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Old Oct 12th, 2012, 04:12 AM   21
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Im getting so frustrated with my body not playing ball! CD1 was 1st Sept - i should be nearly on my next O day by now, but no, instead im CD42 with NO sign of AF and ANOTHER BFN this morning!! Im reading all these books about TTC but its all useless unless i actually know what is going on with my cycle! And to top it off, my friend had her baby yesterday (she fell on her first month TTC) and another had hers a week ago - im so jealous!!!!!!!!!! All i want is a chance to conceive and i cant even get that! Dr better have some solutions wen i see her on Monday otherwise i'll have something else to rant about!!!!



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Old Oct 12th, 2012, 17:39 PM   22
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Im getting so frustrated with my body not playing ball! CD1 was 1st Sept - i should be nearly on my next O day by now, but no, instead im CD42 with NO sign of AF and ANOTHER BFN this morning!! Im reading all these books about TTC but its all useless unless i actually know what is going on with my cycle! And to top it off, my friend had her baby yesterday (she fell on her first month TTC) and another had hers a week ago - im so jealous!!!!!!!!!! All i want is a chance to conceive and i cant even get that! Dr better have some solutions wen i see her on Monday otherwise i'll have something else to rant about!!!!
Hi Bec2 do you have PCOS? Your cycle sounds like mine this month. CD1 for me was Sept 8th. I didnt ovulate at all this month according to my fertility monitor, although it read me as "highly fertile" for 10 days then went back to "low" without peaking. now on CD 35 and no sign of AF or anything else for that matter. Ive lost a whole month and Its like my body just doesnt bother doing ANYTHING!!



 
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Old Oct 12th, 2012, 17:52 PM   23
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i hear you im not oulating at all its beyond depressing



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Old Oct 12th, 2012, 20:07 PM   24
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Thank God there's this forum.. DH and I are both frustrated that we who have been TTC #1 for 1 year and 4 months are still unable to get pregnant while my brother and sisinlaw who just got married in August are ALREADY PREGNANT!! Are you for real?!?!?? They weren't even "trying". When we found out it was so hard to put on a happy face, but we did, but as sooon as we left and were out of sight I just fell apart.



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Old Oct 13th, 2012, 06:32 AM   25
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that would seriously pi** me off its so hard to be happy for people when your doing everything in your power to get pregnant



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Old Oct 13th, 2012, 15:41 PM   26
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Hey Ladies. I too am hoping for my BFP. I had a miscarriage at 14/15 weeks in july So wanting this more than ever as i was trying for 2 years for my little angel so heres to hoping im not waiting that long again!! :P Well i am 2 dpo today. Had my positive OPK thursday.. BD'd wednesday and thursday afternoon and today so im pretty much covered right?? Good luck to every1 trying to concieve , It can be soooo frustrating but how worth is it going to be when we all get our BFP's .. And too all ladies who have never got it , it WILL happen!! I waited 2 years and accepted i couldnt have children and low and behold 2 months later i got my BFP so never give up hope! LOTS and lots of to everyone here!! xxx



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Old Oct 14th, 2012, 02:43 AM   27
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Im getting so frustrated with my body not playing ball! CD1 was 1st Sept - i should be nearly on my next O day by now, but no, instead im CD42 with NO sign of AF and ANOTHER BFN this morning!! Im reading all these books about TTC but its all useless unless i actually know what is going on with my cycle! And to top it off, my friend had her baby yesterday (she fell on her first month TTC) and another had hers a week ago - im so jealous!!!!!!!!!! All i want is a chance to conceive and i cant even get that! Dr better have some solutions wen i see her on Monday otherwise i'll have something else to rant about!!!!
Hi Bec2 do you have PCOS? Your cycle sounds like mine this month. CD1 for me was Sept 8th. I didnt ovulate at all this month according to my fertility monitor, although it read me as "highly fertile" for 10 days then went back to "low" without peaking. now on CD 35 and no sign of AF or anything else for that matter. Ive lost a whole month and Its like my body just doesnt bother doing ANYTHING!!
Not entirely sure, had a pelvic ultraound a few years back before i had my daughter and the results were inconclusive! Had been on BC pills for a few years and when i stopped i didnt get AF for 1.5 years. but then i unexpectedly got pregnant so i didnt take it any further! But now we're TTC no.2 and suddenly ive gone from having fairly regular cycles (28-35 days) to just about anything, and very light periods - which makes me think im not ovulating at all. Have drs appt booked for Monday, hopefully will start to get some answers! Frustrating much?!



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Im getting so frustrated with my body not playing ball! CD1 was 1st Sept - i should be nearly on my next O day by now, but no, instead im CD42 with NO sign of AF and ANOTHER BFN this morning!! Im reading all these books about TTC but its all useless unless i actually know what is going on with my cycle! And to top it off, my friend had her baby yesterday (she fell on her first month TTC) and another had hers a week ago - im so jealous!!!!!!!!!! All i want is a chance to conceive and i cant even get that! Dr better have some solutions wen i see her on Monday otherwise i'll have something else to rant about!!!!
Hi Bec2 do you have PCOS? Your cycle sounds like mine this month. CD1 for me was Sept 8th. I didnt ovulate at all this month according to my fertility monitor, although it read me as "highly fertile" for 10 days then went back to "low" without peaking. now on CD 35 and no sign of AF or anything else for that matter. Ive lost a whole month and Its like my body just doesnt bother doing ANYTHING!!
Not entirely sure, had a pelvic ultraound a few years back before i had my daughter and the results were inconclusive! Had been on BC pills for a few years and when i stopped i didnt get AF for 1.5 years. but then i unexpectedly got pregnant so i didnt take it any further! But now we're TTC no.2 and suddenly ive gone from having fairly regular cycles (28-35 days) to just about anything, and very light periods - which makes me think im not ovulating at all. Have drs appt booked for Monday, hopefully will start to get some answers! Frustrating much?!

I've had that happen last year after DH and I mc'd. My primary doctor put me on provera to jumpstart it again and ever since then, I've gotten my period back.. granted they were pretty long cycles, but it still worked.



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Not entirely sure, had a pelvic ultraound a few years back before i had my daughter and the results were inconclusive! Had been on BC pills for a few years and when i stopped i didnt get AF for 1.5 years. but then i unexpectedly got pregnant so i didnt take it any further! But now we're TTC no.2 and suddenly ive gone from having fairly regular cycles (28-35 days) to just about anything, and very light periods - which makes me think im not ovulating at all. Have drs appt booked for Monday, hopefully will start to get some answers! Frustrating much?![/QUOTE]

Thats very frustrating. I hope you get some answers on monday Not ovulating is so frustrating because it feels like your body wont even give you a chance.
CD38 for me now. sore boobs today...so hopefully AF is on the way.



 
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Old Oct 19th, 2012, 09:02 AM   30
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Hi everyone! I am so glad I found this thread. Today, we found out our 2nd attempt at IUI has failed and it has been so frustrating.

We've been trying for 18 months now and have been on treatment for 6. It's so frustrating as all I ever hear is just relaxed. Like hello? I get regular visits from AF just that my body is incapable of producing eggs on its own. No amount of relaxing is going to change that

Also, I spent the last 18 months watching friends get pregnant ( one got pregnant 3 months after her wedding just to please her mother and another decided to rub her pregnancy in my face despite knowing we were depressed from failing TTC).

I also live in a neighbourhood where we are surrounded by young families and what seems to be very very fertile women. To top things off, my RE refuses to try more agressive treatment as she thinks I am still young and failing TTC shouldn't be a big concern till I am over 35.

Phew! Glad to get this all off my chest. Have a lovely weekend x



 
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