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Old May 6th, 2009, 07:35 AM   1
Mitsuko
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Emotional rollercoaster?


Is it just me or does everyone go through emotional phases while TTC?

Before ovulation, I don't think about it that much but when the 2ww comes, the ride begins! At times, I'm very optimistic, imagining what it will feel like to be pregnant and to have a lo, I read threads in the pregnancy section (baaaaaaaaaad) and picture myself having those kind of conversations...

The minute after, I'm sad, desperate, feeling like It'll never be my turn, that it's too good to become true. I picture myself 5 years from now, without a kid, discussing whether I'll adopt or live y life as it is.

Do you ever go throught those phases?



 
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Old May 6th, 2009, 07:37 AM   2
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yes amd i look through the pictures of the bumps and imagine how i would be with a bump how big my bump will be! ive just started the 2ww!



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Old May 6th, 2009, 07:44 AM   3
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totally. having a crappy negative day today. this 2ww sucks ass. good luck hun!



 
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Old May 6th, 2009, 08:02 AM   4
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Hi,




Your not alone. I go through all the same feelings as well. I just can't imagine that I would ever be lucky enough to get a . I have just started the 2WW as well and feel very emotional when I think of Af and how I don't want it to show up.



 
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Old May 6th, 2009, 08:17 AM   5
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Ive started my 2WW aswell... ive just been on the phone to my mum having a moan because i want to be pregnant so badly i think im just looking for signs now xx



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Old May 6th, 2009, 08:23 AM   6
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It's great to know I'm not alone in that boat! Good luck and babydust to all... If it's not my month, then it will be for one of you! We cannot all be unlucky, can we?



 
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Old May 6th, 2009, 08:23 AM   7
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yeh i feel the same, i cant see me being lucky enough to get a . i feel myself looking at people who have 5 kids or people who have "accidents" - while on the pill may i add, and wonder how they get to be so lucky! I feel like a bitch now



 
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Old May 6th, 2009, 08:27 AM   8
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yeh i feel the same, i cant see me being lucky enough to get a . i feel myself looking at people who have 5 kids or people who have "accidents" - while on the pill may i add, and wonder how they get to be so lucky! I feel like a bitch now
Hehe, I can relate totally! Yesterday, I was on the bus and I saw a pregnant woman holding a LO by the hand. I was all like "Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Whyyyyyyyyyyyyy. It's so unfair, she's got a baby AND a bump and I only have my eyes left to cry!"

I guess i have been WTT so long that I was sure I would get the bump on first try...



 
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Old May 6th, 2009, 08:30 AM   9
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yeh i feel the same, i cant see me being lucky enough to get a . i feel myself looking at people who have 5 kids or people who have "accidents" - while on the pill may i add, and wonder how they get to be so lucky! I feel like a bitch now
Hehe, I can relate totally! Yesterday, I was on the bus and I saw a pregnant woman holding a LO by the hand. I was all like "Whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy. Whyyyyyyyyyyyyy. It's so unfair, she's got a baby AND a bump and I only have my eyes left to cry!"

I guess i have been WTT so long that I was sure I would get the bump on first try...

Totally understand! I thought it would happen in the 1st month. I feel so stupid saying 6 months ago i forgot to take my pill last night so we need to be extra careful for the next week- YEAH RIGHT!!!



 
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Old May 6th, 2009, 08:32 AM   10
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Keep ur chin up


Hi girls - i feel like the 2ww is the hardest part of all... its as if its all u can think about !

I currently have !! ....
Im not going to be looking out for signs nxt time round - as i feel like it can become a bit obsessive...plus DH says that the signs are psychological and that i am experiencing them because thats what i "want" to happen.

That was my first failed cycle of ttc ... hoping to see a soon
keep ur spirits up - i think this is a great site to chat n share the same experiences xx



 
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