Tips for ttc (: Hope this helps!

Lalababy2010 · Oct 12th, 2010, 12:43 PM

Hello ladies, I just wanted to post a few idea's for all the woman who are ttc.
I looked on here and got some really useful tips from other ladies who are also ttc, and it worked for me the first month of trying..
I am not rubbing it in so please don't think that, i just want to try and help other ladies who are ttc.

1, We had bd closer to my ovulating dates.
2, We had SEX 2 days before ovulating and on the day of ovulating.
3, Straight after having bd i held my legs in the air, i never put my clothes on because i didn't want to stand up. I kept my legs in the air for about half hour to an hour. And then when it got to the stage of being uncomfortable i held my legs on my chest for a little while.
I always made sure i went to the toilet before bd so i didn't feel the need to go after. After i held my legs in the air for that amount of time, i lowered my legs slowly and layed on my side for a little while with legs closed together, & then layed on my stomach as i was told this helps the sperm get to the egg quicker and faster. And i found from doing this, no sperm escaped. Until i stood up in the morning, but that was fine as hopefully the sperm had all ready done its business.
Apparently it's always good to have bd a couple of days before ovulating as the sperm stay inside for 5 days, and when the egg is released the sperm races to the egg..
Try different positions, try and make bd fun and affectionate.
But the only two positions that really work is missionary and doggy.
Woman say doggy is better as its deeper penetration. But either positions work just the same really (:
Try not to think about it too much, i know it's hard but it gets easier..
& try not to make bd feel like a hobby as this can lower the chances of conceiving.

If there is any more questions you would like to ask please ask them, I'll try and help as much as i can!
I wish all this could be easy for every woman, it's just so unfair..
Good luck to all you woman, hope these tips help a bit more.. Much love,
x

Kylarsmom · Oct 12th, 2010, 12:45 PM

Thanks for the tips!!

nicb26 · Oct 12th, 2010, 17:10 PM

thanks for taking the time to post this on the ttc column. h&h 9 months to u! x

angelwings666 · Oct 12th, 2010, 17:16 PM

Thanks hun, it's nice to see a success story

his.wifey08 · Oct 12th, 2010, 17:26 PM

so if u lay on ur stomach after sex it helps???

nineena · Oct 12th, 2010, 17:28 PM

I would say after 2yrs of trying before getting BFP and although its ridiculously almost impossible to do just relax and remember to enjoy each other as a couple and enjoy making love and spending that time together romantically.

ladybeautiful · Oct 12th, 2010, 17:35 PM

Thank you for the tips, lalababy! Just curious, (and if you don't mind sharing) were you taking prenatal vits and any other supplements or lube etc. while TTC?

It's so wonderful that you got your BFP in the first month of trying! Wish you a healthy and happy pregnancy and little bub!

zozololo · Oct 12th, 2010, 18:38 PM

on missionary, when my hubby pulled out, I found out that some fluid slipped out. I dunno if it was his sperm or my juice. On doggie style, it doesnt happen like on missionary. Do you have the same situation?

DarlingMe · Oct 12th, 2010, 22:17 PM

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Originally Posted by zozololo

on missionary, when my hubby pulled out, I found out that some fluid slipped out. I dunno if it was his sperm or my juice. On doggie style, it doesnt happen like on missionary. Do you have the same situation?

I noticed this last night. I was trying to think if it normally happens that way? Maybe it does since you mentioned and the whole deeper penetration thing!

And for those of us who put their legs in the air I also wanted to mention a pic I saw a pic on a TTC article. Tthe woman was turned upside-down with her legs where your head goes and propped up on the headboard/wall. It was much more comfortable than trying to hold them in the air, especially when trying to fall asleep!

Lalababy2010 · Oct 13th, 2010, 06:35 AM

Yeah i find it uncomfortable to lay on my side while sleeping, i was searching the net and i found some really good idea's and one of them was in fact to lay on your stomach.
I never used any supplements or lube.. Just naturally. But obviously using supplements help a great deal. And i also straight after having bd my oh popped a fat pillow under my pelvis and i also made sure i orgasmed straight after my oh did as orgasm pull's the sperm in deeper and helps the sperm reach it's destination. But i also have heard it's good to drink a lot of pineapple juice because it thins out your uterus wall, which will make it easier for the egg to implant.

Oct 12th, 2010, 12:43 PM	#1
Lalababy2010 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Scotland United Kingdom Posts: 390	Tips for ttc (: Hope this helps! Hello ladies, I just wanted to post a few idea's for all the woman who are ttc. I looked on here and got some really useful tips from other ladies who are also ttc, and it worked for me the first month of trying.. I am not rubbing it in so please don't think that, i just want to try and help other ladies who are ttc. 1, We had bd closer to my ovulating dates. 2, We had SEX 2 days before ovulating and on the day of ovulating. 3, Straight after having bd i held my legs in the air, i never put my clothes on because i didn't want to stand up. I kept my legs in the air for about half hour to an hour. And then when it got to the stage of being uncomfortable i held my legs on my chest for a little while. I always made sure i went to the toilet before bd so i didn't feel the need to go after. After i held my legs in the air for that amount of time, i lowered my legs slowly and layed on my side for a little while with legs closed together, & then layed on my stomach as i was told this helps the sperm get to the egg quicker and faster. And i found from doing this, no sperm escaped. Until i stood up in the morning, but that was fine as hopefully the sperm had all ready done its business. Apparently it's always good to have bd a couple of days before ovulating as the sperm stay inside for 5 days, and when the egg is released the sperm races to the egg.. Try different positions, try and make bd fun and affectionate. But the only two positions that really work is missionary and doggy. Woman say doggy is better as its deeper penetration. But either positions work just the same really (: Try not to think about it too much, i know it's hard but it gets easier.. & try not to make bd feel like a hobby as this can lower the chances of conceiving. If there is any more questions you would like to ask please ask them, I'll try and help as much as i can! I wish all this could be easy for every woman, it's just so unfair.. Good luck to all you woman, hope these tips help a bit more.. Much love, x

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Oct 12th, 2010, 12:45 PM	#2
Kylarsmom Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: USA Posts: 2,623	Thanks for the tips!!

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nicb26 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2010 Location: Scotland but from London Posts: 2,054	thanks for taking the time to post this on the ttc column. h&h 9 months to u! x

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his.wifey08 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 124	so if u lay on ur stomach after sex it helps???

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nineena Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Wigan...UK Posts: 1,361	I would say after 2yrs of trying before getting BFP and although its ridiculously almost impossible to do just relax and remember to enjoy each other as a couple and enjoy making love and spending that time together romantically.

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ladybeautiful Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: USA Posts: 474	Thank you for the tips, lalababy! Just curious, (and if you don't mind sharing) were you taking prenatal vits and any other supplements or lube etc. while TTC? It's so wonderful that you got your BFP in the first month of trying! Wish you a healthy and happy pregnancy and little bub!

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zozololo Trying to conceive (TTC) New BnB member Join Date: Oct 2010 Posts: 4	on missionary, when my hubby pulled out, I found out that some fluid slipped out. I dunno if it was his sperm or my juice. On doggie style, it doesnt happen like on missionary. Do you have the same situation?

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Oct 13th, 2010, 06:35 AM	#10
Lalababy2010 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Scotland United Kingdom Posts: 390	Yeah i find it uncomfortable to lay on my side while sleeping, i was searching the net and i found some really good idea's and one of them was in fact to lay on your stomach. I never used any supplements or lube.. Just naturally. But obviously using supplements help a great deal. And i also straight after having bd my oh popped a fat pillow under my pelvis and i also made sure i orgasmed straight after my oh did as orgasm pull's the sperm in deeper and helps the sperm reach it's destination. But i also have heard it's good to drink a lot of pineapple juice because it thins out your uterus wall, which will make it easier for the egg to implant.

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