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Old Apr 3rd, 2012, 01:15 AM   #11
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So small update, first blood test came back positive, took the second test today and we'll see if hcg is increasing or decreasing. I should have results by Wed. Still having light bleeding which has been going on for over a week now. I'm so anxious to have some answers, I can't think about anything else. If I am pregnant all this bleeding can't be good, I don't want to get too excited.


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Old Apr 3rd, 2012, 21:35 PM   #12
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So, just heard from the doctor. Second test was still confusing, showed some increase in HCG but not the doubling that it should.

The doctor wants to do another blood test to continue to track what's happening and book and u/s to see if anything is there. He said he's not really sure what is happening, but it could be a previous miscarriage that my body is still trying to clean out, or that I'm pregnant but it's probably not viable. He's already talking about a d and c.

I can't help but hope that he's wrong. Although I've been bleeding for a week now there haven't been any clots and it seems that bleeding isnt that uncommon, would I be naive to look for a second opinion? He seems really convinced that I have or am about to miscarry, maybe that's the case but it would be nice to have something more positive. I'm not sure what else I would want beside an u/s though.

Feeling so lost, any advice?


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Old Apr 4th, 2012, 03:44 AM   #13
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I have had bleeding in both my pregnancies (one was miscarriage, one was my now 16yr old DD). I would ask your doctor for another US sooner, especially if blood tests are still rising. When I was bleeding second time I was 8 weeks pregnant and there was a very small heartbeat, one tiny pixel flashing on the screen. Stress how much you need to know, he doesn't seem to understand this is torture for you xxx


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Old Apr 4th, 2012, 05:56 AM   #14
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This is beyond my experience now, but Im rooting for you. Thanks for the updates, keep them coming. Sending you hugs and luck hun xx


 
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Old Apr 4th, 2012, 16:58 PM   #15
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Just a thought...my aunt was PG with fraternal twins (early like 5-6 weeks) She knew she was PG just didn't know with twins. She bled off and on for a couple days...went to dr for an u/s and turned out that she lost one but not the other. She carried Maddie to full term. (She is 15 now!)


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Old Apr 4th, 2012, 17:20 PM   #16
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Just a thought...my aunt was PG with fraternal twins (early like 5-6 weeks) She knew she was PG just didn't know with twins. She bled off and on for a couple days...went to dr for an u/s and turned out that she lost one but not the other. She carried Maddie to full term. (She is 15 now!)
This also happened with my sister-in-law, she was told it's more common than people realise x


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Old Apr 5th, 2012, 18:07 PM   #17
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Oh, hun...I'm just now catching up--usually when I check my User CP--it will tell me which threads I have posted to and if there is any new postings...I'm so sorry sweetie...I so hope the bleeding is easing up and that your numbers come back good...Show them doctors wrong! Big hun and I'll will def be lurking to see how your coming along....


 
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Old Apr 7th, 2012, 00:47 AM   #18
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So this roller-coaster just doesn't stop. Went for a third blood test, but haven't seen the results yet, also got in for an ultrasound on Thurs evening and the u/s tech said everything looks completely normal for 5.5 weeks. We could see the sac and a fetal pole and my uterus is growing. The sac was up high in the uterus, apparently if there is an impending miscarriage the sac slips down lower. All very encouraging!

However 5.5 weeks just doesn't add up, I was sure that I was more like 6.5, even if I was off with my ov dates, we weren't bd'ing 3.5 weeks ago - so I'm worried that something is slowing down the development.

Also, I'm still bleeding, if anything it's getting heavier, despite the fact that I'm really being careful and getting a lot of rest.

I called to see if I could get into see my gyno, as my family doctor doesn't seem to have any idea what's going on and I thought my gyno would be more willing to do a vaginal exam that might tell me if there is some sort of infection or cyst or something, but I couldn't get through and finally left a message but everyone is now gone for the long weekend.

Although my mind was put a bit at ease by the ultrasound, the bleeding is worrying me to distraction! The good news is the tech booked me for another one in two weeks, so we'll get to see the little bean again if it hangs on, but this bleeding is emotionally and physically exhausting!

Thanks for all the support and encouragement ladies, I really do appreciate your willingness to listen (read)!


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Old Apr 7th, 2012, 01:07 AM   #19
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Hi nature nut! First I want to say I really hope everything goes well and I know how you feel. My son is 10 years old now. When I first found out I was preg with him, I kept having my period like normal. Doctors said they didn't know why and couldn't tell me anything. At about 5-6 weeks I was bleeding and cramping so bad I went to the ER. That was the worst experience ever because of how rude and heartless the nurse in triage was to me. I mean like really bad! Actually handed me a plastic bag, told me to go in the bathroom, check to see if I had a miscarriage, and if I did to put it in the bag and bring out to her! It was horrible! Well I carried him just fine to term! When I went in to see my midwife, she checked my cervix and I suddenly started bleeding again, well she freaked out! Later I found that she unknowingly popped my blood vessels checking me. I can't be sure why you are bleeding, but one thought is it could be just blood vessels from your growing bump inside! Which is nothing to worry about! I still haven't heard of anything like my case from anyone, but it did happen to me! Think positive! Everything else you have said is sounding good! I'll be praying for you and your baby! Try to relax as much as possible so you don't get stressed out. GL and hope to hear a positive update!


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Old Apr 7th, 2012, 05:09 AM   #20
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Implantation can take 7-14 days, so your dates would be different for scan if it was late implantation. When I was pregnant with my daughter I knew the exact date I BD (only once in that month that's why I knew) so I was 100% sure of all my dates but the scan still put me a week less than what I was. Hang in there. If you're 7/8 weeks at next scan you may becable to see the heartbeat & that will put your mind at ease. Many women bleed, I've heard it's a combination of increased blood supply & temporary cervical erosion. I read it on a medical website recently, that as many as 40% of women have some type of bleed while pregnant and go on to have healthy baby.


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