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Old Jan 7th, 2013, 19:00 PM   21
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This is just a side note...but my hubby doesnt drink alchohol so when he goes out he drinks red bull....is this a no no? I never thought of it because it makes him very very randy so I didnt think of stopping him. He only drinks it maybe once every 2 weeks, but as to your situation, maybe a good vent is just what you need. Sometimes the facts are the facts and it is just plain frustrating. Please do try and stay positive though. xo



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Old Jan 7th, 2013, 19:14 PM   22
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This is just a side note...but my hubby doesnt drink alchohol so when he goes out he drinks red bull....is this a no no? I never thought of it because it makes him very very randy so I didnt think of stopping him. He only drinks it maybe once every 2 weeks, but as to your situation, maybe a good vent is just what you need. Sometimes the facts are the facts and it is just plain frustrating. Please do try and stay positive though. xo
thanks..i dunno about the caffeine i just know its not good for fertility...thats what I have heard..For me i know at my age I have to be careful so I cut caffeine out..Yeah I'm pretty devastated this morning...I think assisted conception will be our only choicehe just doesn't seem to really understand.



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Old Jan 7th, 2013, 19:24 PM   23
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Yes I know. Believe me, even though I have kids it is looking like assisted conception is our only option and we just dont have the money for that. We have been together 6 years and not even once have i got pregnant. And we have not used protection in 5 and a half years. The fact that my hubby seems to be the issue still makes me feel infertile because without him I will not have anymore children and I desperately want to give him a child. You have to try and remain positive even when its so overwhelming and sad. have a cry if you need, have a vent, get mad but then keep trying. Do not lose hope. I think you really need to talk to hubby and clear the air. Once I got my hubby back on track and onboard it was easier to deal with. Dont get me wrong I have a good cry everytime i get my period but I shake it off and just try again. there is a lot of support on this site if you feel lonely. x



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Old Jan 7th, 2013, 19:36 PM   24
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Yes I know. Believe me, even though I have kids it is looking like assisted conception is our only option and we just dont have the money for that. We have been together 6 years and not even once have i got pregnant. And we have not used protection in 5 and a half years. The fact that my hubby seems to be the issue still makes me feel infertile because without him I will not have anymore children and I desperately want to give him a child. You have to try and remain positive even when its so overwhelming and sad. have a cry if you need, have a vent, get mad but then keep trying. Do not lose hope. I think you really need to talk to hubby and clear the air. Once I got my hubby back on track and onboard it was easier to deal with. Dont get me wrong I have a good cry everytime i get my period but I shake it off and just try again. there is a lot of support on this site if you feel lonely. x
I don't have the big money either.I am waiting two months to see a cheaper clinic where i live..I dunno if i can wait that long it takes another month after they see you to go ahead if they want to so it brings us to April..geezuz .half the year gone again..i can't believe it....I'm sorry you have been tryin that long and nothing has happened.I'm not waiting around that long.Going to get help asap within the best of my financial ability.I'm going to acupuncture first appoint on friday and if he doesnt want to join in, I don't care...Hopefully after our talk(whenever that is) he maybe more on side... i hope you get your BFP!!!!! I hope we all do..here sto march 7 and my FS appointment...It can't come round quick enough...



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There is a positive attitude! We waited so long because at first we werent married, and we also lived in seperate countries although I spent months at a time with him where it should have been perfect opportunity to concieve, but now that we are both in the same place, been married for 3 years so we are investigating every avenue. I sure hope you get your BFP as well! Cheers to good luck in the new year!!



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Just a thought, there is no way my oh could perform on demand and it would put huge pressure on our relationship if I asked him to. To take the pressure off, my 1st LO was conceived with a Tupperware and a baby medicine syringe! And the 2nd one most likely will to. We still have sex but we've separated it from TTC. He's happy to go off and do his thing on demand, I get the spermies, and no one feels pressured. We're both happy!!



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Old Jan 12th, 2013, 19:46 PM   27
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Just a thought, there is no way my oh could perform on demand and it would put huge pressure on our relationship if I asked him to. To take the pressure off, my 1st LO was conceived with a Tupperware and a baby medicine syringe! And the 2nd one most likely will to. We still have sex but we've separated it from TTC. He's happy to go off and do his thing on demand, I get the spermies, and no one feels pressured. We're both happy!!
Sounds like thats what I should do.But hubby has low sperm count low morph



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