everyone keeps telling me relax it will happen etc etc... so ive decided to take there advise if af shows her face this summer im gonna stop counting cycle days.. no temping no even timing bd just enjoy the summer with my oh.. if by september no bfp then im going back to the ttc..
anyone else thinking of doing this for the summer or awhile?
"Relax it will happen..." I hate when people say that!! - still I know they mean well & I think most of the time they are at a loss as what to say to us when they know how much we want a baby.
I think that if your happy to take a wee break from TTC then it can only be a good thing for you. Sometimes its what we all need, after all we all know how stressful TTC is.
I've recently come of a break. I was still watching my cycles as they were a bit irregular after coming off the pill but DH & I didnt plan BD or anything else. Sadly that didnt work for us as still no BFP but the break was worthwhile & I am feeling much more positive again & am actually excited about us TTC again.
I hope you enjoy your summer and that we all get our BFP's soon!!!
It is soooo annoying when people say that!!! ARGH
I am also going to try very hard to chill out x
Will still BD every other day just incase but want to chill a bit. NO pregnancy tests until i KNOW i am late and want to stop symptom spotting as it's draining and upsetting for not just me but my hubby too.
Really though I was preggo last cycle as I was 2 to 3 weeks late but NO!
Just finished A/F and on cycle day 5. My aim this month is to relax and spend time with my hubby and 4 year old son, just enjoy the summer.
You are right, the weather is lovely lets all just chill and have fun
I am with ya!! I actually have been on a break since my 2 chemical. I have decided what will be will. the only proactive thing i will be doing is the creighton model...which is charting my cm. but no tiimed bd, temps, opks. its really all in God's hands anyway!! good luck!
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