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Old Nov 27th, 2010, 23:26 PM   1
Feelcrazy
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The sperm shoots out after!


I'm sorry I know that's not a lady like title but I'm so annoyed! No matter what I do right after sex it just comes right back out. I even prop on a pillow. Lift my legs don't move. But I can feel it come out right away. Wve BD 4 times this week and I'm like what's the point! It's not staying up there!
Is this normal?
Will it hinder me from concieving ?



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Old Nov 28th, 2010, 00:02 AM   2
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Hi,

i know how you feel, i have that same problem, but i think i found a solution... i have started using the instead cup. aka, soft cup/moon cup google it and it will come up with what i'm talking about. i use it right after DTD and try to catch it all before it escapes, then insert, occasionally i have had DH ejaculate directly into the softcup then insert. sometimes the mood doesn't always lead to vaginal sex - tmi sorry.

but each time i take it out there has been nothing in it and there was no leakage, so i'm guessing that it all went up! hope this helps you.

good luck
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Old Nov 28th, 2010, 00:12 AM   3
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I'm sorry I know that's not a lady like title but I'm so annoyed! No matter what I do right after sex it just comes right back out. I even prop on a pillow. Lift my legs don't move. But I can feel it come out right away. Wve BD 4 times this week and I'm like what's the point! It's not staying up there!
Is this normal?
Will it hinder me from concieving ?
i dont think it will, the vast majority of that stuff is just sugars and lubricant to help the sperm get along on their journey! he ejects millions of sperm per ounce, just have faith and hang in there! *babydust!!*



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Old Nov 28th, 2010, 05:43 AM   4
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I think this happens to everyone, don't worry, like SuperRN says the sperm will be well on their way into your womb, all thats falling out is gunk you don't really need. Just relax and enjoy it, might help to orgasm again after he's ejaculated, helps his little swimmers on their way as the uterus will contract drawing them in. I'm going through the same thing at the moment, good luck to you hope you'll be posting exciting news soon x



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Old Nov 28th, 2010, 06:09 AM   5
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What needs to get up there, will get up there

I never held my in before and still got up the duffer
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Old Nov 28th, 2010, 06:49 AM   6
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This happens to me too, it always dribbles out as soon as OH pulls out. (Sorry TMI)
Think its completely normal, don't think it would stop you getting pregnant.
Good luck xx



 
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Old Nov 28th, 2010, 06:52 AM   7
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Have you tried just after he ejaculates then have orgasm then itll suck it up
sorry tmi
i get a cloth and as he pulls out i put cloth in way.ur more likely to get preg if the spermies stay in obviously but i doubt it would effect ur chances by much tbh xx



 
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Old Nov 28th, 2010, 06:54 AM   8
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To be honest it doesn't really matter too much - the sperm get to where they need to be in a few minutes, the rest of the liquid will come out no matter what you do. People can get pregnant having sex while standing up, so it's really OK. There's millions of them there and they know what to do and where to go!



 
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Old Nov 28th, 2010, 07:38 AM   9
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Im constantly having the same thoughts. When we DTD and I orgasm after DH has ejaculated, we stay 'close' for a while but as soon as he pulls out all the semen/sperm just seems to be pooling at the entrance to my vagina (sorry if tmi!!) I don't get up for at least half an hour, or more if at night, don't move until I get up but as soon as I do stand up it leaks out.



 
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Old Nov 28th, 2010, 07:43 AM   10
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if uv laid there for 20mins then all the spermies that healthy will be up there.
its the liquid that contains sperm.so its prob just sematic fluid spills out,all of good spermies would have got up there by then xx



 
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