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Old Jun 7th, 2017, 14:48 PM   861
mrsfrank
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Waiting4PFT - The struggle is definitely real! No matter your timeline, I can totally understand that defeated feeling. It's been so helpful for me to discuss and share my personal story and hear (read) all of the other ladies on there going through the same types of things. It's also really helpful to read the other women going through different things than me and broadening sensitivity to the different circumstances surrounding fertility, conception and pregnancy. It feels so much better to discuss it. Sending lots of baby dust your way!



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Old Jul 1st, 2017, 06:45 AM   862
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Hi all, I am so disappointed, I got a positive test yesterday followed by 3 negatives today.😢



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Old Jul 18th, 2017, 13:53 PM   863
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Struggling


Hi everyone. Long time stalker of the site, new to posting. I decided to finally post because I'm having an emotionally hard time with this whole process. I started TTCing almost a year ago and had two back to back chemical pregnancies in November and December. Since then, my cycles have been way out of whack (ranging from 50 to 60 days). Doctor put me on birth control in June to "restart" things and just started AF. My first pregnancy would've been due this month, so I'm having a tough time right now on this journey, especially thinking that I could've had a baby right now. I'm honestly just venting, but I was hoping you all can help me with ways you all deal with this stress. I've been super depressed lately and I can't stop thinking about it all.



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Old Jul 20th, 2017, 22:33 PM   864
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I'm glad we have this little vent thread. Very much so needed. I think the thing that is stressing me out most about this entire process, is I miscarried back in Feb, due to a mold infestation in my old apartment that hospitalized me. I was 12 weeks along. I have been dealing with the miscarriage pretty well, up until my DH left, he blamed me for the miscarriage left and filed for separation. Now I've found someone to help me, a friend I went to high school with and all has been pretty okay thus far, but now all of my friends around me are getting pregnant. I was given the go ahead to start trying as of June. So I have been trying, all of my friends are getting pregnant easily, and I'm struggling. Like right now I am 7 days late for my period, but last hpt I did came back a BFN. So I don't know whats going on with my body and why it's all outta waco or whatever. But I want nothing more than to be a mom, and it feels like every force in the universe is against me right now.



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Old Jul 23rd, 2017, 19:20 PM   865
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Hey ladies,

Long time follower of this site, but a first time posting. We have been TTC for 7 months. I know in the grand scheme of things that is not terribly long. Honestly, I wasn't so worried about it until friends and family started to act like someone must be wrong. When I went to the OB in January she told me to come back after one year of trying and that most couples are pregnant within the first year. I was fine with that and really thought it would happen for us pretty quickly. Now that it hasn't happened, I am starting to become more aware of my body and over analyzing things. Even silly things like " Are we doing this right?". I track my ovulation and document everything. Still no luck. I am in the middle of my ovulation cycle and basically stood on my head for 30 minutes post dtd. The only thing I can think of is that I have a small complex cyst on my left ovary- it ruptures and returns . This has been around for about 8 months and my OB said its normal and that you can still get preg . I am starting to think WTF.. and is there some sort of secret to get pregnant that no one is sharing.



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Old Jul 24th, 2017, 06:29 AM   866
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So sorry Keemae. Hang in there- I know it is really frustrating and emotionally draining. Sending hugs your way.



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Old Jul 30th, 2017, 01:41 AM   867
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Hey Y'all ! I just read over MOST of the comments ! I have to say it's good being back ! I need this positive energy in my life ! My fiancÚ and I have been trying for our first baby since around November . For the past 2 months We've tried not to be so OBSESSED with specifc dates & when to get intimate etc so we can keep our minds off the stress of the entire thing ! When we first started we tried to stick with my app which is usually really close to being on point with my period , it's only like a few days off , so we would try and have sex during the predicted days , & got no luck , so then the next couple of months I decided to try a couple days later than predicted days because since my period comes a few days after the predicted date on the app I figured I may be ovulated later than I think . But still no luck . So then we started to just stop trying , and now that's basically what we're doing to see if when our mind is off of it , will it help ! So far the first 2 months haven't been any luck , so I'm wishing sometime soon we will get lucky with our first baby ! My predicted ovulation on the app was the 17th of July , but I'm not sure if we got intimate before then . I do know for a fact that we did have unprotected sex on the 20th though ! So with like I said with the app being a little off from my period .. maybe ovulation occurred ? I'm just gonna keep my fingers crossed and wish for the best !(:



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Old Jul 30th, 2017, 01:51 AM   868
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Hey ladies,

Long time follower of this site, but a first time posting. We have been TTC for 7 months. I know in the grand scheme of things that is not terribly long. Honestly, I wasn't so worried about it until friends and family started to act like someone must be wrong. When I went to the OB in January she told me to come back after one year of trying and that most couples are pregnant within the first year. I was fine with that and really thought it would happen for us pretty quickly. Now that it hasn't happened, I am starting to become more aware of my body and over analyzing things. Even silly things like " Are we doing this right?". I track my ovulation and document everything. Still no luck. I am in the middle of my ovulation cycle and basically stood on my head for 30 minutes post dtd. The only thing I can think of is that I have a small complex cyst on my left ovary- it ruptures and returns . This has been around for about 8 months and my OB said its normal and that you can still get preg . I am starting to think WTF.. and is there some sort of secret to get pregnant that no one is sharing.


I totally agree with you ! I've been Ttc for the past 8 months with no luck !
We just have to remain positive !



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Old Aug 3rd, 2017, 15:58 PM   869
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I am 6 dpo, and am experiencing serious (really serious ) bloating. The bloating has lasted for 5 days now and does not look anywhere close to going down now. Everybody around me thinks am pregnant, when am actually waiting to test myself.
Has this been normal for anybody here, and what has the solution been?

I need help please.



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Old Aug 29th, 2017, 04:23 AM   870
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Everyone's pregnant!


Hey ! First time posting . Hi all been ttc for 2 years now with 2nd frozen cycle next Monday . Just feels like everyone in the world is pregnant right now and not me . Feeling happy starting next week but short tempered and wee bit down . Went out the other day with 3 pregnant women a women with a baby and one with a child and found out very close friend pregnant last week !!!!!! I'm so happy for them but ... you know what it's like xxxxx



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