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Old Dec 10th, 2010, 01:47 AM   41
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I get those 3 comments too. Those comments make me so mad, but they fuel me to keep going just to prove them wrong. lol. I WILL get pregnant whether I am too fat, too young, or it's not the "right time".



 
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Old Dec 10th, 2010, 01:50 AM   42
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oh i got another comment yesterday in the office

i kept going for a wee i wee loads

and when i come back i someone said 'you sure ur not pregnant'
i was like 'i'wish'
they were like 'oh u dont want them at ur age'
'oh i do,iv been ttc 2 yrs'
'well thats ur problem,ur "trying"
'you dont know how i feel its alright for you uv had your kids,now why do u think it hurts me anyless then someone thats 30 trying for a baby,just think b4 u open that mouth of yours,you dont know anything about me'



 
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Old Dec 10th, 2010, 01:56 AM   43
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"jus relax and it will happen" or "jus trust in God, they come in His timing" is what i hear like all the time till i wonder am i that bad in my faith, well the relaxing part am not sure, how dyu relax after almost one year of trying?????



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Old Dec 10th, 2010, 04:10 AM   44
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I love this thread.


I just started typing some comments I have had, but its made me cry, and I had to delete them. Even my GP told me we were 'trying too hard'.

Sadly, I find that I am guilty of some of the comments here. When I get pregnant with my forever baby I am going to tell my TTC friend (my one in real life, not just here) before I tell anyone else. I know what its like to TTC then everyone around you gets pregnant. I'll tell her that I understand how she feels and have a cry if she needs to.



 
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Old Dec 10th, 2010, 05:22 AM   45
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We haven't told anyone that we are starting to TTC. As we know some of our family and friends would be nightmares and put pressure on.

We got married in March this year and all i have had since then is
"it's your turn next"
"when will we hear the patter of tiny feet?"
"Any news?"

I mean seriously people!! Back the f*ck off!!
It really bugs me that people think it is okay to question you on a very private part of your life.



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Old Dec 10th, 2010, 05:52 AM   46
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aw babyhopes! your trying! we are all trying! what idiots we are! why are we TRYING to get pregnant! i never knew all the pregnancies in the world happened because they werent tried for! doi!

yeah her face was a picture! honestly there is something inside me which mentally comes up with fantastic comebacks but my mouth never says them - apart from this one time! oh it was a-maz-ing! never to happen again prob but wow this woman was a right wotsit! lol



 
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Old Dec 10th, 2010, 14:16 PM   47
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Here is one I got like 10 mins ago
Are you pregnant yet?
No
Oh well I am, and it was by accident and im scared.



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 01:52 AM   48
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Here is one I got like 10 mins ago
Are you pregnant yet?
No
Oh well I am, and it was by accident and im scared.
i had one very similar to that a work friend said "your trying to hard, i didnt even try now look what i've got to deal with" - i really felt like smacking the girl specially as she knows i'm on my 7th month TTC

"your so young still why do you want to throw away your life, you've got loads of time"

got this one last night in a text this is it word for word "Remember i said i just knew one of us was gonna get pregnant this month and i really thought it was you, well obviously aint you anymore cos your on but natalies pregnant OMG i'm so excited can't wait it's gonna be great isn't it????"

some people can be so insensitive

but i do like this one from my OH "i know your upset but try to relax, of course it's gonna take us a while a premiership footballer takes time to produce, it's gotta have the best stuff"



 
Old Dec 11th, 2010, 01:56 AM   49
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Here is one I got like 10 mins ago
Are you pregnant yet?
No
Oh well I am, and it was by accident and im scared.
i had one very similar to that a work friend said "your trying to hard, i didnt even try now look what i've got to deal with" - i really felt like smacking the girl specially as she knows i'm on my 7th month TTC

"your so young still why do you want to throw away your life, you've got loads of time"

got this one last night in a text this is it word for word "Remember i said i just knew one of us was gonna get pregnant this month and i really thought it was you, well obviously aint you anymore cos your on but natalies pregnant OMG i'm so excited can't wait it's gonna be great isn't it????"

some people can be so insensitive

but i do like this one from my OH "i know your upset but try to relax, of course it's gonna take us a while a premiership footballer takes time to produce, it's gotta have the best stuff"
Hate the text message, but love your OH's comment



 
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Old Dec 11th, 2010, 02:34 AM   50
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Here is one I got like 10 mins ago
Are you pregnant yet?
No
Oh well I am, and it was by accident and im scared.
i had one very similar to that a work friend said "your trying to hard, i didnt even try now look what i've got to deal with" - i really felt like smacking the girl specially as she knows i'm on my 7th month TTC

"your so young still why do you want to throw away your life, you've got loads of time"

got this one last night in a text this is it word for word "Remember i said i just knew one of us was gonna get pregnant this month and i really thought it was you, well obviously aint you anymore cos your on but natalies pregnant OMG i'm so excited can't wait it's gonna be great isn't it????"

some people can be so insensitive

but i do like this one from my OH "i know your upset but try to relax, of course it's gonna take us a while a premiership footballer takes time to produce, it's gotta have the best stuff"

I really don't think some women will ever understand how hard, and emotional this is for some of us. Yeah yeah good for you, you got pregnant on a one night stand, while im over here popping all kinds of vitamines, OPKS, and proping my legs up, no need to rub it in anymore.



 
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