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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 11:01 AM   1
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Can I whinge every month until bfp? Please


Hi girls,

I'm suffering from Deja vu yet again. My af arrived today yet again for another month!!!!!! I am so sick and tired of ttc! I'm sick of whinging to y'all Every month haha.
How kool would it be to KNOW when (hopefully not if) it's going to happen. How relaxed we could be.
I can't believe I have to do it all again, I'm sick of:
watching dates
trying to avoid certain things
no caffiene
no tablets even when I have a Migraine
checking myself when I wipe for cm!
Demanding sex from my husband
Deciding to do it every second day and then changing it to everyday just incase
BD in a particular position
Holding my stupid legs and bum in the air giving myself backache!
Counting counting counting counting days
waiting waiting waiting
only to get the af

Haha phew



 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 11:06 AM   2
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I know exactly what you mean! Am sooo sorry AF arrived. Sometimes I wish I could fast forward my life just for a bit, make sure all this work will be rewarded with a beatiful baby(ies). Then I feel like I can TTC in a bit more relaxed way! But since that doesn't happen, I guess all we can hope for is that we will see light at the end of the tunnel after all. These days I don't even remember the dates - I only go by CD... or DPO.... Lets hope for the best for all of us hard working ladies! I try to remind myself all the time that "God has a plan for all of us"...many to you and hoping you will get your BFP next month!



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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 13:11 PM   3
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I'm sooooo with you on that one. I'm sick of the 2ww - it is the worst thing EVER to have to go through. Time stands still and I feel like I could explode. I know how you feel hun. Here's hoping that the ugly is showing her face for the last time!



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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 13:12 PM   4
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Thanks so much keyahopes. Ur so sweet. Ya I guess each failed month is one month closer to our bfps.
It is so hard for us ttc, it sure does test your patience that's one thing.
Hope u get your bfp soon too honey. We'll get there



 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 13:12 PM   5
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Ug! I'm sorry hun. That frigging witch never knows when she's not welcome!!!



 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 13:16 PM   6
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Thanks Jolene. Ya I've definately lost my mind a few times too.

So sorry to see about your mc, u poor thing, hope your ok



 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 13:21 PM   7
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I'm coping a lot better than I ever expected thanx! Just want that now that leads to a sticky bean!!!!! Sending sticky your way babe



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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 13:28 PM   8
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U poor thing. U sure deserve your bfp Jolene, ur sticky is on it's way x x



 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 13:34 PM   9
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We'll get there some day ladies!!

The witch is on her way for me too. My cycles have all of a sudden shot up in length, last month I was 35 days. I'm day 34 and boobies are huge and cramps are every so often so I'll share a good old moan with you too.

On the plus side at least we can all have a glass of vino guilt free on Valentines day!!

xx



 
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Old Feb 9th, 2010, 13:44 PM   10
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Lol, so true. I'm sipping on a glass of red wine atm. Not that I drink often but I'm due to Ov on Valentines so I know after that there will be no alcohol again. Let's enjoy it while we can



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