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Old Nov 17th, 2010, 15:00 PM   21
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its awful theres people out there blessed with a child and just dont know how much.

@ Braven- 5 months or 5 years it still hurts us doesnt it.
i love given people advice and support i just cant feel really happy for any bfps unless trying for ages,its not that im unhappy with others bfp its just iv been waiting so long along with others and feel its about time.

@mountaineer-- lol i deleted at least 5 people of fb in last month

@mrsessex its crazy i know none of the other tests in batch gave me bfp b4 that one 8dpo. iv never heard of it

@bethen it may seem like a mean thread but i think its good for everyone to feel this is normal and it doesnt make u bad person
@seoj.iv tried some craxy stuff
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Completely understand...its very hard and can't imagine how much harder it might be in a year or so if it still hasn't happened for me. And I'm sure EVERYONE feels jealous and upset when they see something that they want really bad, but its how they choose to deal with those emotions. Its all about how you treat people. I'm a believer in karma...to a degree. Anyways...I always feel really bad when I see women on here who've been trying forever or who've had multiple losses and then the women/girls who are super fertile and try for no time at all and fall pregnant straight after stopping BC...but they're normal feelings for sure.



 
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Old Nov 17th, 2010, 15:01 PM   22
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Firstly I want to send out to all the ladies who have been trying for so so long. Have you all looked into fertility treatment or had tests?
I'm only on my 9th cycle ttc #1 and I'm losing the plot already so I can't even begin to imagine how it must feel to have been trying for longer. It does sting when people just fall pregnant straight away but we just need to stay positive and supportive to each other to get through this.
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Old Nov 17th, 2010, 15:04 PM   23
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dr refuses to test me as i was on depo.she said she will see me this time next year.if im not pregnant by febuary i shall ask for second opinion! x



 
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Old Nov 17th, 2010, 15:06 PM   24
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i saw this and tried to reply earlier, but internet crashed on me

i too feel this way it's been 29 months for me and dh and still no luck, my 3 best friends are all in the baby bay, one has a 4 yo boy and another on the way... she is single! the other has just had a little boy, and the 3rd had just told me that she is pregnant! she is only about 3-4 weeks gone, but it still cushed me! all 3 of them!

being left behind when you are longing to be up there with them and get that special sticky bfp!!



love and luck to you for your bfp coming soon!
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Old Nov 17th, 2010, 15:08 PM   25
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I went through this a few cycles ago, I'm on cycle 11 this mth and i can say it has gotten easier.

Although I have had to hide newly PG friends on facebook, just felt like it was being rubbed in my face

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Old Nov 17th, 2010, 15:10 PM   26
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dr refuses to test me as i was on depo.she said she will see me this time next year.if im not pregnant by febuary i shall ask for second opinion! x
Good luck! Sometimes you have to fight for what you should be entitled to.



 
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Old Nov 17th, 2010, 15:13 PM   27
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i know i was so upset i couldnt fight back.
she told me to just be patient the depo takes ages to get outta ur body
im not very patient



 
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Old Nov 17th, 2010, 15:16 PM   28
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Can't believe that...the things it would have been nice to know beforehand!



 
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Old Nov 17th, 2010, 15:19 PM   29
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i know he said altho depo wears off and it can take up to 5years to get pregnant as it remains in ur fatty tissues that why they say detox diets can help.
iv only started ovulating i think. x
she said its normal for it to take 3 years to get pregnant.they forced me into depo without asking me whether i valued my fertilty



 
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Old Nov 17th, 2010, 15:22 PM   30
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Oh my god, how is that possible? I had NO idea about depo taking so long to get out of your system! What is the detox diet? Have you tried that?



 
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