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Old Oct 20th, 2015, 11:13 AM   1
Kaymumof2
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So confused, just need to talk


Hi everyone, didn't think I'd be posting on here again for myself as I'm not ttc. However me and DH had an accident a few weeks ago and now af is late! AF was due 12thOct and is a no show. I keep cramping like I'm about too then nothing. I have been quite stressed lately so thinking that is probably why! I did test fri/sat and test was negative was a blue Tesco test so not sure how reliable they are?? Don't have many symptoms, been real tired but again I've been stressed so could be why. I do have more discharge down below than normal though.....
Really feel silly typing this as even at this moment I'm cramping and I've had a neg pregnancy test few days ago so I really shouldn't be here! But I guess I just needed someone to talk too....DH is lovely but doesn't really get all the in's and out's of how the female body works during AF or suspected pregnancies! Soooo I guess I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice or can just tell me how stupid I'm being, as I can't be pregnant after neg test and cramping.....can I.....?

Any advice greatly received!



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Old Oct 20th, 2015, 11:57 AM   2
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Take another test, for sure. I tested when a couple days late for AF and it was negative. Then yesterday, at 4-5 days late, boom. BFP. It's possible.



 
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Old Oct 20th, 2015, 12:33 PM   3
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Take another test, for sure. I tested when a couple days late for AF and it was negative. Then yesterday, at 4-5 days late, boom. BFP. It's possible.

Thank you for you're reply. And a huge congratulations on you're BFP I wish you a H&H 9 months!! I'm thinking of going to get another test in a minute....just feel really silly for testing. But it's been 40 days since my last period.....



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Old Oct 20th, 2015, 12:44 PM   4
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Hello,

I advice you to take another test in few days if AF does not show.
If you have a lot of stress it is sure it can cause a delay in your periods.
I experienced 3 weeks delay few months ago and was very confused and frustrated (I was not ttc yet) because tests were negative. And once on vacations my AF came. Sometimes you just need to relax to make AF starts.

Good luck,
I hope we will feel relieved soon because not knowing is the worst!



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Old Oct 20th, 2015, 12:45 PM   5
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You could have ovulated late in your cycle which would explain the late AF. Many things can delay ovulation. Try not to stress. Take another test if your cycle still doesn't show in a week or two or you get a positive test call your ob/gyn.



 
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Old Oct 23rd, 2015, 05:07 AM   6
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Thanks ladies for you're replies! So an update, AF still hasn't started and I tested about 3 days ago and again BFN. Tried to get a DR appointment today but they are fully booked (helpful I know) sooooo I am none the wiser! Keep feeling like it's going to start then it doesn't! Felt abit sickly lately and more tired but I just cannot be pregnant. Never been this late for AF even when stressed. Just wish I knew what's going on.....



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Old Oct 23rd, 2015, 13:30 PM   7
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Sorry to hear that... I hope you're going to figure this out soon.



 
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Old Oct 23rd, 2015, 13:45 PM   8
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I kept testing and all negative until i was 8 weeks i finally got a positive.



 
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Old Oct 25th, 2015, 04:22 AM   9
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Thank you for you're replies I'd be lost without all you ladies! Haven't tested since the last BFN but no AF still either! I'm really lte now never been this late! Was convinced the witch was coming yesterday as I was cramping a lot! But nothing...again! I'm worried there is something really wrong now.......



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Old Oct 26th, 2015, 11:38 AM   10
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Have you tried to speak with your OB?



 
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