 AM	#100
septbride Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Boston Posts: 1,254	Thanks for the sweet message, gretarose, and thank you for starting this thread. I agree with goddess that everyone is so nice here. It's a great help. AF arrived yesterday, so it's on to cycle 2 with Clomid. I might go down to 50 mg to make the side effects easier to handle. Hope you are all feeling good. Onward and upward!

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