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Old Sep 19th, 2012, 04:47 AM   1
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Old Oct 3rd, 2012, 03:47 AM   2
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Old Oct 3rd, 2012, 10:40 AM   3
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Yay!!! It is open!



 
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Old Oct 3rd, 2012, 10:49 AM   4
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Well I think my biggest stress is with ttc is my mother in law.... She is constantly telling my husband all sorts of negative things about me. Of course he will say something about it to me. Well I put a status up about how I make my own decision s and if anyone had a problem with it to come to me. Well shes telling us we do not need a baby and how we need to hold off... she is constantly bringing in negativity into something that is supposed to be joyful... most of my stress comes from her... how can i solve this issue?



 
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Old Oct 3rd, 2012, 22:56 PM   5
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That seems a bit harsh for her to say things like that. It's not her decision, and only YOU can know when you are ready to expand your family! One thing that I would try is just not talking about it in front of her. That way it doesn't give her an open window to express her opinion! I hope that you get it all situated. And good luck.

My biggest stress lately, is that I am not getting positives on my OPKs! My doctor told me that most women with PCOS have difficulty detecting it! The past 3 months I haven't had the positive! This month we are going to skip the OPK and just BD every other day and see if maybe that will help take some of the pressure off the both of us! Here's to being hopeful!



 
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Old Oct 4th, 2012, 05:52 AM   6
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I know shes just too obsessed with her childrens life... she is a monster-in-law!!!! But that might work!! I know when i stress more i skip periods all together!



 
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Old Oct 4th, 2012, 13:34 PM   7
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Stress only hurts conception...don't let her stress you out. The only valid opinions are those of your husband and yourself. Enjoy eachother, ignore her...and lots of baby dust to you!!!



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Old Oct 4th, 2012, 15:16 PM   8
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Thanks!! I am sending a bunch your way too!!!



 
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Old Oct 5th, 2012, 06:23 AM   9
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Well just found out that my sister got in a car wreck that flipped her vehicle... well my mother went to the hospital with her and when it came to blood tests low and behold she was 3.5 months pregnant... she was also keeping it a secret and had not gone to the Dr. About it!!! What makes me the angriest is she had an abortion when she found out she was pregnant last time....



 
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Old Oct 5th, 2012, 06:24 AM   10
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I want to be excited for her but i just cant be... she wasnt even ttc she just got lucky i guess! to you all



 
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