going to try relax

RedRose19 · May 22nd, 2010, 11:40 AM

everyone keeps telling me relax it will happen etc etc... so ive decided to take there advise

if af shows her face this summer im gonna stop counting cycle days.. no temping no even timing bd

just enjoy the summer with my oh.. if by september no bfp then im going back to the ttc..

anyone else thinking of doing this for the summer or awhile?

BabyMama2010 · May 22nd, 2010, 12:17 PM

"Relax it will happen..." I hate when people say that!! - still I know they mean well & I think most of the time they are at a loss as what to say to us when they know how much we want a baby.

I think that if your happy to take a wee break from TTC then it can only be a good thing for you. Sometimes its what we all need, after all we all know how stressful TTC is.

I've recently come of a break. I was still watching my cycles as they were a bit irregular after coming off the pill but DH & I didnt plan BD or anything else. Sadly that didnt work for us as still no BFP but the break was worthwhile & I am feeling much more positive again & am actually excited about us TTC again.

I hope you enjoy your summer and that we all get our BFP's soon!!!

K xxx

stenny29 · May 22nd, 2010, 13:06 PM

It is soooo annoying when people say that!!! ARGH
I am also going to try very hard to chill out x
Will still BD every other day just incase but want to chill a bit. NO pregnancy tests until i KNOW i am late and want to stop symptom spotting as it's draining and upsetting for not just me but my hubby too.
Really though I was preggo last cycle as I was 2 to 3 weeks late but NO!
Just finished A/F and on cycle day 5. My aim this month is to relax and spend time with my hubby and 4 year old son, just enjoy the summer.
You are right, the weather is lovely lets all just chill and have fun

reedsgirl1138 · May 22nd, 2010, 14:25 PM

I am with ya!! I actually have been on a break since my 2 chemical. I have decided what will be will. the only proactive thing i will be doing is the creighton model...which is charting my cm. but no tiimed bd, temps, opks. its really all in God's hands anyway!! good luck!

AliBoo · May 22nd, 2010, 14:32 PM

I was sick of this too as im sooooo impatient! How long have you been trying? Ive got by BFP today on my 9th cycle of trying so believe me they are all right - relax and it will come, trust me!!

RedRose19 · May 22nd, 2010, 14:38 PM

ive been trying since june

honey08 · May 22nd, 2010, 14:48 PM

if i dint use opk/pressed/charting etc im sure morgan wudnt be here, im the sorta "i like to know" person

goodluck x

reedsgirl1138 · May 22nd, 2010, 14:57 PM

i have been trying since tr in april of 09

AliBoo · May 22nd, 2010, 16:33 PM

I would definitely say I wouldnt be pregnant without my CBFM. As I ovulate on a different day every month! The CBFM ensured we Bd'ed at the right time!

I had a jenny renny reading which told me I would get my BFP in July from my June cycle I think that this helped me relax and what do you know BFP!!

May 22nd, 2010, 11:40 AM	#1
RedRose19 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Elite Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 10,428	going to try relax everyone keeps telling me relax it will happen etc etc... so ive decided to take there advise if af shows her face this summer im gonna stop counting cycle days.. no temping no even timing bd just enjoy the summer with my oh.. if by september no bfp then im going back to the ttc.. anyone else thinking of doing this for the summer or awhile?

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May 22nd, 2010, 12:17 PM	#2
BabyMama2010 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 498	"Relax it will happen..." I hate when people say that!! - still I know they mean well & I think most of the time they are at a loss as what to say to us when they know how much we want a baby. I think that if your happy to take a wee break from TTC then it can only be a good thing for you. Sometimes its what we all need, after all we all know how stressful TTC is. I've recently come of a break. I was still watching my cycles as they were a bit irregular after coming off the pill but DH & I didnt plan BD or anything else. Sadly that didnt work for us as still no BFP but the break was worthwhile & I am feeling much more positive again & am actually excited about us TTC again. I hope you enjoy your summer and that we all get our BFP's soon!!! K xxx

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May 22nd, 2010, 13:06 PM	#3
stenny29 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Scotland Posts: 339	It is soooo annoying when people say that!!! ARGH I am also going to try very hard to chill out x Will still BD every other day just incase but want to chill a bit. NO pregnancy tests until i KNOW i am late and want to stop symptom spotting as it's draining and upsetting for not just me but my hubby too. Really though I was preggo last cycle as I was 2 to 3 weeks late but NO! Just finished A/F and on cycle day 5. My aim this month is to relax and spend time with my hubby and 4 year old son, just enjoy the summer. You are right, the weather is lovely lets all just chill and have fun

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May 22nd, 2010, 14:25 PM	#4
reedsgirl1138 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Fredericktown, MO Posts: 11,227	I am with ya!! I actually have been on a break since my 2 chemical. I have decided what will be will. the only proactive thing i will be doing is the creighton model...which is charting my cm. but no tiimed bd, temps, opks. its really all in God's hands anyway!! good luck!

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May 22nd, 2010, 14:32 PM	#5
AliBoo Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Crewe, Cheshire Posts: 159	I was sick of this too as im sooooo impatient! How long have you been trying? Ive got by BFP today on my 9th cycle of trying so believe me they are all right - relax and it will come, trust me!!

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May 22nd, 2010, 14:38 PM	#6
RedRose19 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Elite Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 10,428	ive been trying since june

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May 22nd, 2010, 14:48 PM	#7
honey08 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: north yorkshire,uk Posts: 30,870	if i dint use opk/pressed/charting etc im sure morgan wudnt be here, im the sorta "i like to know" person goodluck x

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May 22nd, 2010, 14:57 PM	#8
reedsgirl1138 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Fredericktown, MO Posts: 11,227	i have been trying since tr in april of 09

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May 22nd, 2010, 16:33 PM	#9
AliBoo Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Crewe, Cheshire Posts: 159	I would definitely say I wouldnt be pregnant without my CBFM. As I ovulate on a different day every month! The CBFM ensured we Bd'ed at the right time! I had a jenny renny reading which told me I would get my BFP in July from my June cycle I think that this helped me relax and what do you know BFP!!

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