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Old Apr 17th, 2009, 12:09 PM   11
Firkin
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I am 38 so I feel that maybe I have missed the boat and left it too late. But I wasnít it the right place to even think about having a child before now.

Who knows whatís going on!! I will leave it a few more days and then do a test. The trouble with irregular periods is you donít know if you are pg or just having a later cycle!! its so frustrating, why cant this be easy.



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Old Apr 17th, 2009, 23:19 PM   12
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Try to think positively! Lots of women have healthy babies in their late thirties, and beyond. Don't give up hope. You never know what will happen or when. I agree, it's a hard process emotionally each month to wait and wonder. I think it's good to talk to people who understand.



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Old Apr 17th, 2009, 23:30 PM   13
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Hey alli_d can you keep us posted about what your doctor says, as i came off BCP about 3 months ago and have noticed the spotting sometimes a week before AF due for a couple of days and then it comes on again for a few days before full AF, so would be interested to know. If i get it again this cycle im going to see the doctor too.



 
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Old Apr 18th, 2009, 03:44 AM   14
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i got it 10dpo ive never had it before af is due today so with me i dont think its anything to do with bfp



 
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Old Apr 18th, 2009, 07:19 AM   15
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hi girls

i have the same i have been brown spotting since tue its werid its only when i wipe very light and not needing a pad on sometimes when i wipe there is nothing there.

the other night on wed i had some red blood lasted a few mins then went again and back to brown.

i dont know what it is im due my af yesterday. im normall a 28 day cyle with a 30 once in a blue moon.

we have been trying for a baby

does anyone have any ideas tks



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Old Apr 18th, 2009, 07:42 AM   16
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Morning ladies!!!


this morning I woke up to some brown discharge. is due on Monday ... boobs are sore but that is also a sign that is coming. Like you Firkin, I'm in my thirties (34) ... went through a difficult time but now am ready to have a child and I feel I've missed the boat too. The worse part of it all is that my OH seems to think "if it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, we'll still have a great life". Although I wish that is what I truly felt, I don't feel that way at all. I say it just to convince myself and to make myself feel better.

I hoped so much this would be our month but after taking a test this morning, it was a BFN

I went to my gyno last week and he indicated that I had some fibroids and was sending me to an transvaginal ... had a million of those! but he suggested hubby get a sperm count ... Doesn't seem like OH is willing.

I am feeling quite down today. sorry ladies!



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Old Apr 18th, 2009, 08:16 AM   17
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I've heard you can get it when you O or it could also be implantation!



 
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Old Apr 18th, 2009, 08:36 AM   18
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Hi Confused_one

My OH is the same. He said what will be will be. He is happy with the way our life is, as we do have a good time socially and have great holidays. In somes ways I agree with him but I dont think men totally understand that when you body is saying it is ready for a child and it doesnt happen how it makes you feel. Everytime I get AF I cry uncontrollable for hours, then I am ok and then I cry again!! I also work with a bunch of men and they dont know I am TTC so dont understand whats going on when i burst out crying.

On the other hand my OH has been great and going for his sperm test on Monday.

You are still young at 34, thats a great age to be. If I had my time again I would of starting TTC at 34.

I wish you all the luck in the world. I hope your OH changes his mind about the fertility test.



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Old Apr 18th, 2009, 09:43 AM   19
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All of you sound like me!I have been TTC since Aug 08, when i came off the pill. last thurs/fri for the first time i have had a thin light brown discharge but only when i wipe after toilet none on undergarments then fri/sat 1/2 day on a red blood period then back to brown light light thurs/fri and still happening today. I have done a test at was due period and came negative, i did it as nurse told me too, boo hoo. When i get cervical test on friday going to ask to do test there! I though i was only happening to me. I hope this is an early sign. Good luck everybody x



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Old Apr 24th, 2009, 13:37 PM   20
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Okay ladies, I finally saw my doctor today. She said that yes it's old blood and probably not a big deal. But it might be an indication of hormone imbalance and if it continues a few more months she'll refer me to an OB/GYN. Hopefully it doesn't come down to this but it nice to know she is taking my concerns seriously.

I started taking B vitamins about two weeks ago and so far no spotting. AT is due in Tuesday, so we'll see. My doctor agreed that the B vitamins and fish oil I take can only help! I hope you all are doing well!



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