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Old Dec 7th, 2010, 18:07 PM   1
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I am jealous...


Ok... so it was my birthday... and I only logon to facebook cuz of my friends' messages for me.

And then... I saw that this friend just gave birth to her first baby and she uploaded some pics there.... and so her baby has the same birthday as me!

I should be happy for her... but its really hard. I've been avoiding to go on facebook cuz this friend has been posting pics of her belly etc.

And not only that... it seems like they've been doing everything I wanted to do. Well I sort of did the same thing eventually, just that I had to put much more effort and time... For example, buying a house, doing renovation on the house, travelling, and NOW having a baby. I mean I should be happy for her cuz she has a great husband and a great family. But it's just like she's bragging every time I see her. She'd brag how much she can make and how easy she can change jobs, how she and her husband are good at renovating the house by themselves.... but the worst of all is the baby part...

Yet the worst is her baby was born on MY birthday... I just can't believe this... can anyone tell me this is actually a good sign?



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Old Dec 7th, 2010, 18:38 PM   2
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Dont really have anything to say but we all get jealous!, i think that she has had a baby and you want one, nothing to do with the birthday. It always hard when someone has what you want.




 
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Old Dec 7th, 2010, 18:41 PM   3
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Old Dec 7th, 2010, 18:56 PM   4
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aw hugs hun i am the same, one of my friends had her baby on my birthday and i was like NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO thats MY birthday, i t felt the child in me was kicking and screaming to the surface!

it prob isnt an obvious sign but it still could be lol

i look for signs in everything too for example at the beginning of this month i had a dream about my friends baby which had a really hook nose - actually does in real life as well lol bless him - and in my dream her baby turned into a stork, my reasoning was that when she has her baby i will get mine lol lol lol silly me!



 
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Old Dec 7th, 2010, 20:29 PM   5
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I hear you. I get upset too! I get sad when I see people with their children because I'm struggling to get one. Ny next door neighbor has a 17-year-old daughter who has a one-year-old son and is about to pop out her second baby. I hate when she walks by! She's always smiling with her big pregnant belly and holding her adorable son's hand. And we just found out my husband's best friend's girlfriend is pregnant so that's another pregnant person I have to be around. Sheesh! It sucks! But I know how you feel all I can say is stay positive and know that you'll get to see your bundle of joy one day.



 
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Old Dec 7th, 2010, 20:56 PM   6
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Oh no... I can't believe you had the same experience. I mean I wasn't saying that my friend's baby having the same birthday is a good sign for me... But this keeps us stay positive rather than negative right? I just thought that this would keep me from thinking my friend's son's birth ruined my birthday and like she has got all the good stuff.


Yeah I hope we'll be the next one!


BrainsBeauty,

wow... that sucks seeing your neighbor's daughter walking around with her pregnant belly! If I were you, I'd feel sad too. It just seems to be so easy for some people...

So yes... I have to treat my friend's son's birth on MY birthday to be a good sign so I can stay positive. Also good luck to you! I hope you can be the next one walking around with your pregnant belly showing to your neighbor



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Old Dec 12th, 2010, 20:06 PM   7
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I know exactly what you mean... my sister in law had her baby on my birthday and I was so depressed the whole day. Been trying for a long time now and she tried for about two months and now has this beautiful baby. She keeps txting me pictures and I dont even want to down load them... isnt that horrible!?!? Of course I always reply and try to sound really excited because who am I to be mad at her for wanting the same things I do... doesnt seem fair but all I can do is hope right?



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Old Dec 12th, 2010, 20:06 PM   8
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oh and not to mention... my other sister in law just annouced her pregnancy as well!



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Old Dec 12th, 2010, 20:24 PM   9
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AWWW, ((HUGS)) I think we all have this issue at some point...hope it happens for you soon hun!!!



 
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Old Dec 12th, 2010, 21:19 PM   10
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hugs!
i know what u mean , my facebook is usually spamed with babybumps



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