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Old May 5th, 2009, 10:51 AM   1
sbiermann
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I'm new to this...need some advice please!


Hello everyone. So I'm new to this "I might be pregnant" thing My husband and I were going to wait for him to finish his MBA before we began ttc. On cd12 I had some breakthrough bleeding and had a pelvic exam the next day and my doc said everything looked normal so I probably just messed up my hormones. I had some pains in my abdomen on cd16 that I haven't had since before I went on the pill about 6 years ago so I was thinking I may have possibly ovulated. I'm still a newlywed, so we're busy a LOT if you know what I mean, like multiple times every day, so if I ovulated (assuming we are both fertile, neither of us have kids) I'm thinking I would have a decent chance of getting pg. Today is cd30, and I won't be late until tomorrow. But for the past week-ish I have been SO tired, had some lower back cramps and joint cramps, gas out both ends (sorry tmi), lots of ewcm, my bbs are sore (not the whole thing, just the muscle behind them radiating to my nipple which is so much different than I have ever felt) and I haven't been able to sleep through the night for 4 days. I tested yesterday (two days before expected AF) and got BFN. I have another test but I'm waiting as long as possible to take it. Last night was the worst of the insomnia. I passed out at 8, woke up at 2am and haven't gone back to sleep yet, and its 11am. Last night I also had ALOT of twitches in my abdomen with pulsing pain on the lower right side only that didn't feel anything like my normal af cramps. The past 3 days I have been a bit nauseous and I'll eat (feel fine while eating) and then feel like I'm going to throw up. This morning I actually threw up outta nowhere. I hadn't eaten anything except when I woke up at 2am I was starving and had a granola bar with some water, which made me gaggy. I've also had a lot of dizzy spells every time I stand up from sitting or when I bend over to pick up laundry or anything. The weirdest thing so far is that I haven't had any weird smell issues yet except once last night I was cleaning a cup and almost throw up from the smell. My husband stuck his nose in it and couldn't smell anything. Then when I was laying there last night with the cramps I could smell HIM. It was the weirdest thing because it was a smell that made me feel really comfortable and happy like I knew it so well, but I had NEVER smelled it before. I swear I was smelling his pheromones or something haha. I haven't mentioned anything to dh yet because he is having a really hard couple weeks at work and I don't want to add stress to it. BUT the hard weeks will be over beginning next week and its his bday too...
Sorry that was so much information, I just don't know what to think and I've never done this before and I don't want to tell ANYONE I know until I figure this out. Any thoughts would be SO MUCH appreciated!



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Old May 5th, 2009, 10:56 AM   2
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Oh I forgot...


I forgot to say that I'm also REALLY REALLY hot. Normally I'm the girl wearing the hoodie outside in July because I'm so cold natured. The hubby was freezing last night and I sat next to him sweating. Something else weird for me.



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Old May 5th, 2009, 11:21 AM   3
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test again once shes late and use first morning pee - good luck



 
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Old May 5th, 2009, 12:27 PM   4
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This may be another stupid question...thank you for your reply by the way...but if I'm not sleeping through the night I don't really have first morning urine because it's pretty much day time for me 24 hours a day haha. If I can try to hold it for a long time would the hcg levels be the same as morning pee? I don't understand why morning pee has the highest levels of hcg...so in my mind it would seem like as long as the pee is in there about as long as morning pee it would be the same, right? Or no...I don't know! I want to test so bad right now I'm so anxious, but I don't know what to do



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Old May 5th, 2009, 12:32 PM   5
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first morning is best because it has time to build up and is not diluted with what you may of had to drink. Try not to get your hopes up because it is very hard to see those BFN's I just saw my 5th one and I swore a few of those times I was pregnant. It will only happen when the time is right and nothing (not even birth control pills) will stand in the way.

May you be blessed!



 
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Old May 5th, 2009, 12:34 PM   6
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I generally think you know when you are, if you know what I mean! Smells were the biggy with me. I nearly fell over at the fish counter in the supermarket!



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Old May 5th, 2009, 15:48 PM   7
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I generally think you know when you are, if you know what I mean! Smells were the biggy with me. I nearly fell over at the fish counter in the supermarket!
^^^ LMFAO!!!

and sbiermann it sounds like symptoms, but ive been known to nget them and resulted in a crappy bfn. i know its not easy, but try not to get your hopes up too much!! i hope its a bfp though!!! add me as a friend if u want to have a chat sometime!



 
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Old May 5th, 2009, 20:21 PM   8
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Thank you all for replying! It feels so good to be able to talk to someone since I'm not talking to anyone I actually "know" til I...know haha. I started some brown spotting earlier, it only happened when I wiped tho, and then a teeny bit of red later when I wiped. (sorry if thats tmi). I put a pad on, but its completely dry, absolutely nothing there and its been about 5 hours since my spotting. We'll see if i get af tomorrow. Planning on waiting to test until Thursday morning first thing. I will update then!!!



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Old May 6th, 2009, 17:40 PM   9
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So I started another thread last night when I was freaking out about being shaky and having a lot of pressure in my abdomen...felt like a balloon was in there about to burst. This morning I had some bright red blood when I peed...its been coming and going all day. I put a pad on just in case but there has only been like two little red spots on it. I went to the clinic to get a test...bfn. I checked my temp again...I obviously don't temp but after reading everyone's post I've been checking it since the beginning of the week to see if it drops like af is coming. Its gone up .8 today. Think that means anything?



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