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Old Nov 13th, 2013, 12:01 PM   1
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How do you relax and stop thinking about it ??!!


I am thinking too much about ttc baby number 2 ... So much so we are not getting pregnant... It's been 4 monthsnow. Being 22 years old and husband 28 I thought it would have happened by now... I am very disappointed lol

What do u ladies do to curb your obsession ?? Cxxxxx



 
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Old Nov 13th, 2013, 13:49 PM   2
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Hi there

It's sooo hard not to obsess with this stuff! I find the fertility monitor helped me alot and it took the guessing out of stuff...

I'm in the 2WW and it's driving me crazy

I just try to stay on here with these lovely ladies to help past the time



 
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Old Nov 13th, 2013, 14:08 PM   3
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When I first started TTC in 2011, I got so mad with it that I was driving my OH crazy. A lot of my friends were pregnant at the time though and I got to live vicariously through them. When that didn't work anymore as a distraction, I started researching and joined a class online about something I was passionate about. That distracted me until I got a new job. It's all about finding distractions! They always say it'll happen when you least expect it.



 
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Old Nov 13th, 2013, 14:08 PM   4
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Hi there

It's sooo hard not to obsess with this stuff! I find the fertility monitor helped me alot and it took the guessing out of stuff...

I'm in the 2WW and it's driving me crazy

I just try to stay on here with these lovely ladies to help past the time

Hiya thanks for ur message! I had my 2 week waits end in disaster but good luck to u I have a cbfm but I think I may stear clear out it this month see if it works xxxx



 
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Old Nov 13th, 2013, 14:29 PM   5
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Hi there

It's sooo hard not to obsess with this stuff! I find the fertility monitor helped me alot and it took the guessing out of stuff...

I'm in the 2WW and it's driving me crazy

I just try to stay on here with these lovely ladies to help past the time

Hiya thanks for ur message! I had my 2 week waits end in disaster but good luck to u I have a cbfm but I think I may stear clear out it this month see if it works xxxx
Aww So sorry hun!

This was my first cycle using CBFM and I ovulated on my first peak day..So we DTD 4 days prior and the day of...Hoping this is our month



 
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Old Nov 13th, 2013, 14:32 PM   6
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Good luck ladies.xxx



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Old Nov 13th, 2013, 15:07 PM   7
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I'm new to this site & ttc angel #1... I had sex two days & the day before ovulation and I'm hoping it works... My mind is dying to know but I'm not trying to get so excited if Aunt Flo shows up my period is due Nov 23... And my app has been correct lately... Hopefully the ovulation date was correct too... I'm so ready for a positive lol



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Old Nov 13th, 2013, 15:16 PM   8
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I'm new to this site & ttc angel #1... I had sex two days & the day before ovulation and I'm hoping it works... My mind is dying to know but I'm not trying to get so excited if Aunt Flo shows up my period is due Nov 23... And my app has been correct lately... Hopefully the ovulation date was correct too... I'm so ready for a positive lol
Good luck!!! I've just come on af so I am on cycle day 4 :/ xxxx



 
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Old Nov 13th, 2013, 17:12 PM   9
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We're ttc our third and I'm exactly the same. I find it so hard not to think about it and get stressed out. Even more so because the age ago I wanted between 2 and 3 gets further apart every month! Good luck, hope it happens soon for us all! X



 
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Old Nov 15th, 2013, 09:41 AM   10
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I am thinking too much about ttc baby number 2 ... So much so we are not getting pregnant... It's been 4 monthsnow. Being 22 years old and husband 28 I thought it would have happened by now... I am very disappointed lol

What do u ladies do to curb your obsession ?? Cxxxxx
hi there, i can totally relate .... I obsessed a lot and got really down about it. I finally got so beaten down, went for a few acupuncture sessions, but continued to BD during my fertile window (though deep down I didn't believe I was going to get pregnant) and got my BFP. The acu made me let go of the mental obsession, because ttc CAN be a long process. Took me 2.5 years with DD1 and 7 mths with DD2.
GL!



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