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Old Jun 22nd, 2010, 03:07 AM   11
Lyn
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Hey hon, I know its hard, really hard to control your emotions around babies. I spent the weekend with my very pregnant friend (due any time this week). But I really enjoyed myself 'cause I felt the baby moving, watched the tummy moving etc. It was a great feeling, and I hoped that one day I could experience the same feelings. And I was so thrilled for her, that her little one would be here soon and I could hold her and pamper her.

Then I meet some friends who have a 2 yr old and a 2 month old. Again, although I had pangs of "I wish...and why not me?" its hard to feel grumpy around a gurgling new born, innocent as the rainbow.

My point is, I know its really really hard, especially when people push their fertility into your face. I try to avoid such atrocious people, but I try to share the joy of friends with babies, hoping that one day I too could be in their situation! Hope this helps .....
Thanks for the advice, I think that I just had 3 intense days and ended up feeling like I was going mad, I do feel much better now I just need to keep some distance.

I'll just have to practice putting my happy face on in the future.

Thanks for your advice and good luck x



 
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Old Jun 22nd, 2010, 03:09 AM   12
Lyn
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I know some family/friends can be evil at times when they brag about pics and things they done with their kids or telling us there pregnant again and try to rubb it in our faces.

I try to ignore the negative/jealous things, but some things are just like a needle in your back

This forum keeps me calm and accepted
Yes you're right, ever since I came on here I've been feeling much better, I guess I just had a blip and felt incredibley guilty about it.

I'm gonna stay away from the friends who I don't need and just really be positive from now on.

Thanks for your advice and good luck x



 
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