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Old Aug 27th, 2009, 14:26 PM   11
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I try to just think of how I'll have so much life experience to share with my wee one, and if it takes a while, I'll just cherish it that much more
well said. i try to keep the "holy crap i'm 36" thoughts out of my head. i try to keep a lot of crap out of my head at this time...but i can't lie, it's hard not to "go there".

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Old Aug 27th, 2009, 14:27 PM   12
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I know exactly how you feel!!! I have been on both sides of this. Although I believe I have been a good mom, or have tried my hardest at it. I was 18 when I had my youngest and it just happend. Then I lost one at 25 and tried for awhile with the last LO and now on to trying again. So I know how easy it can be to "fall" pregnant and how hard it can be to "get" pregnant. I told DH that he just needs to take me somewhere get me drunk, have sex and get it down with.....I mean thats how all the kids are doing it these days on the first try and all.....no offense to anyone but I am just tried of hearing about drunken one night stand "accidents". Ugh!



 
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Old Aug 27th, 2009, 14:34 PM   13
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I know exactly how you feel!!! I have been on both sides of this. Although I believe I have been a good mom, or have tried my hardest at it. I was 18 when I had my youngest and it just happend. Then I lost one at 25 and tried for awhile with the last LO and now on to trying again. So I know how easy it can be to "fall" pregnant and how hard it can be to "get" pregnant. I told DH that he just needs to take me somewhere get me drunk, have sex and get it down with.....I mean thats how all the kids are doing it these days on the first try and all.....no offense to anyone but I am just tried of hearing about drunken one night stand "accidents". Ugh!
Thanks, Liz2! I'm not disputing that teen mums can be good mums too (I know you're not either!), I just wish that I could be one too!

I feel like having a childish tantrum!

"It's not fair!!!"




 
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Old Aug 27th, 2009, 14:55 PM   14
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I agree! I know people who are horrible parents that can pop them out like a Pez dispenser. And, then the ones who are prepared, ready, and willing... well, we don't seem to be so able! It's nothing but fecking injustice, straight up! I'm not the best person in the world, but I do go out of my way to help those who are close to me... I even try to help out strangers when the chance comes up. I might not be filthy rich, but we aren't hurting! We can totally support a child - emotionally, financially, and intellectually! What the hell did I do wrong that I'm being punished for? I've given up so much for so many other people, and I can't even have this one little thing that would make my life complete. It's a load of crap, if you ask me! to you all! And, now I'm all ! Damn!



 
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Old Aug 27th, 2009, 14:58 PM   15
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I agree! I know people who are horrible parents that can pop them out like a Pez dispenser. And, then the ones who are prepared, ready, and willing... well, we don't seem to be so able! It's nothing but fecking injustice, straight up! I'm not the best person in the world, but I do go out of my way to help those who are close to me... I even try to help out strangers when the chance comes up. I might not be filthy rich, but we aren't hurting! We can totally support a child - emotionally, financially, and intellectually! What the hell did I do wrong that I'm being punished for? I've given up so much for so many other people, and I can't even have this one little thing that would make my life complete. It's a load of crap, if you ask me! to you all! And, now I'm all ! Damn!
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Why does it have to be so hard?



 
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Old Aug 27th, 2009, 15:02 PM   16
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seriously...there's a show in the u.s. called "18 and counting". talk about pez...

i'm just ttc #1.


here's for all!!!!

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Old Aug 27th, 2009, 15:06 PM   17
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seriously...there's a show in the u.s. called "18 and counting". talk about pez...

i'm just ttc #1.


here's for all!!!!

xoxo
That show makes me so flippin' angry! That's a whole other rant though... but it's not just because of the eleventy-billion kids either!



 
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Old Aug 27th, 2009, 15:11 PM   18
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*hops on the bandwagon*

This frustrates me too! I was on holiday last week and this woman was walking along on her mobile phone talking away and dragging along a little girl who was probably 4 or 5 with her. The little girl was quite meekly sobbing away and limping with blood pouring down her knee. The poor thing had obviously tripped and mom was too busy on her phone to actuallly pay her any attention..
I wanted to run over and grab the kid and run off but then I'd probably end up in a scary spanish jail..

Its so frustrating when you know you could make a better job of being a mom but just havent been given the chance! why her and not me? *sigh*



 
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Old Aug 27th, 2009, 15:13 PM   19
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*hops on the bandwagon*

This frustrates me too! I was on holiday last week and this woman was walking along on her mobile phone talking away and dragging along a little girl who was probably 4 or 5 with her. The little girl was quite meekly sobbing away and limping with blood pouring down her knee. The poor thing had obviously tripped and mom was too busy on her phone to actuallly pay her any attention..
I wanted to run over and grab the kid and run off but then I'd probably end up in a scary spanish jail..

Its so frustrating when you know you could make a better job of being a mom but just havent been given the chance! why her and not me? *sigh*
Aw, that's so sad!



 
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Old Aug 27th, 2009, 15:14 PM   20
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Shoes,
I totally know how you feel. It makes me soooooo mad. I have been trying forever we are stable mature loving people that deserve kids and then there are women killing their babies ( just saw on the news today where a lady killed her 5 week old) r u kidding me why can they have babies and over the past 12 years I cant. I too wonder what I did that was so wrong to cause this fate on us.



 
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