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Old Apr 20th, 2013, 11:30 AM   21
Ameronica
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I usually lay with my legs up for 10ish mins, and then I usually put on a pantyliner (that i make dh fetch, lol) so i feel less gross, and then go to bed. I properly clean up in the morning. Sometimes I will have to pee and will get up and do that, but every time I see ALL that coming out, I feel like I am wasting it, lol.



 
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Old Apr 20th, 2013, 14:25 PM   22
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We BD'd at night, so I made sure hubby put it in as far as he could get it lol and slept with it in. I would get up at 1am or so and go pee. That's what I think got us our bfp! Hope this helps anyone because we had been trying for ages. Xx



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Old Apr 20th, 2013, 15:20 PM   23
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Same here! I love that no one really judges here. I could never talk about this to my 'real-life' girlfriends, all of them would either say 'omg gross' or 'you're really TTC? Y'all have only been together a year.'

Yeah. no judgments here.
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Hi girls, I read that there are so many sperms released that hit the cervix that even if u 'let it out' straight away there's still gonna be loads of swimmers that go through the cervix.
I try and lay still-ish for 10 mins then I have to pee and wipe- let's face it- it's pretty gross having the fluids leaking out all over!!!!
I don't think washing and wiping will lessen your chances of conceiving!

p.s- love being able to chat about this stuff!!!
I do to :-) all the random stuff I worry about and can't talk about is always on here



 
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Old Apr 20th, 2013, 15:54 PM   24
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If we DTD at night I put a pillow under my hips and stay still for at least 30 mins then I put a tissue between my legs so it absorbs any leakage and sort it out in the morning

If we DTD in the morning I again put a pillow under my hips and cross my legs for at least 1 hour then I will get up and shower etc.

I make sure I pee before I go to bed and get up and pee as soon as I wake in the morning so I dont need to after DTD and to prevent a UTI

I have however just purchased a soft cup so that will keep it all in
Going to start using it nearer to O time.

I dont think it really matters what you do - Ive watched Jeremy Kyle where they have said "I had a hot bath after so I dont know why Im pregnant"

Hope all you ladies get your BFP soon



 
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Old Apr 20th, 2013, 21:33 PM   25
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I'm not sure if someone mentioned this already (didn't read through the entire thread) but I feel the same about wanting to clean up and not liking the wetness feeling, so I have been using Instead soft cups. Just insert one after bd, get up and pee, clean up a bit, and then go back to bed. The cup holds in the swimmers and I take it out in the morning. Can't even feel it. Granted, I haven't had a BFP yet, but it def is much more comfortable for me.



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Old Apr 20th, 2013, 22:16 PM   26
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The best way to prevent an UTI after intercourse is to pee. Usually you get UTIs from intercourse through bacteria getting in your urethra but if you urinate, it will flush that out.

They have shown in studies that laying down doesn't pull sperm to your cervix any better than not laying down. (I still lay down for about 15-20 mins though!!!!)

I usually lay down for 20 mins, get up and pee, and then usually use a vagina wash (a non-soap wash like summers even wash) so that it is extra gentle. I also battle UTIs and so like to "clean-up" like you say as well.



 
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Old Apr 20th, 2013, 22:33 PM   27
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He he! I love this thread!

I usually lay still for 15 mins and then go pee. If its at night, I just go to bed and freshen up in the morning. If its during the day, I put on a pantyliner for awhile.



 
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Old Apr 20th, 2013, 22:43 PM   28
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I use soft cups. We nd more often in the marine, no time for lying down. Soft cups keeps everything in and you can wear for up to 12 hours.



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Old Apr 20th, 2013, 22:58 PM   29
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We keep a little towel by the bed and right after, hubby does a fast pull out/shove towel between my legs lol. If its at night i just fall asleep with the towel haha and clean up in the morning ...if its during the day, i lay there for about ten mins, then go pee, wash with a mild soap and sit on the potty and push the rest out (usually at that point its just dead sperm and ejaculate. ) i put a panty liner on and im done



 
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