Started ttc last month, but have not been using protection since February. I work for a county detox center and what pissed me off the most yesterday was one of the resident pulled me to the side and told me she was pregnant and asked me could I refer her to someplace to terminate it. I wanted to blow my top. My day went down hill after that.
Ive mentioned in a previous post in this thread that my bro and sis in law are now expecting RIGHT after they got married. They were only trying for what.. maybe 2 weeks and they got it?!? We've been trying over a year and NOTHING! Anyways, Ive been trying to make peace with it, but its just so freaking FRUSTRATING! Now everyone looks at us, like where's yours?! ughhh...
hi im aimie im 21 me and my oh have been trying for a year and a half. i have pcos. i hate geting myself stressed. but its all i seem to be doing. most of my friends are settled with kids. and i just feel jealous ( i hate eing jealous) all i seem to do is feel stressed about the whole thing. i just keep thinking when is it my turn. my doctor sent me and the oh to fertility clinic in januray. they refused to help us cause we didnt live together. that hurt quite alot. my doctor knew when she refered us that we didnt live together. does that stop us from being good parents? i feel like im letting him down. and i blame myself. i never thought that this would be so tough. friends having baies and me feeling horrible. one of my friends didnt even want to tell me she was pregnant cause she didnt want to upset me!! i feel like a horrible friend!! i just wish my ovaries would be nice and play the game ha
5 new babies at work this wk and at least 4 people on fb announcing their pregs...not happy, 5 days late but neg test :/ people telling me 'it will happen when its the right time' are making it worse..that is so stupid (imo) theres obviously a reason its not happening!! grr!
Got a today at 10 DPO. Chart looks like temps are dropping, want to cry!
So frustrated because OH doesn't like being asked to BD on demand, his approach is if we are in the mood and happen to do it around O, then it happens. This month, got BD'ing in the night before and morning after O, and then BAM that ugly BFN stark white test line staring back. Ugh.... AF due Nov. 13th and I'm sure she'll be here RIGHT on time. Want to punch something today (OH better watch out... lol)
Married the love of my life 2/11/2011.
TTC since August.
I have an autoimmune condition, so I am scared that I may not be able to get pregnant.
Since we started TTC I had 1 friend get married and pregnant in the same month, another friend gave birth and named her daughter something absolutely RIDICULOUS, my aunt got pregnant and she is 10+ years older than me and people keep asking me when we are going to have a baby!
I want to tell them, "I wish I knew!"
I cried when that first friend got pregnant. I got married way before her and I'm 1 year older and I feel like I lost the race in a way. I want to cry now just talking about it.
My DH is starting to want a baby more and more and I just feel so bad every time I tell him that AF is here.
I AF arrived today for me. I was so hopeful. I just wish I could see into the future and know that someday I'm gonna have a healthy baby. I just want to know what he/she is going to look like. I want to see my husband's features blended with mine on that little face. I'm scared that it will never happen for me.
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