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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 07:16 AM   21
BellaBlu
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How much do they know, or rather how far to they think you're involved in this TTC stuff?

For example;

-Does he(or she for the same sex couples) know you use BnB?
-Use Ov sticks?
-Know you POAS as often as you do?
-Know you have a collection of tests all ready and waiting?
-Know you check your CM?
-Know you temp?
-Know you symptom spot as much as you do?

For me, Im pretty sure he knows I use BnB but I think he assumes I use it for the parenting side of it, rather than the TTC side. I dont use Ov strips so thats neither here nor there, but he doesnt know that Ive had a stock of IC's in the past, and how Im a bit of a POAS addict! I dont check my CM or temp but if I did, he wouldnt know about it!

How much does your husband or partner know?
He knows I use BnB, but he doesn't know how much! I'm on mostly when he's at work, or after he's asleep because when he took the laptop one day, I threw a fit that I had to set up the desktop. He asked why.. and I told him because I wouldn't be able to check "facebook and BnB" if I didn't. He said "BnB? Isn't that a baby website? Sabrina do you get on it THAT much" ... Indeed I do kind sir.

Ov sticks are on their way!

Absolutely not about the POAS! Mainly because he gets sad when he knows it was negative. So I decided to keep it to myself until I've got some good news!

The tests are hidden in the bathroom, and get buried in the trash

CM- Yes, I usually have to ask a second opinion. After sex I'll say.. "Baby was my CM EW or Watery" He usually says ' i dont know.. both ' .. loads of help eh?

BBT on its way.
Symptom spotting- - he's always the one to go.. 'Chill out, sneezing does not mean you're pregnant' ..

*He's the sane factor in all this madness*



 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 07:22 AM   22
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I love this...

Does he know you use BnB? Yes, but hasn't seen what it is really. Also would go mad if he knew i was on it when meant to be working!
-Use Ov sticks? Yes!
-Know you POAS as often as you do? No, he would have me arrested for spending so much on them and put in a straight jacket for having such a bad addiction!
-Know you have a collection of tests all ready and waiting? probably seen them but hasn't said
-Know you check your CM?sort of.. he knows about EWCM
-Know you temp? Yes, It wakes him up every morning lol!
-Know you symptom spot as much as you do? he knows i do but nowhere near as much as i put on here!



 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 10:01 AM   23
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Does he know you use BnB? Yes, but he doesnt know im here all day...lol he would just think im insane!!! lol
-Use Ov sticks? yes! even though he thinks is a waste.... he believes when im supposed to get pregnant i will. RIIIIGHT!
-Know you POAS as often as you do? No way! he will just think im crazy! lol he knows about once a month but not that i go crazy. even though he always ask me why i go to CVS and WALGREENS so much and spend so much money and never get anything! lol
-Know you have a collection of tests all ready and waiting? he knows because its right there.... but never mentioned anything.
-Know you check your CM?sort of.. he knows about EWCM
-Know you temp? I DONT TEMP SO.....
-Know you symptom spot as much as you do? nope. i just dont want to disappoint him.
only you ladies know. i mean he knows if is something thats really bothering me.



 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 11:36 AM   24
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What a fun thread! Ok here goes:

I try not to tell DH too much about my TTC madness. He's always there when im bawling over getting my AF, but it just makes him really sad, so I try to keep a lot of my frustrations to myself. Also, he is of the opinion that "it will happen when it has to happen", but I can never be that patient!!

So as to how much he knows:

-Does he(or she for the same sex couples) know you use BnB? Nope! He'd probably chide me for spending so much of my work time being on BnD
-Use Ov sticks? I've kept them in the office for convenience of use, and this is my first month using them. No he deoesn't know and probably won't be interested either.
-Know you POAS as often as you do? I don't POAS too much, the one time I did when i was late, he was very upset when he saw how sad I was.
-Know you have a collection of tests all ready and waiting? I have a couple which he does know about.
-Know you check your CM? Hehe, this one I've tried grossing him out, but he said I can keep the eggwhite info to myself!
-Know you temp? I don't
-Know you symptom spot as much as you do? Nope, all in my head and shared with BnB members only.

I am trying to keep the pressure off DH 'cause I know we need one sane person in the house! And I want to POAS when he's around, just in case we get a BFP!!



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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 13:23 PM   25
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Mine knows everything really from temping and opk's to being on this site. Hes on this site too and posts when he sees something interesting. I think he prob researches stuff more than i do as well lol



 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 13:27 PM   26
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Mine doesn't know I come on here, only because I found it LATE last night while he was asleep
He knows I used an OPK and that I POAS, but not how often I do it haha
Beyond that, I don't do the other stuff, and if I did I think the temp thing is all he would know about, b/c he wouldn't wannak now about checking CM, etc lol.



 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 13:30 PM   27
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lol good question!! My DH knows EVERYTHING, well maybe not all the POASing I do, but most of it! haahhahahah!! I actually said to him last night, "did you ever think you would know so much about TTC?" I am on my dam blackberrry every second so he knows all about BnB. I kind of wish I could have kept some of it a secret becasue I think he may be feeling the pressure and stress, which is not good!! I try to reassure him that everyting is oaky and it can take healthy couples many months to get pregnant.



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