Loss of sex drive

Tudor Rose · Apr 24th, 2009, 03:32 AM

now is not the time for me to lose my sex drive but i have

Hubby is 10 yrs older than me and has a way higher sex drive than mine.

he was hinting last night for rumpy pumpy and i just turned and went sleep and i was thinking im never going to get pregnant unless we DTD but than i think oh i.l do it tomorrow, tomorrow comes and the same happens

what am i gonna do i need to get my sex drive back!

glitterbug · Apr 24th, 2009, 04:25 AM

Hey Tudor

to you! Maybe it is just the thought of ttc after everything that's happened lurking in the back of your mind. Just try not to think of it has having sex to make a baby, think of it as making love to your OH and enjoy it because it really shouldn't feel like a chore! You'll get it back when you're ready.

Good luck.

moonlady12 · Apr 24th, 2009, 04:40 AM

iam glad i not the only one,been trying for a baby for last 8 months but unfortunately i have all good intentions to have as much sex as possible and love having sex but as soon as i hit my fertile period iam going off it and thus not helping myself to get pregnant i also think nevermind do it tomorrow and then tomorrow never comes and b4 i know it periods due again and iam down in the dumps for not being pregnant is just one vicious cycle lol

beauty · Apr 24th, 2009, 04:43 AM

Hi Tudor, i think maybe a nice glass of wine might get your sex drive perky again, well it might help you relax abit and then it could lead to sex!! I know thats not the answer but its all about relaxin and wanting to enjoy sex that actually makes you do it!

Maybe dont think so much and let the feelings take over..xx

beauty · Apr 24th, 2009, 04:46 AM

Also noticed your from cheshire where abouts i am from the northwest so not far! lol
xx

Tudor Rose · Apr 24th, 2009, 04:47 AM

Hi beauty how are you chick? Im from Warrington

beauty · Apr 24th, 2009, 04:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Tudor Rose

Hi beauty how are you chick? Im from Warrington

Arh i am from Wilmslow way so not too far from you..
Maybe just try and relax a little bit when it comes to the nookie time! Know its hard but i think TTC and when you want it so bad can affect your sex drive!! I really try with my OH to do it when we feel, and cause my cycles are all over i have no idea when i O so really we just bed when we want to and feel like it..

In a way it doesnt add to the pressure of the big O approaching.. Maybe your best really not trying to focus on when your O is or counting which cd your on and just go for it when ever you feel like it!! I defo think that when your really wantin something so bad, cause i am it can affect things! Thats why your prob gone off sex..

I would try for one cycle not to focus on what cd your on and just bed when ever you both feel like it and try to focus on something else and i bet your start loving the sex again like you use too..

Hope it helps
xxxx

Tudor Rose · Apr 24th, 2009, 05:02 AM

i have no idea where i am in my cycle after last month so im kinda waiting for the

to show then i know where i am.

i try not to think about ttc but it does consume alot of my thinking time

beauty · Apr 24th, 2009, 05:19 AM

It does me as well huni.. so i understand.. All i can try to say is maybe just go with the flow and do it as and when you WANT too rather than feeling like you have it..xx

Apr 24th, 2009, 03:32 AM	#1
Tudor Rose Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Cheshire Posts: 3,517	Loss of sex drive now is not the time for me to lose my sex drive but i have Hubby is 10 yrs older than me and has a way higher sex drive than mine. he was hinting last night for rumpy pumpy and i just turned and went sleep and i was thinking im never going to get pregnant unless we DTD but than i think oh i.l do it tomorrow, tomorrow comes and the same happens what am i gonna do i need to get my sex drive back!

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glitterbug Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: UK Posts: 11,170	Hey Tudor to you! Maybe it is just the thought of ttc after everything that's happened lurking in the back of your mind. Just try not to think of it has having sex to make a baby, think of it as making love to your OH and enjoy it because it really shouldn't feel like a chore! You'll get it back when you're ready. Good luck.

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Apr 24th, 2009, 04:40 AM	#3
moonlady12 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: letchworth Posts: 650	iam glad i not the only one,been trying for a baby for last 8 months but unfortunately i have all good intentions to have as much sex as possible and love having sex but as soon as i hit my fertile period iam going off it and thus not helping myself to get pregnant i also think nevermind do it tomorrow and then tomorrow never comes and b4 i know it periods due again and iam down in the dumps for not being pregnant is just one vicious cycle lol

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Apr 24th, 2009, 04:43 AM	#4
beauty Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: UK Posts: 1,792	Hi Tudor, i think maybe a nice glass of wine might get your sex drive perky again, well it might help you relax abit and then it could lead to sex!! I know thats not the answer but its all about relaxin and wanting to enjoy sex that actually makes you do it! Maybe dont think so much and let the feelings take over..xx

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Apr 24th, 2009, 04:46 AM	#5
beauty Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: UK Posts: 1,792	Also noticed your from cheshire where abouts i am from the northwest so not far! lol xx

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Apr 24th, 2009, 04:47 AM	#6
Tudor Rose Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Cheshire Posts: 3,517	Hi beauty how are you chick? Im from Warrington

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Apr 24th, 2009, 05:02 AM	#8
Tudor Rose Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Cheshire Posts: 3,517	i have no idea where i am in my cycle after last month so im kinda waiting for the to show then i know where i am. i try not to think about ttc but it does consume alot of my thinking time

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Apr 24th, 2009, 05:19 AM	#9
beauty Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: UK Posts: 1,792	It does me as well huni.. so i understand.. All i can try to say is maybe just go with the flow and do it as and when you WANT too rather than feeling like you have it..xx

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